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wjkk wjkf sad sabgat ji i have a horrible problem is that i masterbate and i tried to stop i stopped for about 2 months and than started again i always do ardaas i do kirtan and seva all the time i always feel bad for doing this can i get some help khalsa ji ? i try all the time but always end up doing it i need help SANGAT JI PLZ JI HELP ME OUT ! I'm a very good kid ji only 18 i do path seva kirtan everything ji

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wjkk wjkf sad sabgat ji i have a horrible problem is that i masterbate and i tried to stop i stopped for about 2 months and than started again i always do ardaas i do kirtan and seva all the time i always feel bad for doing this can i get some help khalsa ji ? i try all the time but always end up doing it i need help SANGAT JI PLZ JI HELP ME OUT ! I'm a very good kid ji only 18 i do path seva kirtan everything ji

You've tried everything now what's left? It's part of who you are just accept it as hukam this is what God wants from you. Don't feel guilty just accept it and live your life.

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wjkk wjkf sad sabgat ji i have a horrible problem is that i masterbate and i tried to stop i stopped for about 2 months and than started again i always do ardaas i do kirtan and seva all the time i always feel bad for doing this can i get some help khalsa ji ? i try all the time but always end up doing it i need help SANGAT JI PLZ JI HELP ME OUT ! I'm a very good kid ji only 18 i do path seva kirtan everything ji

lol. it is masterbate or masturbate ? sachi ae ki a? thavanu welya nu hor koi kaam nai..?

You've tried everything now what's left? It's part of who you are just accept it as hukam this is what God wants from you. Don't feel guilty just accept it and live your life.

lol...baba tu theek ta hai?

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You watch too many films your last few posts have been based but changed LOL on the discussion between bane and batman when they had that epic fight. Let me guess you also have watched Van Helsing and Django recently :lol2: Nice gravatar Stephen.

I prefer the Van Helsing from the book, but, yes, Django is a favourite of mine. As Stephen would say, "I axed you, who this Singh up on that nag?". :giggle:

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If you don't release it will happen automatically when you sleep after a while.

What about people who never get married, due to some illness or disability? What are they supposed to do?

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For a Sikh, masturbation is a no no. Sikhism is a path of saint soldiers, and soldiers fight. Fight your mind. I used to do this stuff before I was blessed with this Sikhi, and the negative effects of it still effect me after 6 years. When I go number two in the washroom, I automatically ejacualate because my body wasn't ready for this kind of stuff, I was a teenager. I believe someone that hasn't 'opened up their system' will not get wet dreams. Imagine this, we don't see our semen when it's in our body, we don't see it after sex, it ends up being inside the woman, then why would God want you to have it all over your hand. If someone seriously wants to stop, recite Vaheguru at Amrit Vela and do a Sukhmani Sahib during the day. Or when ever you feel the urge, listen to Sukhmani Sahib. It really doesn't take much effort to not do it. All you have to do is, not do it. Remember we are different from rest of the world, we are Sikhs of Guru Nanak, our actions should be not like the boys of other religions.

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