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Help Please
by Guest girl in need- 6 replies
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hi all just wondering if you guys and girls could help me. i know this is a very sensitive topic area but suggestions are very urgently needed. i am 21 and at university. i have a mixture of different types of friends - both sikhi inclined and otherwise. one of my mates has told me that she is pregnant - out of wed-lock of course and it was the result of a one night stand. she is now considering an abortion. what should i tell her to do? please advise thank you
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Really Confused 1 2
by Guest Guest- 10 replies
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basicaly im 23 and thinking of going to uni. i didnt go before becuase i had some health problems. but i think im better now. the only problem is i wanted to do medicne and its quite a long degree along with the training. i just feel that ive gone behind so many years. and other people will be ahead of me. ie i know friends that are coming to the end of their degress and i havent even started mine. i also feel that alot of people will be getting married soon. and i wanted to get married around 26 but people will be like. hmmm im still doing my degree. i basicaly dont like the ide of getting married and still doing my degree at the same time. i also a…
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Receiving Amrit 1 2
by Guest _learner_- 10 replies
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vaheguru ji ka khalsa, vaheguru ji ki fateh !! sangat ji, i may receive amrit very soon with guru's kripa but, thre is one problem!! i have to undergo a surgery this summer and it will take about a month to recover afterwards. now, for surgery, of course i wud have to remove my kakkars, whtever doctor suggest , and secondly, during recovery , for dressing up the wound, the area would be shaved ... so just wanna know, wud then i be breaking amrit?? thanks ji
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Forgiveness
by Guest HSH254- 8 replies
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I have done a lot of bad things in my life. Nothing like murder before anyone thinks that lol, but things which against sikhi. I'll be honest and say, mostly kaam related stuff which i am not proud of and deeply regret now. Recently ive been getting more and more in sikhi and making an effort to become a better person and sikh. Making an effort to read more about our beautiful religion and our great history. Ive read some rehitnamas recently which detail things which are greatly prohibited and what happens to those who have committed these things. That made me think, will the Guru/God forgive all the bad things i have previously done? Is it a case of that you've done x,…
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Problem
by Guest _GUPT_- 4 replies
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vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ke fateh erm i don't really know how to say this but as bibia and singh's we have alot of hair and we don't remove it. with bibia i feel its different but to the point i don't really think my fiancée understands about bibia having hair on their legs, armpits etc. how can i make it clear to him? as i am very shy i don't want to just say it straight up so has the sangat got any idea's how i can make it clear to him? vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ke fateh
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Hello, can anybody tell me how to tie a FIGHT PROOF dastaar for martial arts like kick boxing , thai boxing etc ... How do I tie it the best so it hardly get loose or fell off? Furthermore I would prefer to make thejura in the back , because if someone hits the joora , the pulling is too hard... Please some input and serious help.
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Hindu Sentiment And What Is Quam?
by Guest Happy- 3 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh This is general a topic, and is here to gauge people's opinion on two issues. First of all thanks to the Sikh Sangat for allowing open air discussions. The first topic I want to address is what I see a growing a trend among Sikhs in the west, UK, Canada, US etc. there is a lot of anti-Hindu sentiment. Now people are understandably against 1984 and this has left a bad taste, but shouldn't we label these people as bad doers and not put all Hindus into that lot. A lot of us don't but the majority of Sikhs hold a grudge. My main point being forget Hindus/Sikh divisions inwards into the panth, develop yourself and the panth. We are…
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Jaap with tongue 1 2
by Guest Kaur- 11 replies
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What is it called when the tongue automatically starts reciting Mool Mantar or gur Mantar. What is this stage? What can be done to progress spiritually
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Pimples
by Guest gupt- 9 replies
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WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA!WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH! I have pimples whole year i have one and three pimples in my face.my face is never clean of pimples. When i was taking medicine and applying it in face till that time it was clear but after completion of course when i had stop taking medicine pimples started again. Some days b4 the problem increased due to dandruff in my hairs.....as dandruff falls in my face the face becomes pimpaly Now dandruff is controlled till i use dandruff shampoo it is controlled otherwise it is back again. Whenever i have to go in function i feel so awkward due to ugly pimples in my face. I am becoming inactive b'coz i feel not confident about my …
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Sant Varyam Singh Ji Khalsa Ratwara Sahib Vale
by Guest sevadar- 6 replies
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VJKK VJKF! Does anyone have the recording of when Sant Varyam Singh Ji had darshan of Guru Nanak Sahib Ji whilst doing katha??? previous link is inactive. Thankyou.
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Illnesses And Diseases
by Guest ........- 3 replies
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Vaheguru Jee Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh! An amritdhari Gursikh I know has not been too well, as well as quite a few illnesses and diseases he has just been told he has another medical problem which will involve an operation.He seems very distressed and upset. He will remind himself that this is Vahegurus hukham every now and then and so does everyone else, but still he seems to be sooo upset as its just another thing after another for him, and this last one has just topped it off and hes even more upset about it all, before he was accepting it as Waheguru's hukham but I think it's getting to him now.... I know its easy for us to say just think of it as Vahegurus huk…
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Taking Amrit Without A Full Kesh And Dhari?
by Guest Deep- 2 replies
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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh! Is it possible to take Amrit whilst you are still in the process of growing your kesh and dhari? I have been told that it is down to the discretion of the Panj Piyare carrying out the ceremony. I stopped cutting my hair over a month ago and it is still pretty short (about 2 inches) and my beard is only about a cm long at the moment. There is an Amrit Sanchar taking place near me in about a weeks time and I am a bit nervous because of this. I know it would make sense to wait but what if I get hit by a bus tomorrow? I'm not really willing to wait another 9.4 million lifetimes to get another chance. Is there anyone out there tha…
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Some People Are So Disrespectful In This Forum Why
by Guest I love Everyone- 7 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh I have been reading some topics and some people are so disrespectful in this forum. Why cant they just be peacefull instead of giving rude comments. LIKE COME ON, ITS A SIKH FORUM. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh
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Do I need to go pesh? (I was spiked)
by Guest Harsimran- 6 replies
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Vaheguroo ji ka khalsaa vaheguroo ji ki fatehh i recently came back from visiting hazoor sahib for the first time I feel ashamed and violated. i was just outside the takht complex with 20 other “gursikhs” who were all in their bana and wearing shastar they handed me a drink telling me it was rattani which I thought meant rose water however I took one sip and immediately realised this wasn’t rose water but was infact alcohol I questioned the “gursikh” who handed me it and he starting laughing and confirmed it was infact alcohol they were all drinking it and said this is true “Sikhi” and that if I don’t like it I should go somewhere else I felt ashamed of …
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Making Fun Of Name 1 2
by Guest Proud Sikh- 10 replies
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SSA Hi, basicaly I started sighing on at the job centre for the last 9 months. Because I was made redundant. I was actually in a high flying job. But anyway. I dont know if I'm being over senstive. But when the advisors at the job centre call your name out. This guy kinda called my name out in a strange way. Like he had never comes across the name 'Singh' Before. and the advisor next to him she started smiled at him in a cheeky way. The fact of the matter is. I live in a multi cultral area. And I'm pretty sure that the advisors have come across the name Singh before. Whichleads me to belive that they were just trying to have a dig at me. I was very angry b…
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then.
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Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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