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keeping secrets from your partner 1 2
by Guest singh- 10 replies
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WGKKWGKF Please serious answers from Amritdharis. I am planning to get married soon. I want to live a good gurmat amritdhari life. But I am in dilemna regarding telling my future wife about my bad deeds before I became a Sikh. By the grace of God I came onto the spiritual path of Sikhism. Before I became a Sikh, I had relations with a girl (no sex). We wanted to get married but it didn't work out. It is in the past and I have since become a sikh. Indeed I see my life before and it feels like it is that of someone else. How am I supposed to share this with my wife to be? Especially as I am now very orthodox and refuse to enter into an emotional relationship before marr…
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Looking for a partner 1 2
by Guest Singhh- 16 replies
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I am a 22 yr old singh who is looking to get married but there are amritdhaaris in my area and my parents don't know any amritdhaari families. What's the best way of finding a gursikh partner? I've already tried speaking to a few gursikh elders but I got the feeling they had more important things to do.
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I was wondering what are one of the shortest path thankx.
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CHHABEEL
by Guest banana.com- 1 reply
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How do you make Chhabeel?
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Holland smagam
by Guest questions- 0 replies
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Fateh ji, Can anybody tell me where coaches will be leaving from the UK for Holland smagam... I need to go from Gravesend? And how to book my place???? Thanks
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Ive done so many mistakes but now im on the path of waheguru ji. I feel lost, i try to wake up at 445 take ishnaan and do nitnem japji sahib, jaap sahib and anand sahib bt i havent been successful in waking up at 5 everyday somedays i would wake up at 8 or 9 and do the nitnem that time. I wish to meet waheguru ji and take amrit. But i also worry what people at my work or in family gna say i do eyebrows and waxing my facial hair. I need waheguru ji to guide me so i can meet him.
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i met this guy 2 years ago. We both love each other and family knows that too and have no problem with our relation. We both r sikhs. He is not blessed with amrit though but i m. We had s*x before I was amritdhaari but i continued it twice even after being an amritdhaari. It's a bajhar kurehet and i know i m no longer an amritdhaari. Also, I m 20 and he is 21. We cant get married yet because we r not settled enough to get married. I honestly dont want to do peshi but i have asked for forgiveness like 1000 times from guru sahib. and have done lots and lots of paaths till now. I am very confused. I m no longer an amrithdhaari? no logic of wearing 5Ks? no logic of doing nitn…
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Anyone live near Heathrow Airport? - need to park the car - will pay 1 2
by Guest Heathrow- 12 replies
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WGJKK WGJKF Does anyone live near heathrow airport who has a spare space on the driveway? Im going away for 3 weeks and need to park my car somewhere...... thanks
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Alright to do sehaj paath without santheya
by Guest ardaas- 6 replies
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WJKWHF i wanted to ask that i have not completed my full santheya for guru granth sahib ji but my family wants to move into our new house and my dad wants my family to do the sehaj paath instead of granthis but like i said i havents finished santheya and no granathi is availalbe to give me santheya and my dad says it is not bad to read guru granth sahib if you now perfect punjabi, and i do know how to read punjabo perfectly so should i listen to dad and do the sehaj paath or wait a long time to finish santhya then do sehaj paath ( doing santhya online is going to take a really long time and we want to move into new house before winter)
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Want to learn more
by Guest Qdot- 4 replies
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Hi. I have been reading this forum for a few weeks now and this is my first post. I was wondering for a while now about Sikhism. I am a Sikh (well I am how I define..) but I have recently wanted to learn more. Being a regular London guy, I go Gurdwara often (would love to go more!) but when I think about I do some things right and other things "wrong" So on my journey to learn more I now read paath on my phone but in English since I can't read punjabi. The question I had was...on my phone is reading this disrespectful?! Is reading whilst on tube to work bad? Sorry if these are silly questions...I just thought you guys could share your opinions and views. How else c…
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Daas needs Amrit asap. When is the next sanchar please? London or south east. Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh
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ADMIN HEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLP! my Account wont work :S
by Guest Help meeeeee!- 0 replies
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Hi, This message is really aimed at the admin people inchrage of this website, My account has stopped working and it wont let me log in, It lets me c hange my password but still won't let me log in. I sent an e-mail requesting help to SikhSangat @ live. com but got no reply, The only way I could get a message accross to you is through this GUPT anonymous forum because it's the only one where i can post without logging in to my account. Can you please tell me what to do to get my account up and running again? thanks
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I am a white girl. I am very open, accepting, and curious about the Sikh religion. I have many Sikh friends who I ask questions of. I live in Surrey BC, and are surrounded by them. A little less than a year ago I started dating a very "Canadianized" Sikh man...I'm just going to refer to him as M for now. He flirted with me for many months actually before I finally said ok I'll go out with you...he had kind of won me over. We started dating and I fell in love WAYYYY too fast, but he kept me thinking he was feeling similar things. After a month and a half or so...I will admit to losing my head one night and I got pregnant. The situation surrounding this is all SO ve…
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Want to say sorry.
by Guest das- 7 replies
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sat sri akal, I am a 19 year old non amritdhari boy.last year i was very strong in sikhi and use to never miss amritvela.but few moths ago i founded some articles on internet which say why there is no god.but as i continued reading these articles my faith started to become weak day by day.also i became tense about my carrier.i used to question gurbani and i also done some ninda of GURU JI and waheguru.There comes a point where i become very tense about my future.One day after the paath i was thinking what will i do in future.i realised that we have some property,that we can sell and get a lot of money through interest.and that interest is much more than i can possibly ea…
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Dad
by Guest hi56- 1 reply
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my dad wont wear his dastaar when he is going out he will just put a patka on and go. He took amrit in 1993 and used to wear his dastar all the time and his beard would be open. For the last 2 years he has been tying his beard up and wearing a patka the only time he wears a dastaar is to work then straight after when he gets home it is off his head. He always tells me 2 wear one all the time and always lectures me about sikhi. Yesterday he went in the car to the corner shop in the morning and then he was wearing a dastar than goes twice around (better than a patka I guess) and his beard was open then he goes upstairs and takes the dastaar off and ties his beard up and goe…
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
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Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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