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Should You Follow Heart When Finding A Partner For Marriage? 1 2
by Guest Confused- 10 replies
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Hello everyone I am a lil confused on what to do! my problem is that i have liked someone for a very long time and i know we are suppose to stick to arranged marriages for various reasons, but dont you think i will be cheating my partner if my heart is elsewhere! I recently heard of a gursikh husband and wife from the UK that have spilt up because the wife had strong feelings for her previous boyfriend! she would not stop keeping in contact with him way into her marriage and their relationship paid the price, taking this into consideration dont you think it would have been best for her to marry the first guy! and not waste time with this new guy! I would never want to …
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Guys Only..please Help
by Guest OMG- 6 replies
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Hey guys, Im 19 and im having problem.My problem is im having phimosis.I dont know what to do! i havent tried anything.Please give advice on this please. Thanks!
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Basics Of Sikhi
by Guest Devils Advocate- 5 replies
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Why isn't Jagraj Singh covering important current topics such as the burning of saroops in Jodhpur by chele of freezer guru & Sangarsh of Gurbachan Singh on his site?
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Should Vedanti Talk To Gujjar Leader, Convert To Sikhs
by Guest Guest- 6 replies
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One can see how hardworking gujjars in rajistan are discriminated and now bluntly daily killed in police firing. Can we Sikhs put in our fold. If they convert their religion from Hindu to Sikhs. Their children can get Educated in Sikh institutes Under minority certira. Also Sikhi swroop with enhance their character. Do our religious Sikh religious leader need having talk with their leader. Akali dal in Rajasthan will get Social political strength too. Also any future khalistan need to add parts of Rajasthan in its place as it give Nice place to do nuclear tests for weapons What sangat thinks. Should we send a request to our jathedar Vedanti to sen…
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Insomnia
by Guest weirdo- 5 replies
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i have a problem... i cant sleep! i havnt slept in ages i seem to sleep roughly an hour a nite and have sharp pain in my head and seeing as i dont sleep i feel a wreck in the day n soo unlively which is not like me... Its a problem because i feel soo sleepy in the day and just want everything my way n be grumpy and fall asleep in lessons its a painn as i got exams and cousework to do. i do not smoke or drink soo i cant seem to think what it is... apart from a few thingz that may be on mynd but they're nothing major... if ne1 has anyy advice i wud much appriciate it...
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I want to move to London for my University course? 1 2
by Guest Kaur- 14 replies
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So im 22 years old and i am thinking about moving to London to do a postgrad course. But as a sikh girl that isnt married i just feel like it would not be appropriate. What do you think ?
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Searching For Shabad
by Guest new- 5 replies
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Gurfateh Ji, I'm looking for a recording (audio or video) of the shabad "Ta Ko Dhoka Kaha Biapey " as sung by Bhai Nirmail Singh Khalsa Ji. Would be happy if anyone has a recording of the above and share it here.. Thanks and Gurfateh.
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Relationships
by Guest GuptSingh- 7 replies
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Im at that age where parents and myself are looking for a wife for me. However, I keep reading and get told by singh that 70% of girls have had their first “serious” relationship with Muslims. The thing is ive never been in a relationship before and do not want a wife who has been with muslims etc. Is it likely that i will find a wife like that. Are there any pure sikh girls left anymore?
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Naam Simran While Engaged In inappropriate Activity
by Guest gupt- 4 replies
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I try to move away from lustful activities as I feel that it makes us forget about God. But you cannot always control Kaam. For this reason, sometimes while engaged in sexual activity, I start chanting Waheguru's naam in my mind. My question is, which is worst? (or is it ok? )remembering God or completely forget God while doing such deeds. I am not amritdhari. I am mona and have an urge to become amrithdari sometime in future when I am completely ready. The sexual activity above, I am referring to is just 'fooling around' with my gf and not sex. I am going to marry this girl next year. Please give me your thoughts only on the above posted question only. thanks Wahegur…
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Pic Of The Week
by Guest wondering :)- 7 replies
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i love the pic of the week, does anyoe know where's it from, or if there are more? :lol: ( for week beginninn 5th Nov )
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Accident
by Guest _gabroo_- 6 replies
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i needed some advice regarding a car aacident. basically a car rammed the back of my car. since then i have had some pain in my neck. im quite angry at the driver of the vehicle. ive heard about making a claim via a solicitor. but ive also heard you can make claims via your own insurance provider. any advice??
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--shall I Take Amrit?--
by Guest --gupt--- 4 replies
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Guru fateh! Khalsa toha waheguru da representative honda.Waheguru da bande mitha bolda,gussa nahi karde or unsa sabha pyar karde kyuki unka nature hi inna changa honda ki jitha jande sabha mann jeet landa. But my nature is totally opposite whereever i go mostly peoples hates me. I love chanting god nature.I want to take amrit.But b'coz of my behaviour & because i am not success in anything i am thinking that if i take amrit i will become representative of guru ji.I will try to improve my behaviour until i can but many things i can't so what i do shall i am able person to take amrit? Also i like to share one thing that i have done lots of sins in my life because of…
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I Don't What To Do
by Guest Guest 1- 8 replies
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Waheguru Ji......... In The Hour My Need I Beg Forgiveness To Banish My Sins Wgjk Wgkf I can't live like this, I took a person's life. I was charged with manslaughter I stabbed a father, son, husband, brother to me. Everyday i wake up, my thoughts are about the man I killed , how i ended his innocent life, now the guilt after 10 years is taking its toll. I can't cope with the guilt anymore
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-lost-
by Guest _lost_- 9 replies
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i am lost....i need a way back to my guru....i dont know wat is wrong with me...i have left my paath....where i use to listen to it daily n now i just dont....i dont know why whenever i listen to kirten i feel so bad that i even stop listenin...i know im at fault...every time i try motivating myself into doing the paath and the next moment i will be doing something else...i had a plan to fully prepare myself before taking amrit...but i guessed i have failed....there are also alot of things that is distracting me from getting back on the right path...i do realize my mistake but i just dont know how to make it right again.. i am already going back to my old wayssssss......…
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wearing red uniform 1 2
by Guest red uniform- 17 replies
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wjkkwjkf. so i have a job at emirates airlines and ofcourse as my uniform i have to wear red. I am amrtidhari. i understand that red is something the hindu army used to wear but is that even relevant anymore? why is the colour red an issue? it's not written anywhere in any rehats apart from nihang and taksaali rehats and i recieved amrit from an sgpc gurdwara so it's not in my rehat but most iportantly not in bani that wearing red is wrong. anyone that says that red invoke lust has some serious explaining to do. that's like saying wearing ankle socks invokes lust because i can see other people's skin and it isnt a sikh thing to do. i go to work and earn my money honestly …
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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