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   Amritdhari's Going Out 1 2 3 4 8

   August 25, 2005 by Guest Guest

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   i have two amritdhari friends who have got into a relationship and within a matter of days have kissed. they believe they are going to get married and feel this is ok, they said it just happened. sangat ji how do i tell them that this is wrong. fine if they believe they may get married but they should not have kissed. How do i tell them that this wrong? or is it to late to tell them. i have tryed to tell them that this is wrong but they believe its ok as they think they will marry.

   

   Last reply by disguised, December 23, 2005

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   Feeling Sad.........

   August 25, 2005 by Guest :'(

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   u know when u feeling sad........ like when things gettin ontop u especially like exams an stuff wot do u do...... a sikh shdnt be depressed like but u know during exams when u cant rember nuttin and just having crape day......... i mean its hard to rember that everything happens in his hukam when things just go wrong and like ur gone let ur family down.....

   

   Last reply by Pheena, August 25, 2005

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   Transaltion Of Shabad

   August 25, 2005 by Guest Guest

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   This Shabad is by Guru Gobind Singh in Amrit Keertan on Pannaa 837 hy riv hy sis hy krxwinD myrI AbY ibnqI sun lIjY ] hae rav hae sas hae karanaanidhh maeree abai binathee sun leejai || AOr n mWgq hau qum qy kCu cwhq hoN icq mYN soeI kIjY ] aar n maa(n)gath ho thum thae kashh chaahath ho(n) chith mai(n) soee keejai || SsqRn soN Aiq hI rx BIqr jUJ mroN qaU swc pqIjY ] shasathran so(n) ath hee ran bheethar joojh maro(n) thoo saach patheejai || sMq shwie sdw jg mwie ikRpw kr sXwm iehY br dIjY ]1900]446] sa(n)th sehaae sadhaa jag maae kripaa kar sayaam eihai bar dheejai ||1900||446|| duz any 1 no wer i cn find da translation of dis shabad

   

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   Affair

   August 24, 2005 by Guest no name

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   ok basically my cusin bro is marired with kids (i hope im not doin nindyia :wub: ) and he aint happy in his marriage he is frm india n like his wife is nice enuff i guess n he is havin an affair with my friends sister! she isnt married, divorced i think but i duno what to do like we hav told my cusin umpteen times to get out of it but he dont listen he jst sees her when and how he pleases he aint amritdhari btw jst typical "punjabi sikh" do i tell my friend? what if my friend finds out and then he finds out i knew all along? tho he dont know my cusin at all and i dont knw his sister like i sed hello to her once i think aint ever spoken 2 her keep tellin me cus…

   

   Last reply by Guest, August 26, 2005

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   Shaheed Udam & Bhagat Singh 1 2 3 4

   August 24, 2005 by Guest Ek Singh

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   Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh! Sorry for my ignorance, but im not sure, do Sikhs respect Udam Singh and Bhagat Singh Shaheeds or is it just Hindus releasing all them films for Sikhs who do not know their history that well to make it look like Sikhs died for Indian Independence and why should they ask for Khalistan. Also, those of you who have been going India lately may have noticed that Shaheed Bhagat Singh photos are everywhere now - from lorries to motorcycles, a lot of the youth are into it as well, whereas you also may know that other more recent Sikh leaders such as Sant Baba Jarnail Singh Ji Bhindranwale are unknown to the youth and obviously the stu…

   

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   Problems With Mother-in-law

   August 24, 2005 by Guest _Preet_

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   Hello, I am a having problems adjusting to family life with my mother-in-law. Have been married for 16 yrs and have 3 kids but still having problems with Her. anyone else experiencing problems. I just feel that I cannot be the person I am around her - feel intimidated by her. Also, feel guilty for feeling like this but just don't feel comfortable around her, mainly because of problems we had when we were first married. Would love to hear form anyone out there with similar difficulties Love Preet

   

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   Chipped Lips 1 2

   August 24, 2005 by Guest Guest

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   I know this sounds really stupid but I wanted to know that if you have chipped lips and are usualy dry and tend to rip is using nivea moituriser lip care ok? Its not like lip gloss or makeup or anything it's just mainly a moisturiser for the lips bit like lip balm? Is that ok or does that categorise as Make up and changing appearance?

