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What if I say that I don't want anything not even my soul to exist in any form and wants to die.i just want to quit this is too much difficulty and weird for me I mean 84lakh just for one human life.we are already in a hell.Also it's too difficult to reach god.I am ok with one single life and after that a complete death but instead I am stuck here forever.I wish my soul never existed in first place :(

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You're not alone, many of us think of quitting at some point in our lives but we should not stop praying to Waheguru for help and forgiveness.

Think about how far you have come, not how far you have to go !

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Ur not here forever, u could be dead tomorrow- the psychology of people is hell- not the earth realm- so u can still live heaven on earth- Truth- by living Truthfully- Who cares about every1 else, be happy, be thankful for your blessings and detach from the crap.

Be in chadri kala, recognise your beloved in everything n everyone and learn what He wants u to learn- yeh u have had so many janams- so make the most of this one.

Fudge eveyone else, practice Truth (apply gurbani 2 ur life) n embrace n enjoy life. We're free.

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Bhaji/Benji

You have no choice.

Your soul is immortal and death is just a doorway, you die and pass through into your next existence, and it is all Akaal Purkhs Khade!

You hit the nail on the head, we go through 84 lakhs of lives, we are living in hell now.

So why don't we want to break out?

We cannot leave this life as failures, we cannot, must no lose this battle.

So what do we do ?

We take the asraa/support of our Guru and we start walking on the Gurus path. We keep on moving along the path. That is the secret - WE KEEP ON MOVING ALONG GURUS PATH - one day we will get there !

Make small changes in your life, don't do too much in one go. If you cannot do full Japji Sahib then just to panj pauria, if you cannot do that then just do mool mantra. If you cannot do 20 mins then do 10, if not 10 then just 5. BUT make those 5 minutes count, devote the whole 5 to your Guru. But don't stop on the path, don't look left, don't look right (meaning don't look at what others are doing) stick to your path and KEEP GOING.

Don't be disheartened, you have been blessed - you have a human life, next your are born in a Sikh house hold, you care for your faith - what more proof do you want that Guru Ji loves you???? Then show Him that love back.

Come on Bhaji/Benji don't lose heart, be strong be strong like the Sahibzadhay - did they lose faith? Did Baba Banda Singh Bahadur Ji lose faith? No.

So take inspiration and start walking on the path, ask Guru Ji before any decision you make, one day your will get there

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Bhaji / Benji

You have no choice.

Your soul is immortal and death is only a doorway, you die and pass through into your next existence and it is all Akaal Purkhs khade !

You hit the nail on the head, we go through 84 lakhs of lives we are living in hell now.

So why don't we break free?

We do this by taking the aasraa/support of our Guru and start walking on the Gurus path. We keep on going along the path. That is the secret - WE KEEP ON MOVING ALONG GURUS PATH - one day we will get there !

Make small changes in your life, don't do too much in one go. If you cannot do a full Japji Sahib then just do 5 pauria, if you cannot do that then do Mool Mantras. If you cannot do 20 mins then do 10, if you cannot do 10 do 5 BUT make those 5 minutes count, devote the whole 5 minutes to your Guru. Don't stop on the path, don't look left, don't look right (meaning don't look at what others are doing) stick to your path and KEEP GOING.

Don't be disheartened , you have already been blessed - you have a human life, next you are born in a Sikh household, then you care for your faith - what more proof do you want that Guru Ji loves you ???? Then show that love back.

Come on Bhaji / Benji don't lose heart, be storng like the sahibzadhay - did they lose faith? Did Banda Singh Bahadur Ji lose faith, NO.

Take inspiration and start walking on the path, ask Guru Ji before any decision you make, one day you will get there.

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Bhai Vir Singh (his birthday today) wrote (paraphrased) "Vaheguru is kind, so he made things easy. Butter is expensive but we can survive without it. Roti is cheaper because we need it to survive. Water is free as we can't survive long without it. But air is everywhere because we can't survive a moment without it. And the most important thing to meet our Source so we do not dry up or get lost meandering in fields, forced underground out of sight without hope for years(water analogy) Waheguru did not make it hard but easiest. Waheguru is all around, Here! Now! So everything is perfect. Realize this and smile be happy and say Waheguru. Each time u say waheguru be happy smile realize him. Repeat. You will forget. Have fear sadness again. So practice remembering Waheguru and smiling and realizing. If u say/ think waheguru, say it again with gratituse and thanks that he let u remember. So thank again with waheguru shabad cuz u remembered."

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This was in answer to a Hindu sadhu who said parmarth da rasta aokha hai (the path to salvation, mukti, is hard)and bhai veer said No. Why would god make it hard. It is easy simple and blissful and beneficial

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What if I say that I don't want anything not even my soul to exist in any form and wants to die.i just want to quit this is too much difficulty and weird for me I mean 84lakh just for one human life.we are already in a hell.Also it's too difficult to reach god.I am ok with one single life and after that a complete death but instead I am stuck here forever.I wish my soul never existed in first place :(

That's the EGO talking...not the soul.

Let your soul do some talking by holding steady that Mind that is leading you astray.

