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sat sri akal,i am 17 year old boy,i want to become a keshdhari but there are much problems which surrounds me.6 months before i tried to become keshdhari,my father is a pure sikh and my sister also but on the other side my mom is hindu,i was not lucky like you who has kesh after birth,parents cutted off my hair ,anyway then i tried to become a keshdhari,i dnt cut off my hair for 3 months,my all friends,my brother,and my nanke make fun of me.as i dnt knw how to tie a turban,i had to hide my hair in some cap.people make fun of me and stare me like i am some clown.then i become frustrated and cutted off my hair.then time passed,with Guru's kirpa i started wake up at amritvela and start doing paath,even im my dreams Indirectly guru says me to become keshdhari.what to do now,i mean i want to become but there is too much hate,also i dnt even knw how to tie turban.pls help this moorakh:)

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VahegurooJiKaKhalsaVahegurooJiKiFateh

Guru Sahib says:

ਜਉ ਤਉ ਪ੍ਰੇਮ ਖੇਲਣ ਕਾ ਚਾਉ ॥

Ja▫o ṯa▫o parem kẖelaṇ kā cẖā▫o.

If you desire to play this game of love with Me,

ਸਿਰੁ ਧਰਿ ਤਲੀ ਗਲੀ ਮੇਰੀ ਆਉ ॥

Sir ḏẖar ṯalī galī merī ā▫o.

then step onto My Path with your head in hand.

ਇਤੁ ਮਾਰਗਿ ਪੈਰੁ ਧਰੀਜੈ ॥

Iṯ mārag pair ḏẖarījai.

When you place your feet on this Path,

ਸਿਰੁ ਦੀਜੈ ਕਾਣਿ ਨ ਕੀਜੈ ॥੨੦॥

Sir ḏījai kāṇ na kījai. ||20||

give Me your head, and do not pay any attention to public opinion. ||20||

Ignore all of them, do ardas to guru ji to bless you with his kirpa and gursikhi jeevan. Also, where do you live? We can try to tell you where you can get in contact with gursikhs, stop socialising with the friends that made fun of you, hang out with Gursikhs, and they can also teach you how to tie a dastar. You could also go the gurdwara sahib and ask a giani ji to teach you, there are also videos teavhing how to tie the dastar online, just search in youtube or have a look here: http://www.sikhnet.com/pages/tyingturbans

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Fateh ji paaji

Where are u from...no local singhs you can get in touch with to teach you how to tie dastar?

just keep practising and you will get the hang of it...everyones dastar only gets better over continuous

trying and practice...and if its your hearts desire, then just do ardas and waheguru will create a path

for you to be where you want to be

Gurkirpa...remain in chardi kala :)

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Theres vids online bhaji dont lose faith its all a test and with Guru maharaj's kripa u can do it ! think of yourself as one of the lucky ones who is on this path and have love in your heart piyara bhaji keep with good sangat who will help look for kesdhari/amritdahari sikhs your age via a youth camp or even Gurughar..

Stay in Chardikala singh !

Turban tying vids.....

These are a few but you must practice regularly it takes time and can get annoying at start

ps.. dont tie it tooo tight you might get headaches as did i when i started to walk in the sikhi path

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Here's an easy way to start tying a dastaar/turban

Try to get 5 and 1/2 meters of full voile material and get it properly stitched from someone or a shop that knows what they're doing.

To do a pooni (the folding), try to do it with someone and grab each end and slowly fold it inward while making sure the outside is clean. Someone can teach you how to do the pooni in person, i am sure a Singh would be more than happy to help you.

There are a lot of ways to tie the dumalla, it will be harder to start out tyiing dumalla because it's harder to get the base right. You can seach youtube for tutorials.

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i am a keshdhari women and i want to know that atleast can i shave my pubic hair as they have become quite long and i am feeling weird

What????????????????????????? Do you understand what the word keshdari means?
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i am a keshdhari women and i want to know that atleast can i shave my pubic hair as they have become quite long and i am feeling weird

Either you keep Kesh or you don't, there's no in between. You could talk to a woman about their situation if they keep those Kesh if it makes you more comfortable.
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VahegurooJiKaKhalsaVahegurooJiKiFateh

Guru Sahib says:

ਜਉ ਤਉ ਪ੍ਰੇਮ ਖੇਲਣ ਕਾ ਚਾਉ ॥

Ja▫o ṯa▫o parem kẖelaṇ kā cẖā▫o.

If you desire to play this game of love with Me,

ਸਿਰੁ ਧਰਿ ਤਲੀ ਗਲੀ ਮੇਰੀ ਆਉ ॥

Sir ḏẖar ṯalī galī merī ā▫o.

then step onto My Path with your head in hand.

ਇਤੁ ਮਾਰਗਿ ਪੈਰੁ ਧਰੀਜੈ ॥

Iṯ mārag pair ḏẖarījai.

When you place your feet on this Path,

ਸਿਰੁ ਦੀਜੈ ਕਾਣਿ ਨ ਕੀਜੈ ॥੨੦॥

Sir ḏījai kāṇ na kījai. ||20||

give Me your head, and do not pay any attention to public opinion. ||20||

Ignore all of them, do ardas to guru ji to bless you with his kirpa and gursikhi jeevan. Also, where do you live? We can try to tell you where you can get in contact with gursikhs, stop socialising with the friends that made fun of you, hang out with Gursikhs, and they can also teach you how to tie a dastar. You could also go the gurdwara sahib and ask a giani ji to teach you, there are also videos teavhing how to tie the dastar online, just search in youtube or have a look here: http://www.sikhnet.com/pages/tyingturbans

Just gonna quote this. Those words are so...no words to describe how profound they are.

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