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Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fathe ^_^

well i ahve started to wear a patka around the house and my dad being NOt religous at all he has started 2 get angry with me he called me a freak cus i had it on

i went in his room and he said get that thing off your head

Its so annoying and upsetting at the end of the day i dont go clubbing or have drugs and he or my fmaily doesnt realise that but arent ffmailys supposed 2 encourage religon? :|

what shall i do i cant handle this no more! no.gif

arrandeep x :wub:

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Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

Firstly, Congratulations and I look up to you that u've chosen to follow the path of Guru ji's words.

Secondly, from past experience I can tell you that, and this is really sad, however, usually the people that discourage you the most from getting into sikhi are family, relatives. They'll tell you that ur too young, or not to go down that path cus u dont know how it is. Just try to be strong,

KMinAhu iqKI vwlhu inkI eyqu mwrig jwxw ]

khunniahu thikhee vaaluhu nikee eaeth maarag jaanaa

The path they take is sharper than a two-edged sword, and finer than a hair.

If you can't find support at home, look outside, there are so many people who will encourage you. On how to convince ur dad that what your doing is right, Im not sure what you would say. You can try to bring to his attention, the many Sikh's who gave their lives, had their heads cut off instead of cutting their hair. You were born into this awesome religion, and there are so many shaheeds who gave their lives for Sikhi, you want to respect them and everything that they've done aswell as follow Guru ji's words.

In the end if all the wacko.gif doesn't do anything, as Guru ji says:

jithe bolan hareeye authe changee chup....

Good Luck with everything

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

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vwihgurU jI kw Kwlsw!

vwihgurU jI kI &iqh!!

Sony is 100% correct. This path is difficult, and often times it is family that are the limiting factors.

I agree with you, your family should be supporting you, but remember, at this stage in the game, your family may not give you support, but your guru will.

I know it sounds difficult, but stay strong jee, look around for Gursikhs in your community, and never give up!

vwihgurU jI kw Kwlsw!

vwihgurU jI kI &iqh!!

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Id like to thank u sony and khalsa forever thank u for your help its so true

i live somehwere where there a muslims near the town a lot of ghora not many sikhs so there is no gursikhs !well young ppl neway

but im goin 2 be strong and i would give my life up for guru ji and sikhi

thankyou soo much !

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fathe

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Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

Thats great bro....thats a wicked decision u have made and i know guruji will give u the strength to carry on......just keep doing ardas.......i am also from a mix hindu...and RADHA SOAMI family :D @ .....at first its hard because they did have some stupid philosophy's about hair's not important etc...but anyways thats ur blessing that u have realise the importance of sikhi and trust me eventually they will understand cuz as u said u aren't doing anything wrong.......and sony bhenji said it all......

If you can't find support at home, look outside, there are so many people who will encourage you. On how to convince ur dad that what your doing is right, Im not sure what you would say. You can try to bring to his attention, the many Sikh's who gave their lives, had their heads cut off instead of cutting their hair. You were born into this awesome religion, and there are so many shaheeds who gave their lives for Sikhi, you want to respect them and everything that they've done aswell as follow Guru ji's words.

In the end if all the  doesn't do anything, as Guru ji says:

jithe bolan hareeye authe changee chup....

and also remember no one is higher than guruji

......when u decide to serve THE LORD OF THE LORDS, THE KING OF ALL KINGS..WAHEGURU...No one can break ur spirit...so keep being strong and have faith in guruji.... :wub:

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

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hello every1

thank you for replyin to my message, its true wot u all say so thanku rolleyes.gif

my mum is kind of mixed opinioned about it wen i wore my patka my dad blamed my mum as she goes gurdwara a lot but my mum also has mixed views she told my dad that if i want to wear a patka i may

btw im a girl :wub: Lol koi ne teek ah though

thankyou all for you help and support

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fathe

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i will remian strong as i wan t to follow in GURU JI'S path ^_^

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