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Sat Sri Akal,

I have been away from my parents for two years. I am working in IT and having a good project, nice team and a lot of respect.

But my parents are very old and they want me to leave job and go back to Punjab.We have good agricultural land in Punjab.

I am somewhat confused, i know there is nothing in my life more important than my parents so i am thinking of leaving job.

Please guide, my parents will not leave Punjab.

Regards

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veerji i would say go bk to ur parents.....

because if it wasnt for gururji.. and them u wudnt be where u are today... gd job etc

so, go and look after ur parents.. who need ur help

and is there no way u can get a job similar in india..... india has developed alot.

sorry, just my vew, pull chuk maaf karna :D

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ur heart will tell u wants ther ight decision veer jee....................all i can say is how many kids give a damn about their parents feelings in todays society.....................

it good u still care about them, i knw some ppl who wudent have even bothered giving it a 2nd thought............................ :D

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Its our duty to take care of our parents.

When we were little and couldn't feed ourselves, they fed us.

When we couldn't bathe ourselves, they washed us. cleaned our dirty diapers.

When we couldn't walk, they would extend their finger so we could.

When we couldn't work, they worked for us, paid for every single thing we ever needed.

Have they every asked for anything in return? NO. They only want us to be happy

Now, since they are old, they might have a hard time seeing, we must become their eyes.

Now, since they are old, they might have a hard time walking, we must become their legs.

Now, since they are old, they might have a hard time thinking, we must be there to help them.

i could go on and on, but the bottom line is, if it weren't for our parents, we wouldn't be here. we owe our life to them, we owe everything to them.

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Brother three things u only get once in your life:

Husan - beauty

Jawani - youth

Maape - mum/dad

Jobs come and go

But who am i to comment brother, I don't know you - just liek all the other repiers to thos thread. Do what your heart says :lol:

fateh

haha u herd that song...inittt

harbhajan mann i fink??

fatehh

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take 1-2 months leave and visit dem.. and get em live wid u..

agree with above. have a talk with ur boss and tell him/her ur situation. im sure u can take few months off. maybe 6 months. u miss them ( ur parents) and so do they(miss u)! u will be able to mke a better decision when u are with them without ever regretting why did u leave ur job or why didn't u go and stay with ur parents. hope u understand what im saying. dont leave ur job if u are happy here. if u have better future in punjab thn go for it. its up to u.

from experience of my friends, all of them regret going back to punjab and leaving their jobs here. and their reasons were their parents and family. they thought they had everything planned for their future in punjab but some of the plans just didnt turn up. thus, they regret going back without ever thinking twice about coming back (leaving options open to come back)

give ur decision a better thought.

~vaheguru~

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