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I am really getting self conscious about the fact that I can’t make friends that are into Sikhi.

On this forum for example, most of the people that I chat to are 15/16 year olds, I’m in my twenties, And once I get to know them a bit they stop talking to me and start ignoring me! Do I come on too strong with Sikh people? I feel like I weird them out, sometimes people chastise me for asking too many personal questions and “pow” I don’t even know what that is, but the thing is I’m not that kind of person that starts flirting and it kind of hurts me when people accuse me of it.

So just to Clarify I am starting this thread to ask what do you people talk about on MSN or at the Gurdwara or anywhere? How should I move the conversation on without offending anyone? Should I not be talking to girls?

The problem is I don’t have a problem with people not interested in Sikhi, I think I need to change myself to fit in amongst the Sangat.

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh!

Talk about Sikhi

and you will learn along the way tooo

Just call the girls Phen Ji

and think of them as your sisters

and I'm 15

and I talk to people who are in there twenties on this forum and they always blank me lol

PM Me

But most people dont like personal questions so dont ask them :)

You can ask me what you like I dont get offended lol

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh!

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speak for your self Jassa paji lol

erm...just dont be so self concious - just be fun about things - like just becuase people into Sikhism, it dont mean they ALWAYS do nothin but talk eat sleep Sikhi. just have fun, be laid back about things!! and SMILE!!!

if you think your too mature to be childish becuase ur in ur twenties, TRUSST me my older bro is nearly 22 and he's SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO childish!! just relax about everythin!! dont feel you have to only speak on certain subjects JUST becuase their religious.

As for the personal questions thing that depends on the person your askin!!!

JUST SMILE!!!!

dont know if that helped or not! but u kno...

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ppl with a psp are cool

they attract a big crowed, iv'e seen it happen b4 my own eyes at the gurdwara.

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Thats wrong

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