Kaam

[Ajmeet18]

So do you want us to say, ok don't worry carry on doing it and don't go pesh? If you are decided then why did you ask this question? It is not just bajjar kurehts that we should go pesh for, acts like masturbation and watching porn are also things which require peshi. You should also communicate to the panj pyare that you are afraid of doing it again, its important to have faith that they can help you. Do exactly what the Guru roop panj pyare tell you, and guru willing you will be protected from doing any such things.

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but if you still feel the urge to do things like this, then you're amritvela can't be strict enough. A truly 'strict' amritvela would over time lower the influence of the panj chor, including kaam.

The reason why I mentioned the strict amrit vela is becasue after doing these mistakes I dont know how but I woke up everyday at 3am for 2 weeks doing nitnem and naam simran on top and in the day I was doing Sukhmani Sahib and in this time I felt at real peace and thought maharaaj ni bakshliya. However, after those 2 weeks i commited the same mistakes

So do you want us to say, ok don't worry carry on doing it and don't go pesh? If you are decided then why did you ask this question? It is not just bajjar kurehts that we should go pesh for, acts like masturbation and watching porn are also things which require peshi. You should also communicate to the panj pyare that you are afraid of doing it again, its important to have faith that they can help you. Do exactly what the Guru roop panj pyare tell you, and guru willing you will be protected from doing any such things.

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but if you still feel the urge to do things like this, then you're amritvela can't be strict enough. A truly 'strict' amritvela would over time lower the influence of the panj chor, including kaam.

The reason why I mentioned the strict amrit vela is becasue after doing these mistakes I dont know how but I woke up everyday at 3am for 2 weeks doing nitnem and naam simran on top and in the day I was doing Sukhmani Sahib and in this time I felt at real peace and thought maharaaj ni bakshliya. However, after those 2 weeks i commited the same mistakes

[Guest justanotherrandom]

Look...You dont have to go pesh because u havent commited a bujjar kurheit, you should do ardass from the depths of your heart. and if you really are that sorry then you should always pray to god to give you the strength to not let kaam win over you.....The 5 vices are like snakes waiting to bite...Theyll rob you for everything you soul has earnt!

And another thing you dont get any brownie points for telling us done u done amritvela or how much simran and sukhmani sahib you do...Everytime you do your paat you should never tell any one because you loose it...NICE ONE!

[Guest Gupt]

You don't have to go pesh in my opinion... like mentioned above just do ardaas from the bottom of ur heart and Vaheguroo will surely listen....yes taking amrit again after commiting a bujjar karehath may be important.. but surely whats more important is that ardaas you do to Vaheguroo,,, truely asking for forgiveness and to be kept on the straight path...

And no u don't always lose what u gain from doing bani if u tell someone.. as long as it's not said with haumai.

Vaheguroo

[JagjeetST]

It's hard yes it is but you must use that creative energy elsewhere! Rather than doing such things do more Simran, Seva, Positive Research on Sikhi and set high standards and do Ardass! I would request everyone to watch this video:

[Mat Pulo Rai]

From personal experience it was a problem, but hasn't bothered me in the last 2 years as i got my Simran routine in place, but it was 4 hours a day i mean if you want to know what to do, send me a privtate msg and ill be glad to help with any info.

[jpsingh2]

dude masturbation is a selfish act. Think of the lord, god or the big picture of all of humanity rather than just you for a second and it should be easy not to think in selfish ways.