Beard :)

[PranaamShaheedaNu]

I've kept my dhara a few times now and always end up cutting it. Like I get really down about my appearance etc, is it the right time for me to do it If I constantly question myself?

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[SunSingh]

yes, it is. you can build up your inner strength to keep your hair through meditation on bani (especially in the early morning), and through sangat. Basically, if keeping sangat with certain people causes you to question your identity, even if these people outwardly support you, it is a sign that you need to stop hanging out with them. If watching certain tv shows or reading certain books causes you to feel uncertain, than move away from those things. Go the gurdwara regularly and read about the shaheeds, sants, and gurus and you'll find that your mindset will become much stronger.

in other words, make the change internally and externally at the same time.

[KhalistaniGunMan]

the biggest problem ive heard from other people about keeping kes...is that no one will want to marry them and will be single....im just wondering how did we get so low on confidence...i think the youth is lacking some testerone