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2 hours ago, simran345 said:

Admin/Mods can you delete the quoted post, and give the poster a warning. Take this kind of advice off, thanks. 

Everybody else that's busy writing on other posts, carry on, as obviously you don't care that this advice is wrong.  Suteh peye reho.?

 

I did post against it but it hadn't been moderated yet... sorry penji.

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6 hours ago, simran345 said:

Admin/Mods can you delete the quoted post, and give the poster a warning. Take this kind of advice off, thanks. 

Everybody else that's busy writing on other posts, carry on, as obviously you don't care that this advice is wrong.  Suteh peye reho.?

 

Anyone on here who's having a tough time, see a counseller. 

If you're from the UK contact your local IAPT service. 

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On 06/12/2017 at 5:15 PM, Guest BaldeepSingh said:

Dear Sangaath Ji,

I am a member of this forum, but I cannot write under my user name; out of shame! I have been married for quiet few years, and like any other marriage it has it's ups and downs, but since last summer things gone really bad. My wife been having an affair with her work colleague, where she works. We have two lovely boys together, but this is making me very, very distressed, it's beyond belief and on two different occasions i even tried to kill myself!! I really do not know what to do. She did admit the affair, but i cannot see myself living with her anymore. She has been exchanging filthy, dirty messages on Whastapp with a guy for the last 7 months, even had an abortion and I cannot just forgive her. My parents are telling me to divorce her. I really do not know what is going to happen, but please remember me and my childrens in your prayers because I am suicidal!! 

Go and see a counseller it's very important 

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Vahiguroo Jio kirpa sab Sikh kaum upar_/\_

you sound too western with russian roulette atey barrel...THAT IS THE ISSUE WITH SIKH KAUM DUKH BECAUSE WALKING AS A GURSIKH, WILL >NEVER< cause 5 evils because our love is with Vahiguroo in thought, words, and action...no kurr tv, communication..just Gurbani svaas svaas TRY IT!

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12 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

Here's JOHNNY !!! I am back and yes i didn't mean to hurt anyones feelings. I got a warning lol for the post of you know haha. Where would i be without you guys lol ?

It's not funny, imagine if he had actually followed the advice you had given him then what? 

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1 hour ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

I do agree people found my post offensive and yes it did upset many here lol. But if in real life the guy might be scarred of sucide death if he had followed what i written as i don't know his state of mind. And if he didn't not make it well that would have been a very very sad situation for everyone lifes would be wrecked big time. 

I am not getting at you or anything. But just be more careful of what you post next time. I am sure you wouldn't want your brother to commit suicide. Sorry if I appeared angry or aggressive in any of my posts, I just didn't want the OP to do anything stupid.

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Dear Sangaath Ji, I am the one who wrote the original post. Thank you for your advice, but I can assure you, if your missus run off with an arab sulle, you wouldn't be preaching the way you are preaching!!! It hurts! I gave all I had to her, I have sacrificed my family and friends for her, but I was paid by betrayal!! She left her kids for this filthy dirty sulle and it hurts!!!!  I was delusional for a long time!!!

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