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Any news yet singh?

Keep us updated.

Don't worry. Have faith, leave it to Vaheguru, He provides us with everything.

Just leave it to the mature wise gursikhs to sort it out properly.

Don't attempt or even think about approaching marriage yourself through dating websites, etc.

Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ke Fateh

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VJKK VJKF

I very much doubt that the singh concerned knows of any 'elder wise gursikhs' that could help him with this matter, which is probably why he has approached everyone here with his post. The only thing I could think of was registering with sangat tv matrimonials but I dont know how successful they are in finding a suitable match.

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In my opinion, Guys who earn less than

USD 3,500

GBP 2,000

CAD 3,000

EUR 2,500

AUD 3,000

INR 35,000

per month

shouldn't even think of finding a bride BY themselves.

Rarely you will find a couple who got married without Financial support or approval from parents.

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That's sad that even today money is a factor in marriage.

Fair enough parents won't accept a munda for their daughter if they can not at all financially provide and therefor start a family.

If both Wife n hubby to be are earning enough to strive on I don't see what the problem is.

I personally wouldn't look at the figures in a guys salary. If the guy is decent and simple minded that's enough for me.

Money is maya anyway. You just need to have enough for essentials, to put a roof over your head and some money

aside for charity.

That's how I see it. Depends what you want in life. If you want a luxury life you will just want more and it will never be enough.

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Miss,

The capital letter M, stands for Money in the word Marriage.

Being the first alphabet it is top priority.

M - money

A - arranged

R - relationship

R - requires

I - involvement (and)

A - agreement (of)

G - gaurdians (on)

E - expenditure

I agree that if both guy and gal are earning it's workable

If parents give down payment for couples apartment loan :biggrin2:

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Guest gurkipyariamridhari

wow that is super nice ok like seriously no offense to anyone!i m an amritdhari person entire family... the weirdest thing is i thought that guys who give any meaning to sikhi or weheguru don't exist seriously. but it is nice to know some guys in the world aren't so superficial. it is amazing to see this :)

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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji Ki Fateh!

I would suggest stop looking.. nooo seriously.

life after marriage isn't easy. u guys have option not to get married and as being a girl, ihve been keep asking my parents for thm not to talk about me getting married and if i can go back to india and live my whole life at hemkunt Sahib and do Guru Ji's Seva till the end. And they say no. CAN U BELIEVE THT! Such a discrimination. which is :nono: fair!

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