hanji but the longer versions have more dasam bani, none of the versions incorporate the full anand sahib
It just feels weird to skip so much of it, so I am not sure whether it would be beadbi somehow for me recite the full anand sahib instead of the "chhota anand sahib"
dhanvaad for feedback
I think we both are leading to the same conclusion, just worded and expressed differently.
I don't necessarily agree with the fact that there is any particular pattern to women ending up with partners who treat them badly (i.e. fame, money, good looking etc.), sure, it's a factor but not all the time. In a lot of relationships things become about control, when that escalates it can sometimes become abusive, for men a lot of the time it's about controlling the narrative the wife believes, if he's having an affair or up to no good he will control the narrative so his wife is only party to things that he want's her to see and hear, even places he want's her to go, in the case of Juggy D his wife found out and it all escalated but then she knew about his old habits anyway and chose to believe he changed.