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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Please, please someone offer advice or something. I know to some this may sound like a minimal thing or even wrong (if so, please don't judge) but recently, without thinking, I just cleaned the dust of my table and off my laptop with a bathroom towel (which we use to wipe our bathroom floor). On the laptop, I had some webpages open about Sikhism etc, but the Chrome Browser was minimised. I feel really bad that I've just done that, and realised after. I feel extremely disrespectful (as for the past few days I haven't been thinking rightfully or as myself). I feel like I've done a huge sin and as I was cleaning the top of the laptop and the table below and around it, Waheguru Ji was testing me based on my thoughts and actions (due to my thoughts in the past few days). Please can someone offer some advice as to how I should feel and what I should do to minimise my feelings of regret right now.

Thank you to all who read this or post back to this.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

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Sat Sree Akal Jee,
please do not feel at all guilty.

As the real Bani is well within us, so ask yourself: how many of us, inspite of knowing this, we still do have bad thoughts in us and speak ill of others and harm others. Isn´t it.

Then, while taht real bani is within us, even then blood runs through our body, or even mal, mootar, are within our body?

Then what can we do about it, how can we clean all that within us?

So sikh jee, do not feel guilty at all. You are not at fault at all. The Bani, is Shabad.

The Bani is Naam, which is subtle than the subtlest.

The Bani says: taskar na leveh, jal na dubeh, bhaaeh na saake saarey. Means, fire can not burn it, water can not drown it and no theif can steal it.

Then khalsa jee, in which way have you done anything wrong to it, to the Bani?

SSA Jee.

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Thank you so very much Balkaar and _Sukhwinder Singh_ for your time and honesty. It means a great amount to me how one should feel when he's done something wrong etc and that is why I get so tensed about the thing I did. But yes, you're both right that I shouldn't get so worried and that the Bani is within us despite anything we may do or think. Thank you so much again to you both for understanding my worry and for taking your time to respond back with such depth and detail.

Also a very nice Shabad there from the Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh



Thank you so very much Balkaar and _Sukhwinder Singh_ for your time and honesty. It means a great amount to me how one should feel when he's done something wrong etc and that is why I get so tensed about the thing I did. But yes, you're both right that I shouldn't get so worried and that the Bani is within us despite anything we may do or think. Thank you so much again to you both for understanding my worry and for taking your time to respond back with such depth and detail.


Also a very nice Shabad there from the Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji



Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh


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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Thank you so very much Balkaar and _Sukhwinder Singh_ for your time and honesty. It means a great amount to me how one should feel when he's done something wrong etc and that is why I get so tensed about the thing I did. But yes, you're both right that I shouldn't get so worried and that the Bani is within us despite anything we may do or think. Thank you so much again to you both for understanding my worry and for taking your time to respond back with such depth and detail.

Also a very nice Shabad there from the Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

You're quite welcome brother :)

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