Ideas For Those Married Or Soon To Be Married!

[Akaali]

Ideas for those married, in the process of getting married, soon to be married!

Always greet each other with Vaheguru ji ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji ki Fateh; be it on the phone, in person.

Always recite Mool Mantra together on arising in the morning, followed by Ardaas for thanking Maharaaj for a new day and asking for blessings to take full ishnaan (inc. kesh) and do naam simran.

Recite simran together for at least 1 hour, the next hour can be personal simran if desired.

Attend Gurdwara Sahib for simran, morning/evening Nitnem if possible.

Recite Nitnem together, alternate tuks or do each Bani in turn.

Encourage the reciting of more Baani.

Respect each other’s privacy, remember you may be married but that doesn’t mean you take things for granted.

Inspire each other with daily sakhis from Sikh itthiaas.

Take time to share a shabad from Gurbani and do its vichaar.

Go Gurdwara daily.

Try and do active seva together where possible do not deter your partner from going to Gurdwara or joining in Gurmat projects

Hold regular sangat kirtans at your place of residence for friends and family

Organise a langar at least once a year, do invite family, friends but also try to raise awareness through local homeless shelters etc.

Try to par take in physical activities together, pick a sport you both enjoy.

Encourage one another to recite, listen, learn more Gurbani in spare time, don’t waste it idly watching tv, films, generally lazying about.

Join local groups that help the community in which you live - helps raise awareness about Sikhs

Remember your partner is a soul from God, help them to make it Home again - to merge with our true Love.

Help each other with household duties seeing as it is now common for both partners to go out to work, this one is particularly for the men, find out where the iron is and where the hoover lives!!

[heart]

waheguru! =)

bumpity bump bump

[Jkaur]

wow...

[chatanga]

i know where tha iron and hoover is you cheeky cow! The problem is I cant find where ive put my wife.

chatanga

[Bhai Sahib]

Don't fart in bed.

[Tarrandeep Kaur]

wake up at amrit vela, and do a minimum of 2hrs of simran together.

[BiBi G]

with Guru Sahib Jis Kirpa partake in continuous Sehaj Paaths together throughout the year

[`KuMi´]

Don't do stinky ones and blame it on ur other half!!!

[`KuMi´]

oh god ur so immature

[Bhai Sahib]

Don't do stinky ones and blame it on ur other half!!!

I blame it on the baby.