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Helppp!
by Guest Guest- 7 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh! I have a friend whos in a terrible situation where her parents are not letting her do anything. She desperatly wants to take amrit but her parents dont let her. They dont let her go reansbhaees, or even go out in general and they don't let her use the computer :| but she is in chardikalaa and accepting vaheguru's hukam. She does a lot of paath, simran and ardaas! (her mum goes mad when she does and starts beating her ) however, she has complete faith in guru sahib but I just want to know what she can do. Btw, shes 15/16 years old. Thank you!!
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Failure-krodh- I Am A Loser-paapi-low Life-evil-disgusting
by Guest failure- 8 replies
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waheguru ji kal khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh I don't deserve saying that. gursikhs, this is my ugly and disgusting life. read with caution and please forgive me. Ji I am a 17 year old canadian sikh. I am a paapi. not only because i have sinned but because i have sinned repeatedly. I developed an interest in sikhi about 4 years ago, when i realised there was more to my religion than going to the gurudwara and matha teking, after doing a presentation about sikhi in geography. I can't say much but I have had the oppurtunity that many gursikhs would love to have, I frequently get to speak to the some of the greatest gursikhs ever. These gursikhs told me around this t…
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Controling Lustful Actions 1 2 3
by Guest guywithproblemo- 21 replies
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vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh hi all i am a mona Sikh trying to be a better Sikh, i do not drink or smoke i am 19 years of age. i have a problem controlling my lust which results in me doing kaami things. I wanna be a better Sikh but i am fearfull of two things, going into the wrong perseption of Sikh that some people have (too extreme) or too liberal. can anyone me advice on what to do? i look forward to your replies
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waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ke fateh! recently, i started going to university and this one particular girl has caught my eye and i cant seem to keep my mind off of her. i have not introduced my self to her or anything but i just cant keep my mind off of her. the way she walks talks smiles, everything is just driving me crazy :BL: and i pray to god that one day, we could have a future together. my question to the sangat is, is there anything i could do, spiritually or non spiritually, to make this possible. like for example, is there any bani i could listen to( i can read punjabi but am still a bit slow) to make this possible? if there is can you please post the…
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Questions On Marriage And Religion V Culture 1 2 3
by Guest GUEST- 22 replies
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In sikh marriage, do the girls always have to leave home to live with boy's family? Is that a religious practice or cultural? My situation is i am girl who is getting engaged. the boy has many brothers and i am only child. he wants me to move into his parents house. i said no, why don't you move to my house because my parents need taking care too. he said no way because it HAS to be the other way around. He is amritdhari singh so i said, what about equality? guruji states no preference over male or female and we are all supposed to care for our parents (seva). so why u denying me the same right? I told him girls have the same rights as boys do and that his thinking was…
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Dear saad sangat jiooooo i was wondering whether there was someone that made or nu any places to get xl kacherai(length) situated in london, ive tried the biggest size offa sikhi shop and various online shops but they are extreamly small ... :| in length. any suggestions are appreciated
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Tari Khan And Tafo Khan
by Guest tabla ji- 0 replies
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Does any1 know where they teach in india?
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Popular Gurudwara In Brimingham
by Guest Guest- 8 replies
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Friends, I will be visiting Birmingham on holidays for 2-3 days during first weekend of 2009. Any suggestion on popular Gurudwara that we can visit in Birmingham
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Times To Do Paat
by Guest SinghSS- 3 replies
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Fateh I want ot start doing my daily paat and i wanted to know that what times do i do em e.g. what time do i do japji sahib, jaap sahib etc can som1 plz tell me asap thanks fateh
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Kirpan At Work
by Guest _idontknow_- 7 replies
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hello there. i have a prob. i have just started work as a prison officer about a week ago. the prob is under no circumstance am i allowed to wear a kirpan. incase i get taken hostage. this week i have ketp kirpana with me in my bag in a clean pocket and wore a chain instead. i know i shudnt have but im so lost as to what to do. i have spoken to work and they have said i can wear a symbolic one or a chain but no way to sharp kirpan. what shall i do?im only young and 1st time ive dealt with a situation like this. i understand what they mean coz it cud be used agaisnt me my colleagues etc. shall i continue wearing chain????shall i wear symbolic one?shall i just risk it a…
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Almighty made man & woman different so why equate ? The worst form of inequality is to try to make unequal things equal - Aristotle
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Not Progressing In Sikhi
by Guest murakh- 3 replies
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khalsa ji for the past couple of months i have been feeling like im getting away from sikhi and not being able to overcome kaam. Its just that i cant seem to be making any progress since it is becoming hard for me to concentrate on my sikhi and do paath coz my mind is always wandering off. There are weeks when i just listen to kirtan and everything else dosnt bother me but then i always seem to do the opposite for weeks like not spend any time doing paath. khalsa ji can you please give me any advice since i know i want to progress in sikhi and but it seems as if something is not letting me( i hope that makes sense)...and im also kind of p*****of at myself that since b…
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Account Issue
by Guest ws- 1 reply
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wjkk, wjkf I desperately need an admin who can help me with an account issue. Can you give me an email to write to?
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How would you convert 0.0775mol dm3 to mg/ml, ive been tryng to figure it out but i keep getting confused as im not good with numbers. could some one good at chemistry please help me out?
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Hi I know that you have to decide upon a new born child's name within 6 weeks of birth.. (UK LAW) what would happen if you don't? will the government decide a name ie: childGB63274 Smith? thanks
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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