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January 23, 2024 in GUPT FORUM

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Posted January 23, 2024

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Posted January 23, 2024

Sat Sri Akal

i m a girl from Punjab Residing in. Canada . I am from Sikh family from SC Caste(Shimmba) . My parents wants me to marry and they gave me choice that i can find my partner on my own . I never founf anyone sensible or caring . But now i founf a guy who is very mature caring and follows spiritual path in his life . He is from Sc caste (chmar). His family is also Sikh. When i told my parents they said u could have found anyone from general and BC caste we would have approved but we cannot marry u in sc caste . I tried convincing them he is well educated , mature person . His family is very good . That guy helped me alot at my lowest times and encouraged me to be positive in every situation. He made me a better person . I think thats all what matters . But i m confuse now how to convince my parents now . I acannot hurt them and i cannot loose such a beautiful soul from my life in form of partner just bcuj of a caste tag. Plz someone guide me .

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- Unpopular opinion - "Jatt" is not a caste
  
  By VSinghz7 · Posted Tuesday at 04:37 PM
  
  There are only 4 castes in India and Jatt isn't one of them. "Jatt" is a sub-community within a caste, not a caste itself. And we (I'm jatt so don't call me offensive lol) aren't even that high, we only rank 3rd out of the 4 castes but have become very respected due to our presence in Punjabi media and the amount of land we own as a community. How is being proud of being Jatt "wrong" in Sikhi - we're not proud of our "caste" (we can't be cos it's not even a high one lol). If anything, Jatts have helped beat the Indian caste system. We literally rose from its bottom to people admiring our lifestyle. So "Jatt" shouldn't be a taboo topic in Sikhi until it becomes one (eg: making "Jatt Gurdware" like Tarkhans did)
- Sikhi matrimonial site recommendations
  
  By VSinghz7 · Posted Tuesday at 04:17 PM
  
  Try your local Gurdwara, I don't know about you but one of my local ones actually has a board for it. And for some reasons a lot of Granthis out here double up as like the Pind matchmaker. I recommend you go for it but it IS sorta funny to those not looking at getting involved, it's like Name: Jaspreet Kaur Family Background: Jatt Sikh (Amritdhari) Job: Finance manager or Name: Gurpreet Singh Family Background: Ramgarhia Sikh Job: Teacher
- Knowing What Caste U Are By Ur Dastar...
  
  By VSinghz7 · Posted May 6
  
  Anyone linking the "kenyan" style turban to Ramgarhia caste is stupid lol. It came from the Jat-only Sikh Regiment in British India (folded, starched single dastar without a pinch). It's called "kenyan style" as Kenya is where it's most popular today and has a lot of Tarkhan living there but it's originally from Jatts in India. Dastar actually opposes caste as a concept anyway so it really doesn't matter.
- Sikhi matrimonial site recommendations
  
  By karandeep12 · Posted May 5
  
  you can use nrimb.com this matrimonial site is very helpful to find Sikhs and other matches for marriage in Canada.
- Do you iron your kenyan turban ?
  
  By VSinghz7 · Posted May 3
  
  Is there a need to insult someone's Dastar style? Feel some shame When you see a Sikh wearing a Dastar you should smile and think "that's my brother" ,not laugh at how he chose to tie his Pagh. Maharaj made a brotherhood in the Khalsa not a fashion contest.

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