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Feeling A Bit Down 1 2
by Guest ehauehuaehu- 12 replies
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why do Sikh families look down on the turban/beard so much? My cousins from India phoned me today after seeing a picture of me, for the following reason "trim your beard down, it looks gross" I was shocked. I politely told them to leave me alone and that it didn't bother me. A few weeks ago we were at my cousins wedding. My brother is a mona who was convinced to tie a turban that day. Everyone kept coming up and telling my brother how great he looked, then came up to me and told me to learn how to "clean up" based on how my brother looks. My parents also always comment on my brothers appearance, while never saying anything positive about mine. Ever. These little thin…
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Im Starting To Hate Everyone And Everything 1 2
by Guest anonymous- 10 replies
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I am a young sikh taken amrit its been 4months now I useto love everybody urbut ever since I have taken amrit I hate everyone everyone I see and anythibg they do get so much on my nerves. Its not hormons or anything. People are so arrogant and ignorant I kniw I am to being arrogant but im becoming like this cause of all these people. Egeryone who wears chola think there to great to help a fellow sikh out. Everyone keeps everything gupt and when I need help noone helps me. Everyone who wear chola think there to cool for me. Everyone whos doesnt wear chola talk about really dirty things and are not in rehit. Im stuck in the middle idk what im doing anymore. So stupid I…
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Should meat be allowed on Gurudwara premisis 1 2
by Guest UK Punjabi- 18 replies
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On one side it is said that meat should not be allowed on the Gurudwara premisis, and on the other side it is overlooked. The Gurudwara in Strood, Kent UK has 2 premisis, and on both meat is allowed, this is widely known but no one does anything about it.
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Martrimony Lists 1 2
by Guest Anon- 14 replies
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Hi, I'm just wondering if any of you have used Gurdwara matrimony lists? Have they been any any good? Are there any other Sikh places that people can recommend?
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Reading Nitnem Off My Ipod?
by Guest J.singh- 3 replies
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Theres an app called gurbani anywhere on the app store which lets me read nitnem in english and punjabi, so its ideal for me because i cant read punjabi that well but if if i had the rnglish version with the punjabi version it would be easier to refer to it when i get stuck? But i don't know if reading it off ur mobile device is okay because the whole point of Amrit vela is to be away from all the electronic devices and be in a pure envirmoment ?
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Are Sikhs Aloud To Eat Meat?
by Guest I.singh- 2 replies
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Alot of websites are saying u are aloud, but i dont believe them! So are we aloud or not? And could u pls tell me some quotes from sri guru Granth sahib ji if possible ? Thanks Wjkk wjkf
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Some Queries
by Guest op- 1 reply
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I have some queries in my mind.. 1. Can we listen to audio Nitnem in sleeping position? 2. Do we have to do ardas after audio nitnem ? 3.i know about rehraas sahib and Kirtan sohila time but what time for morning baani s like japuji sahib ? 4. Can we recite baani in mind or have to recite out loud ? Thanks
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Bairaag
by Guest Guest- 8 replies
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How does one control themselves from feeling upset because of separation from Vaheguru. Nothing seems to make Daas happy in this world. Everything seems lowly and empty compared to Saach khand. Daas really misses the love from Vaheguru. What can Daas do apart from paath, sangat and simran? Gurfateh
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Socailising In The Gurdwara?
by Guest hakx singh- 1 reply
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wjkk wjkf okay so i lived in birmingham for all my life, all my friends family and everything was set, we lived next to a gurdwara and we used to go regularly and everthing was good and there was a big sikh community, but recently i had to move to move up north coz my dad got a good job there so i had to leave birmingham and leave everyone and start all over basically, and so i did, ive been living here for a year now and ive made friends and school and everything but ive started to dred going to the gurdwara...i live close to a gurdwara here too but considering there arnt much sikhs up here theres not much sangat in the gurdwara's, and coz theres little sangat everyone …
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Taking Kakar Off..
by Guest navraj singh- 3 replies
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wjkk wjkf okay so ive been doing mma (mixed martial arts) for about a year now and i have a match coming up which requires me to be topless and wear headgear...usually when i go for training i do a pagh and i keep a mini blunt shaster beetween my pagh and patka lol. but this is my first proper fight and i wont be able to wear a pagh so im gonna do like brades or something like a couple professional singh mma fighters do but i feel kinda wrong about it coz i will not be able to wear my kanga or kirpan and my head will not be covered.. i will do my ardass before i take my kakar off and after ive put them back but still. i love martial arts and i wanna carry on doing it be…
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Notations Of Shabad
by Guest bravekaur- 0 replies
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ssa everyone!!! need help.... cn anyone provide me the notations for the shabad "kab gal lavange"... thanking you all in advance....
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Grandmother Carehome Issue
by Guest Justice- 0 replies
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Hello sangat My family and I are in abit of a situation, my grandmother was taken into hospital a few weeks ago aftwr having suffered a stroke and brain hemmoraging. Doctors kept telling us she has a few days, but she miraculously keeps fighting back- she has been truly blessed by Babaji and ardas, there is no doubting that. She cannot speak but uses her strength to move her mouth to paath, and responds alot when we do simran near her- her faith is inspiring. Her death wish was to die at home, but recently, a family who has had allegations against them of abuse is trying to stick her in a hospice to live out hwr last days. The younger brother of the father of this fami…
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Help
by Guest Manmuk- 4 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka khalsa veheguru ji ki fateh My kesh got tangled and i tried to under it but some kesh kind of snaped in the knot does that mean i have to go for pesh?
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Advice Needed Quickly
by Guest WannaControl- 4 replies
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What is the best way to control kaam ie the m word? Help this sinner pls
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is this compliant with taksal maryada?
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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