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i know soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo many ppls who are looking for someone, but simply they can't find their partners cauz of lack of middle person... That's a huge problem in our society ! We need to take care of this problem ! Matrimonial site system sux btw.. I personally would never put my pix up there in front of millions of ppl.. So rub that rubbish out (ex. sikhmatrimonial.com) Another one : Gurmat.com is awesome, but it's not that effective.. We need something more like advanced where someone can trust on it's service (aka. more privacy) etc..

Someone suggested me to talk about this on this forum ! and i think this is where everone goes thru.. once in his/her life..

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Please don't take it as a joke... I honestly think there should be a

"Punj Pyare" Matrimonial Service

You go to the Punj Pyare, you say I'm ready to get married,

they take all your information

the most important information is your REHIT

and then they match it to the REHIT of another person and bingo

Nothing can go wrong when the Punj Pyare are your vichola :@ (middle person)

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Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

Singh Veerjeeyo u r very rite its really normally a must, important & serious requirement in our life.

I would really appreciate if any organization can bring such a website helping specialy amritdhari youth for finding out a suitable life partner, guiding sangat about gurmat philisophy wrt sikh marriage ceremony and sikh marriage life.

Well we can use that services majorily outside India bcoz usage of Internet in India is limited. Well in India getting a sutiable amritdhari boy or girl is a big task for parents. Some parents discourage their daughters especially not to take amrit becoz its hard to get a suitable amritdhari match. There are so many Sikh Matriomonial Shops are now open but dealings in just passing the information and earn the money. Lakhs of Rupees are generally spent on our marriages (most of the anand karaj pefromed after 12 hrs. which is purely manmat) but the results are there , the number of divorces are increasing, dowry problem is increasing, fights between two and clashes with parents is leading to less benefied single family culture than joint family culture.

Organiztion like SGPC & DSGPC committees can provide such services but as we know they are in sleeping avastha. Otherwise they are having huge funds (thanks to lot of NRIs who give them huge bucks without even thinking), big set up from these kind of services can be operated.

Let us see when they will wake up ??????

Any how all the best and dass ardassaa for such a step.

bhulla chukka dee maufi _/\_

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!&

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Please don't take it as a joke... I honestly think there should be a

"Punj Pyare" Matrimonial Service

You go to the Punj Pyare, you say I'm ready to get married,

they take all your information

the most important information is your REHIT

and then they match it to the REHIT of another person and bingo

Nothing can go wrong when the Punj Pyare are your vichola :@ (middle person)

now that's an interesting one. what an ingenious idea bhainjee. how did you conjure that up?? ohmy.gif im impressed. :@ if that happens, it'll be cool for fellow veerjees and bhainjees.

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Now thats a WICKED IDEA ^_^

Who's a better Vichola than the Punj Pyaare,

so Punj Singhs work in an office, or what :T:

and I know this might be a biot contreversial - but only for Keshdharis?

orelse whats the use of going to the Panj?

or hwat you guys think :@ ?

bhull chukk maaf

GurFAteh

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I donno, majority of the viahs are done through, some distant aunty or uncle. But one of the main fear of the parents is, that if a girl is amritdhari then it will be difficult to find a munda for her. If a munda is amritdhari then it will be difficult to find a kuri for him.

I just quickly glanced at Gurmat.com and checked their "mission statement". That website rules :@ but its access is limited to people who have internet acess. Like bhenji said "Punj pyaare" services should be avilable.

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