Singh1989

Yes fights in community and segregation is in all countries. Was thinking that tbh.

We know Guru Granth Sahib is Sikhs chance in achieving Mukht from Maya n this world itself. Just like Muslims believe in Quran, Christian in the Bible and Hindus in Puranas. All religious folks do different things but by practice, patience and persistence that one goal n target's achieved.

Lol where do I start off? Equality in India for Sikhs would be one. And amongst Sikhs? To not fight with one another but thas guaranteed to happen over committees. "Gli jog Na howai..." Unfortunately we're all big talks n no action. A few years ago a person on tv suggested "Sikhs should open up a help centre, where all problems should be sat n discussed in how to deal with them." Today?? Still no such centre. The guy suggested but thas it! Gal katham.

AH! Very excellent Q. I would say, after a Sikh reads n hears Sakhis/ Katha then they have faith. However, on a philosophical level, once they start doing Sikh practices... It's all blind! Well, to start off with. Then kirpa kicks in over the years. Feeling epic, feeling good, Darshan of Saint Soldiers/ Spirits, darshan of Akaal Purkh. I guess it's all blind to start off with. I mean we all meditate and be good human beings, even though we have not met Akaal Purkh. So until then and on that level... U could say it's "Blind."

Sikhi is a very easy religion. Problem? We make it difficult ourselves. There are far too many "You're not allowed to do this/ that." From Guru Nanak's teachings, 80% is to do with living in society and 20% is the spiritual path... Don't believe it?? Ok, Sacha Kirth karni, wand k shakna and Naam japna. Notice the first two! Imagine if the whole world was earning an honest living (inc. Politicians) and if everyone shared their money/ food with each other! Wouldn't it be Sachkhand on Earth? Instead "Oh? You're an Amritdhari? You're not allowed this. You're not allowed that. Don't even breath..." Etc. Then we get in fights from different jathe bandhis to Gurudwara committee. What are we portraying to others? Sikhi is hard when it's not and fights. Why don't we tell others to do Nitnem when Amritvela, earn an honest living and deswand? Do Sangat/ Seva at Gurudwara and not t indulge in Bujjer Kureths?

Not really a Q. More of a statement. Girls... What are you doing? Boys... Same can go to you! You're in your 30's, highly educated, nice job n u cannot seem t "find the right partner?" (this post excludes who wish to remain single). But d rest... Whas keeping yah? What do Sikh people say in society? "Remember! Education doesn't matter. Wha matters is Partner should b Nitnemi and hard working." And when a person uneducated/ less educated approaches the same Sikhs to marry their child?? "Marriage!? Whas your education up to??" THAS IT! Gal katham. The end. There's no room for "Can I at least meet your son/ daughter??" (am speaking from experience as a single who been thru this numerous times). WOMEN! I am now engaged to someone in Punjab. HERE'S MY PLAN! After marriage if she wishes to work she can. If she wishes to carry on teaching but gets a job far from my Hometown, we'll settle over there so she carries on working. I'll easily manage a job (TRUST! Indians always seek people willing t work below minimum; factory or takeaways). See? I have these plans to SUPPORT my future wife. She may not be baptised. I made it clear to her "If u wish to take Amrit or not u will not b forced. It'll b entirely up to u." SUPPORT! SANGAT JI! SUPPORT... Plus with kirpa am financially sorted, on top. WOMEN! Next time a proposal comes to you, at least hear out the guy, see wha he says. Working + still with parents = financially sorted. Is he willing to move out? Can u still work after marriage? If in a far town both working, will you compromise and move in his town? Or is he willing t give up job and move with you??? All this is decided after meeting/ speaking or messaging on phone. What are we focused on? Education only. Gal kathm. No wonder so many 35-40's are still single (again, from experience what I seen but am 29). Bottom line, you wanna get somewhere at least GO and MEET UP with the proposals with your family.

AGREED! My thoughts also ran on food on first instinct. Now I can google this but wha types of food would you recommend t get D up n running in the systems?

Thanks for upload! Lol becharra translator but good job nonetheless.

