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slow down tom cruise, lol dun wanna get tooooo far over yaself

lmao that gave me a good laugh..

to the poster, do yourself and some poor girl a favour and dont get married if you're that repulsed by the whole idea.

pce :)

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i just got problem with society placing so much pressure on people to get married when really some people dont....

i know i don't... been coming in and out of engagements for the last 8 years... be engaged a total of four times... it seems a nice idea from a far.... then when i get engaged i think what the hell i have i done... hate it when my fone rings and they want to talk.... talk about what....

saying things like how are u.... exactly the same as i was yesterday....

but soceity keeps making me get engaged... then i think nah forget it

the fact i'm good looking aint helping the situation... girls keep saying yes to me...

which society is pressuring u?

u have a say dont u??? why u messin with girls? u can tell those girls that u dont wanna get married SIMPLE! whenevr smeone talks about u gettin married u can say NO! 4 girls are u crazzyy? mostt of the girls usually dont say yes or get interested unless the guy says he is first!

alright u saying that societies pressure u to get engaged...but who is pressuring u to BREAK THOSE ENGAGEMENTS? :) :lol:

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Sikhi is about accepting Guruji's Hukam!! If he wants you to get married...be happy and get married. If he dont want you too...u wont. Just go with his flow.

No one is saying marriage is all smiles and hearts but it can be if you live with by accepting Hukam. I don't know what couples you have looked at to have such a negetive view about the whole idea but I for sure know a few chardhi kalaa Gursikh couples who are who they are because of the other half!

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i'm sorta the same way..... been through a period where i was looking forward to it. now, things have changed, not really looking forward to it, i like my life the way it is now. to be honest currently, i see marraige as something that'll stop me from doing things i love, going to gurudwara whenever i feel like without asking/telling anyone, praciticing sangeet (tabla, vajaa) ...... to name a copule. but this might change come tomorrow who konws, i'm just dancing as maya is making me. guru kirpa karey.

yes yes now people will say marry someone who has the same interest as me, well life isn't always that simple :) @

i can sorta see where you are coming from, but if you really dont wanna get married, then STOP GETTING ENGAGED !!!!! 4 broken engagements is a lot, people get hurt, and i dont have to tell you thats not nice.

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i agree with 'maha moorakh' Pajee / Bhenjee - if its written in ur Karm then you'll get married NO MATTER WHAT!!!

BUT you better get married Sikh Sangat is only 2% in the world popuulation....we need more baby Singhs and Singhni's - Sikh Dharm wont exist if we dont have Sikh Sangat!!!

THIS IS THE SECOND TIME IM GONNA TELL YOU.........................IM A SINGHNEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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i agree with 'maha moorakh' Pajee / Bhenjee - if its written in ur Karm then you'll get married NO MATTER WHAT!!!

BUT you better get married Sikh Sangat is only 2% in the world popuulation....we need more baby Singhs and Singhni's - Sikh Dharm wont exist if we dont have Sikh Sangat!!!

THIS IS THE SECOND TIME IM GONNA TELL YOU.........................IM A SINGHNEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

lol am sorrrrrrryyy man too many ppl 2 remember sorry i remember now!!! i PROMISE!!! :TH:

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