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no.gif i dunno wht to say...but i m in lots of tension frm past week!!

sangat ji... if possible ..i need ure help!! pray.gif

i m new in brampton..and i m living in a family frend's house!!

i got a job for 2 months frm november 2005 to jan 5 , 2006 and i m working in Toronto HYDRO in toronto dwntwn!!

now ..the prblm is tht frm last week, uncle and aunty (the one in whose home i m presently living) ... is asking me for rent!!

the thing is tht... since my family knows uncle ...so when they talked to him tht i m coming to brampton and so and so... uncle told tht I am like their son... no prblm..its a matter of 2 months ..i can stay at their home... WITH NO MENTIONING OF RENT!frm last week onwards..they r constantly pressuring me to give rent..making all sorts of excuses(i dunno its true or not)... and they r not even asking a small amount..its like huge for me!!

its a really messy situation... whenever i go down..to kitchen..aunty says me something..

i told them ..tht i m a student...i dont have tht much money... i have other commitments to make like paying fees etc.. if only i had a minor hint b4 coming tht i have to give rent ..then i wud have taken care of my budget..... but all is in vain!!

SANGAT JI...IF WORSE COMES TO WORSE... BY NEXT WEEK... SEE I DONT WANT TO GIVE THEM MONEY CUZ ITS NOT FAIR..THEY SHLD HAVE TOLD ME B4...

BUT ANYWYS..THT BEING SAID...IF THEY FORCE ME A LOT..I WILL LEAVE THIS HOUSE..I CANT STAY!!

my flight is on Jan 7th ........ so sangat frm brampton area.... if only for couple of weeks..someone can give me a room... i wud be really thkful to u...

i dont have any money right now...... ITS STILL 50-50 ..THT I WUD LEAVE THE HOUSE... BUT I NEED TO KEEP A BACKUP...

i know no one has their own home.,.... i mean they have to ask the parents... so i m giving like few days... just ask that IF they can keep me for 10-15 days uptil JAN 7th ...??

else i will have to go for rent...and in either case i dunno frm whre i will get money no.gif

really...wht a kaljug... but if possible plzz ..pm me for more details...

i can meet u ...or can give my cell #

situation is worsening here day by day!! no.gif

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nice to know u all care :@

heera singh... if u want to contact me b4 u leave ...umm.. i gonna pm u anywys!!

and gurpreet bro... u live in scarborough ..eh. grin.gif . is it too far frm toronto dwntwn??... i work near City Hall!!

i wud have called jaspaul...cuz we met couple of times.. but he is ni india!!

i wud have left with money...but the prblm is tht i just bought a laptop a week ago..i had ordered it frm dell..

so my budget is totally bamboozeld :@ @

and yeah..i have to sell my desktop too this week...hope i get even $300!! :@

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nice to know u all care :@

heera singh...  if u want to contact me b4 u leave ...umm.. i gonna pm u anywys!!

and gurpreet bro... u live in scarborough ..eh. grin.gif . is it too far frm toronto dwntwn??... i work near City Hall!!

i wud have called jaspaul...cuz we met couple of times.. but he is ni india!!

i wud have left with money...but the prblm is tht i just bought a laptop a week ago..i had ordered it frm dell..

so my budget is totally bamboozeld :@ @

and yeah..i have to sell my desktop too this week...hope i get even $300!! :@

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Try postin gon Sikhportal.com as well...you might find more options there and possibly someone closer to your desired location.

again no stressin veer, you are in good hands. Its just a minor setback, it'll be resolved.

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