   

   Last reply by Balwinder Kaur, August 29, 2005

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   British Airways 1 2

   August 24, 2005 by Guest _Harpreet_

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   Sangat Ji I was watching the news yesterday and the day before and whats all this business about the Sikhs geting angry at Gate Gourmet (A singh even stuk a finger up :wub: ) and the BA Heathrow dispute? I fail to understand how the sikhs are involved as it showed the MP or someone entering Southall Singh Sabha Gurdwara Sahib.

   

   Last reply by singh_sandhu, August 30, 2005

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   Gupt Forum Announcement

   August 24, 2005 by Sewadar

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   Gupt Forum Announcement "Thank you to everyone who have contributed to the testing of the Gupt forum in the past month. The trial has gone extremely well and is already becoming an integral part of the SikhSangat.com Forum. The Administrators and Moderators of the forum have recently decided to keep the Gupt forum however, we have decided to make it an intermittent feature. This means the Gupt forum will only be available during certain times and for a certain period of time. This is to encourage more n more members to join the forum and become part of the growing Sikh Sangat online. Gupt forum will be fully open during the time period of 1st and 3rd week of each month…

   

   Last reply by Mehtab Singh, September 27, 2005

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    Amrit

    August 23, 2005 by proud_to_be_singhni

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    :wub: good luck with whatever your choice. gurfateh :wub:

    

    Last reply by ManpreetKaurr, January 23, 2021

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    Truth..?

    August 23, 2005 by Guest HIDDEN SINGH OF KHALSA

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    http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?showtopic=13168 When something is good to ask and is in favor of SIKHi, Some people think thats bad they try to stop that task or thing as it now usual.

    

    Last reply by Guest, August 23, 2005

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    Oily Skin

    August 23, 2005 by Guest Guest

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    I naturally have really oily skin, which is a major cause of blackheads (dead skin cells and oil) for me. I've noticed that sometimes when you remove a blackhead, because it is in a pore, if you look close enough a small hair comes out with the blackhead. Does this count as removing hair? Is the hair in that pore considered dead? Can this be considered a bujjar kurehit? I know this may sound like a silly question, but my conscience has been nagging me to find out. It is not my intention to remove the hair, and I feel really bad when I see that one has come out with the plug of oil. The only time I remove a blackhead is when it begins to stick out. I know many will tell …

    

    Last reply by waheguru_fateh, August 24, 2005

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    Sadness

    August 22, 2005 by Guest feeling so down

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    vjkkvjkf sangat jee. recently, i have been feeling very upset, extremely lonely and VERY sad. i cry alot most times....most times i use up 1 tissue box within the span of one night just crying crying crying...i can't stop these tears from clouding my eyes all the time...i try to hold them back but eventually i break down and cry. after each round of crying, i feel so guilty because as a sikh, even when faced with horrible tortures, our guruji, shaheedi singhs and singhnees never relented, much less cry like a weakling like i do most times. i feel none understand my pain and loneliness. i try to do paath but i find myself being so disillusioned. i'm at my wits end...total…

    

    Last reply by sewak sikh, August 27, 2005

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    Going Out With Muslim Girl 1 2 3

    August 22, 2005 by Guest _amarjit_

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    I just wondered if it was allowed to go out with a pakistani muslim girl who i've grown really close to at uni. I'm shaven Sikh guy and dont follow sikhi to the letter but I do value my religion. I just wondered if a relationship with a girl, who isnt Sikh, was allowed. And if not how do I do I overcome the feelings for her. :wub:

    

    Last reply by disguised, September 17, 2005

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    Hukamnaama

    August 22, 2005 by Guest Im in Love

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    VJKK! VJKF!! I have recently been blessed with Amrit and ever since then, I feel that my communications with dear Vaheguru usually occurs through Hukamnaama(ofcourse he talks to us 24 7). All my answers are gotten from there and I feel sooooooooooooo happy. :wub: whats your experiences with Hukam from Guru jee? VJKK! VJKF!!

    

    Last reply by Guest, August 23, 2005

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