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Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

i have just recently got married and in a mature manner i need to know according to DAM DAMI TAKSAL rehat maryada, to what extent can i show my other half affection without breaking my rehat, getting into manmat? Affection meaning without any sexual intercourse, i mean will i be be breaking my rehat if i was to hug, kiss etc? Or are we not supposed to do any of that? Beanti that only LEARNED people of the taksal maryada reply please e.g. Khalistanzindabaad, Buv, you know the usual singhs that post up ddt events etc. Dhanvad. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

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There was a discussion on similiar topic couple of days ago:

http://www.sikhsanga...after-marriage/

Yeah thanks for that Singh but - I need to know according to taksaal rehat maryada, not what individuals 'think' could someone PM the guys mentioned above to reply back or to ask the taksali singhs they do sangat with? it's not really a topic i can really discuss with singhs lol

I need proper answers according to taksaal rehat please, buv singh or khalistan_zindabaad - help out?

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Vaaheguroooooooo!!!!!

Bhenji you smashed and killed and devastated (and what not) it.

Waheguru!

Bhaji, Dasam Bani smashed it! :tongue2:

To be fairly honest...the questions the OP has asked are quite legitimate to an extent. Me and my Singh have been discussing about the theories about preservation of s*xual energy for spiritual progress. Baba Waryam Singh ji mentions about it in his Katha as well. Yoga suggests it too.

So, my Singh decided to ask Baba Hari Singh Randhawe wale (they're good friends). And Baba ji said almost exactly what NeoSingh Bhaji has been explaining in a few recent posts; i.e. if one doesn't want to indulge in all of this...grihasti jeevan is not for them and they shouldn't be in it in the first place....and one-sided decisions for becoming 'bihangam' only makes matters worse.

And thus, we came across this Guru-waak.

Also, being a mother and a wife does make such things clearer. Had I come across the question when I was unmarried...I'd have thought the OP has gone bonkers!!! :drop: :p

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Why does the OP think Taksalis would go about this differently?? Makes it sound like another religion. Shouldnt it be the same for all Sikhs?

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Why does the OP think Taksalis would go about this differently?? Makes it sound like another religion. Shouldnt it be the same for all Sikhs?

I'm only assuming...

but I think because they might have some Taksaali Mahapurakh or jeevan-wale rehni-behni wale Singhs as their ideals...and understandably, it's hard to decide what's right, when you're newly-wed. Also, I think this Gupt section is more like a boon in that sense 'coz no one wants to talk about these things in 'real-life'.

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