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Focus on bhajan/bandigi. Listen to Kirtan listen to katha listen to gurbani. Get rid of all those things that make you feel negative. Forget about them all. And replace them with Gurbani and Sikhi Sidhaant. Then notice your life changing course! It'll become amazing because;

charan saran gur eaek paiddaa jaae chala sath gur kott paiddaa aagae hoe laeth hai ||

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Why do you believe in Reincarnation.. Makes no sense.. Its only the here and NOW. Reincarnation was only there to explain to us fools, that the HERE and NOW is everything, it is heaven and hell, it is the thing that you YOURSELF make out of it. You can make your heaven.. You can make your hell...! Why do you care what will happen to your life after you die? Why do you waste your time? Just remember the one and only, follow your 'moral' and the prinicples of Guru Nanak.. Keerat Karo, Wand Shako, Naam japo...

The total concept of HEAVEN and HELL is corrupt.. Its abrahmic...

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Why do you believe in Reincarnation.. Makes no sense.. Its only the here and NOW. Reincarnation was only there to explain to us fools, that the HERE and NOW is everything, it is heaven and hell, it is the thing that you YOURSELF make out of it. You can make your heaven.. You can make your hell...! Why do you care what will happen to your life after you die? Why do you waste your time? Just remember the one and only, follow your 'moral' and the prinicples of Guru Nanak.. Keerat Karo, Wand Shako, Naam japo...

The total concept of HEAVEN and HELL is corrupt.. Its abrahmic...

Veer ji

for a soul vichorda is the living embodiment of hell ... that's why being stuck in lakh chaurasi for millions of years is no joke for Sikhs

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Reincarnation is real- its wise to think about the fact that we have had thousands of incarnations, it can put life into perspective and brings a message- to Not mess up this jewel of a chance of a human life we have been blessed with by practicing maya.

We can live heaven on earth, the kingdom of heaven as Jesus said is already here, we just have to practice Truth to realise it.

Its the psychology of people that has made kalyug but just because others choose hell maya principles, doesnt mean we have to, as pis*ed off as they may get at us for not coming to their sad level. Our reactions shoukd always be in Truth, never in maya- anger, lust, greed, attachment, jealousy, envy, ego, slander, gossip, backstabbing.

Live Gurbani- become Gurbani- dont just don the outfit.

Be in Chardi Kala.

Satnaam

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What if I say that I don't want anything not even my soul to exist in any form and wants to die.i just want to quit this is too much difficulty and weird for me I mean 84lakh just for one human life.we are already in a hell.Also it's too difficult to reach god.I am ok with one single life and after that a complete death but instead I am stuck here forever.I wish my soul never existed in first place :(

Dear Guest,

I was just reading your post with attention, and find out, that whatever you have stated, is a sincere cry of your soul.

You are saying things that only a bhagat can say, lets us take each line of your statement and see the depth in it :

What if I say that I don't want anything not even my soul to exist in any form and wants to die.

That is all we want really, we want to get out of the web of the creation for once and ever, we awnt to die for pnce, means for a last time with this very life.

So carry on, do not change your mind on this ideal.

i just want to quit this is too much difficulty and weird for me I mean 84lakh just for one human life.

Yes, we want to quit also, nobody wants to stay in this valley of pain and tears....But just saying you want to quit, will not do; for that purpose of quitting, you have to do something, give your hand to Wahiguru, so that He may pull you out.

And for that, you have not to do nothing extraordinary, nor many things, just stay and live in His will, His Bhaana. His Bhaana is also, that He wants us to turn our faces towards Him, He misses us more than anything, in fact, the words you express, are nothing of your own, but His pull within you, He has given you vairaag, which many do not get even after much "taap". In a way, you are blessed, you have already walked half the way, the rest of your walking towards your destiny, is to hold tight to His arm, which is doing His Simran.

we are already in a hell.

Yes it is true, being away from Him is a hell itself.

Also it's too difficult to reach god.

Difficult yes, but not impossible. But tell me, what is easy in life? Is it easy to bear a child? Is it easy to study? Is it easy to be a good person?

And so on .....

You see, even the sportsmen, to just win a piece of metal in the olympic games or other championships, train daily non stop for eight hours, and you think that, that Highest and Purest, will be got just by lip service?

The fact is, He is got by His Grace, and to get His Grace, is the secret to quit out, and to obtain His Grace, one has just to please Him, by doing His Simran, nothing else pleases Him more than this His devotion.

That is why the Bani says: Prabh ka Simran sabh te oucha

I am ok with one single life and after that a complete death but instead

If this is true what you are saying, than do with all your heart, mind and body, the only jugtee for really quiting out : His Simran

I am stuck here forever.

You are stuck, by our own deeds, though you may not be consciouss of it, so now do some deeds, to get out, as said above, do His Simran with utmost love, like a fish without water...

I wish my soul never existed in first place

Who wants to be separated from Him? But now, wailing will be of no avail. Do the real job of being true to yourself and feelings, by making this birth of yours the last one... In fact, it is your soul which is talking, who wants to return to its Nijh Ghar.

Brother, can you see the amazing Grace of Wahiguru on you?

You are talking like and advanced jigyasu, seeker of Truth, without you being aware of it. This is the Grace of Wahiguru alone, He can make stones carry out His orders.... His Hukum.

Jin Har japeeya, se har hoeeya.

God bless you jee!

Wah Wah Waheguru Jee

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