Body Hairs

[Harjeet.Singh]

Ever heard of ware wolf syndrome? Otherwise known as Hypertrichosis. Consider yourselves, lucky, or consider this man lucky.

[Guest Guest]

vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

To the original poster, do a search on the forum for topics relating to excess hair. Although the situations in previous topics may not be the same, the advice will be helpful. You need to try and respect yourself physically and spiritually. Nobody on this forum is going to tell you to shave your kes off, and you probably don't really want to do that anyway because you'll know it's wrong. Also it might be a good idea to talk the issue over with your wife, because you don't know for sure that she's avoiding you because of this. It will put your mind at ease. Use this as an opportunity for you both to learn something about the importance of Rehit and to move closer to Guru Ji. Always remember that Guru Ji created you in the most perfect way.

ive a question what if a girl have hair on ther body

stomach legs back etc etc

Again, do a search as there have been countless such topics. In a nutshell, for most cases it is nothing abnormal. Asians especially have more kes than other races and we all have kes on our bodies - it's nothing to be ashamed of. Again the issue is about respecting Guru Ji's creation, and being comfortable with yourself.

(If you think the hair is really thick & excessive and it's beginning to grow on your face (in a male-like distribution) then you may want to see the doctor to check for a hormonal imbalance. However don't use this as an excuse for non-gurmat hair removal methods! The point is to be healthy and keep the hormones under control so let your doctor know that keeping kes is a requirement, and that electrolysis/shaving is not an option.)

vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

But if a girl would like to be a amritdharie &&. what will the doctor do for it ?

[lowest of the low singhni]

^There is medication you can go on which can control the hormones.

[Guest Guest]

vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

To the original poster, do a search on the forum for topics relating to excess hair. Although the situations in previous topics may not be the same, the advice will be helpful. You need to try and respect yourself physically and spiritually. Nobody on this forum is going to tell you to shave your kes off, and you probably don't really want to do that anyway because you'll know it's wrong. Also it might be a good idea to talk the issue over with your wife, because you don't know for sure that she's avoiding you because of this. It will put your mind at ease. Use this as an opportunity for you both to learn something about the importance of Rehit and to move closer to Guru Ji. Always remember that Guru Ji created you in the most perfect way.

ive a question what if a girl have hair on ther body

stomach legs back etc etc

Again, do a search as there have been countless such topics. In a nutshell, for most cases it is nothing abnormal. Asians especially have more kes than other races and we all have kes on our bodies - it's nothing to be ashamed of. Again the issue is about respecting Guru Ji's creation, and being comfortable with yourself.

(If you think the hair is really thick & excessive and it's beginning to grow on your face (in a male-like distribution) then you may want to see the doctor to check for a hormonal imbalance. However don't use this as an excuse for non-gurmat hair removal methods! The point is to be healthy and keep the hormones under control so let your doctor know that keeping kes is a requirement, and that electrolysis/shaving is not an option.)

vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

But if a girl would like to be a amritdharie &&. what will the doctor do for it ?

theres no cure for it. the doctors will give pills. the pills can only control it while you're on it, once you come off, the hormones go imbalanced again. if you don't want to go through the doctor, you can control it through natural ways e.g. healthy diet and exercise.

[Guest _Neer_]

Have talk with your wife. Maybe it's just you that thinks this way. You have a hormonal imbalance which builds up many negative feelings inside of you. So maybe it's just you thats thinking this way about your wife. She is one with you. She will understand. Talk to her. Don't hesitate to talk to your self. She is you.

Do meditation for about 10 minutes a day on the Shabad WAHEGURU with your breath.

Breathe WAHE in and GURU out.

By doing so you will recover from this hormonal imbalance. Try it.

As you take Wahe in with your breath consider health coming inside of you and when you breathe Guru out consider sickness of the mind and the body leaving your body.

Also see your doctor about this imbalance. He/She will suggest something that will work for you.

[Jangal Da]

Time for a real doctor to answer:

The hair distribution that you describe is perfectlly normal for a male.

If you think the amount is excessive then do go and see your doctor to get an opinion about whether it is beyond the realms of so called normal. It may be the only way to really reassure you. In your 20s and 30s there is some additional male hair growth beyond secondary post puberty male hair growth, which includes nasal hair growth, ear hair growth, slightly more growth over the back and shoulders.

Suspected hormonal "imbalance" is a misnomer. Its not just a question of popping pills. If such thing was expected ( and these are rare things), then it could imply either a brain or adrenal tumour - and if so, may require neurosurgery. Like I said, these things are RARE and from the sounds of your concern and the lack of other symptoms that would ususally precede just excess hair growth alone, I doubt this in any way applies to you. ie Do not suddenly start to think 'I've got a tumour...' If concerned see your own Doctor, face to face.

The wife is avoiding you? Is there another reason? Have you asked her? Sounds like you need to communicate more within your marriage and not pose such things to strangers on an internet forum.

I hope that I have given you a constructive responce and am certain that you will overcome, what I can only suspect is a misrepresented distortion of body-image secondary to other things. If so, then more communication and shared understanding of the perceived problem is what you need. I do hope that all turns out to be well.

[sikh_assasin]

DEAL WITH IT

[Guest Kizarny]

Body hairs on a man are in. You don't want to be a "girly" man, do you?