Ah! UK Gurudwara hit similar situation where H&S folks pop in n rate hygiene (scale 0-5). Our gurudwara has 1 (poor) but... No one eats that side, only during Nagar Kirtan it opens. However, they literally rate n leave. THAT'S IT! Nothing more/ less. I reckon GOI should just rate n leave too. Why? If H&S is low then sewadaars will be encouraged to be up to standard, serve sangat in area of high hygiene. GOI sounds like they've taken it too far where they get involved a bit too much.

Of course, not to mention the vast differences in Sikhs. Alas! We can never ever be reunited in a true sense.

Yes in Leicester. St. Saviours Road it's opposite all other shops. Basically, THEE only shop opposite other shops. Turn from East Park road onto St. Saviours and look left. You'll spot it in 5 seconds.

Bro man visit UK. Plenty of Sikhs as business man/woman, lawyer, teacher, doctor - dactar all wearing Dastaars. Aapni security, Army - urmy. Literally no shortage.

Tejs, does it not state in Guru Granth Sahib ji, "Do not take Quran, Bible and Gita to be false. The preachers can b false not the Holy texts themselves." (NOTE! This is not going against original writers, but preachers that are preaching today). Also, it's stated in SGGS that slandering the texts is paap. Why did Maharaaj go ahead with it? Maybe because they knew, not going ahead with it is against Akaal Purkh's hukam. Whatever the Guru Ji's saw in future they went with it rather than against it. If Quran was "false" then part of Hukam would have NOT been to study other religious texts, Quran is one thing Sikhs need to study. I hope you did not think "Only to study n lash back at Muslims in a debate..?"

Since the past 3 weeks in a row the most beautiful thing happened. I woke before dawn for my Nitnem! Thanks, Maharaaj! Beant kirpa. Now, many of you may be thinking "So?" The reason am mentioning this is because I had never done such a thing even for work start 8am! Yes, I still managed isnaan n Nitnem but had to rush it all. Many of you may be wondering... "Am I doing Amritvela?" Well? ARE YOU! Ever since I got a smartphone Amritvela was a no no. You can guess why. So, if you have a smartphone, failed to do Amritvela the solution is simple. At about 10.30pm latest switch off the device and GO TO SLEEP! Besides, sleeping after 1am, browsing net in bed cannot b good for health and eyes. With Maharaaj's kirpa same can happen to you. (You know exactly who you are)...

Guest Sukhi, The important thing is pursuing your happiness. Sikhi is AGAINST cast. In fact cast does not exist as far as a TRUE Sikh is concerned. Literally, the only difference is in the appearances. THAT'S IT! FULL STOP! It is a shame we still follow caste, one of our greatest problems. One purpose of Guru Nanak Ji was to eradicate caste in Sikhi. Look at wha we're doing? Know the original panj pyaare? All 5 different castes! From low to high. Know Bhagat Dhanna ji? Low caste. SAME BHAGAT WHO'S GURBANI IS PRESENT IN GURU GRANTH SAHIB JI MAHARAAJ! SAME MAHARAAJ WE BOW DOWN TO!!! Along with your love life concentrate on yer studies too. Also, you logged in on here means you have an interest in Sikhi? EXCELLENT. It's good to learn even a little. You do not have to be Amritdhaari but, do some form of prayer every single day. Search up gurbani online and look at texts pertaining to Caste n wha our Gurus have said (WARNING! Read whole sentence n understand. Don't fall into the "read what suits you" n manipulate it you own way). Also focus on your studies. What is important? You need to follow whas important, what matters to YOU! Explain to your parents why caste doesn't exist in Sikh.

Guest Ji. The question is what is YOU want in life? Is it possible to settle with your partner, get married? If you leave your partner will there be regrets? Yes you must respect parents as well. However, if you are separated from them the love does not die away. But what about your partner? They can always get someone else in their life. Can you live with that? White people, no matter what we say about them, their parents have one thing correct! They say "You're 18-21 now. Go living on your own. Do whatever. Come visit, talk over phone but go live your own life." They put faith in their kids that they'll survive. What about us? Have we agreed to move away n leave it to Akaal Purkh He'll feed us? Look after us? If we followed the whites traditions I reckon life would be 80% easier. THINK ABOUT IT! How many non married singles in their 30's or 40's? At home you give tension n problems to your parents. But if you had a place of your own? Parents have their space n kids have their space. And once parents are no longer with us? A will has been made to share property. But kids are busy looking at their own property, life and think "I don't really need their share..." LOOK AT WHAT HAPPENS IN INDIA AND COMPARE! BACK TO POINT! Guest Ji, forget about the world and focus on YOUR happiness, where does it go the most? If you leave partner and go with parents will you ever see partner again? Now, if you leave parents n go with partner, will situation be improved maybe 10-15 years later? Will they welcome you n your partner with open arms? See, if you leave partner you may never see 'em again. But leaving parents, it's truly a gamble. A risk where you must wait n see. For now you must choose. Just think where DOES YOUR happiness lie in? Best of luck I hope outcome for you turns out great. Just have faith in Guru Ji and keep up the Gurbani! It'll help you through.

COME ON peops! Let's see how our brain works

Shastar Ji, ONLY and ONLY Ardaas can be changed n modified. Like Shaheeds in 20th and 21st Century added in the contents. HOWEVER! Where and when can it be changed? Anything after "Tegh Bahadhur simiriey, ghar nau nidh awai, sab Thai hoi sahai" reason? This Shabd is written in Dasam Granth AS it stands, in Chandi di vaar, therefore it is beaadbi to start adding shabds to it. In my eyes extra bit of Ardaas can be added "Jinha Singh Singhnia Ni dharam heth sees dithe, band band khopria luhiaa..." As this shabd is not written in any Granths. A lot of people add, after Khopriaa luhiaa, "Degh wich aubaali gi" (they got burnt alive..." Some do not add this part at all. YES your cousins can add own shabd, in fact anyone can. But keep in mind it must be only and only in the mentioned part or even, after "Hi nimaania di maab, Ni dhania de dhaan... Aap ji Ki hazoor, (insert Gurbani) hoi hai Ji THEN add extra bit. There does need to be an update in the Ardaas. IMO anyone can do it if they wish. OH and tell yer cousins, Ardaas is accepted by the Lord if it done with a pure heart. Don't question just do it.

Agreed still got long way to go. Like still over a million years. Previous 4 Jugs lasted up to a million years it not even jumped over 10,000 when Kaljug started.

I'd say same old. 2-4 rides on the side, huge stage with non stop performance (actual stars are saved until last) and food/ material stalls.

Familal dysautomia (FD) comes in many forms. In particular this topic's only going to cover inability to cry. Under extreme circumstances, death of a loved one I.e. Parents yet you still do not produce tears (nothing to do with rab da bhaana). But it can be unhealthy not to produce tears. Second sign you may have FD? Your sense organs don't act in a "normal" way, meaning if you cycle n get hit by a car the pain will b equivalent to being hit by a pillow. Well, thas good I suppose(?) But there's a simple solution to produce tears. Do sangat, listen to kirtan and sooner or later you will feel bairaag. If you have to produce tears to maintain good health then come into bairaag. Bhul chuk maaf.

Friend. There is ONE condition where fertility rate increases in our community. 2 couples, 4 daugters, 1 son. 2 couples, 5 daughters, 1 son or, 5-6 daughters 0 son. Son is always the youngest. Or... 2 couples, 1 son, 1 daughter. Finally, 2-3 sons, 0 daughters. YOU DO THE MATHS!!! AND... Sajno! Pehla biah biuh ta karlo! Our community focused on educated boys n girls for marriage. On top ehni saari nakhri! Goras may have 101 problems but settling in with someone is certainly not one of them. What do we focus on? Our own doubts, which leads to marriage delays.

What? You didn't suppose this site's purely for nindia, advise and politics. LIGHTEN UP ;-)

Metaphor may mean do not have ego but have nimarta. How does a person with nimarta walk? Bowed down, like a crooked tree. And person with ego? Straight (full of arrogance). Chanakya was advisor to Chandergupt Maurya and his son or great grandson who too was a wise king.

Thanks for this. Yes it is important to first learn rehats, Step by step. Going to google this Shabd now t gain knowledge. Once again, thanks.