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Pls Do Ardass For This Papi'S Amrit Wela
by Guest Failure_Amrit Wela- 6 replies
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Sadh Sangat Jeo, Despite being an Amritdhari, I'm not able to get up at Amrit-Wela. I'm tired of making all kinds of efforts. I know only Waheguru ji's kirpa enables one to get up at Amrit-Wela and that I should do ardas in front of him. But can Guru-roop sadh sangat ji be kind enough to do ardass in Guru Ji's feet to baksh Amrit-Wela & satsangat to this dass please. Anyone from the sangat PLEASE?
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Can you work with meat/ alcohol etc after Amritdari?
by Guest Guest- 7 replies
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Hi, My dad would like to take Amrit, but he works in a local supermarket on the till. So he is in touch with meat alcohol etc. Would he have to quit his job when he takes Amrit?
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What Do I Do?
by Guest manmukh- 2 replies
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vaheguroo ji ka khalsa vaheguroo ji ki fateh saadh sangat jeeo, when I took amrit, I was told to wash my hair daily, atleast with water everyday if not shampoo…I want to know, should one wait for the kes to dry, or just rub them hard enough and tie keski over them even if they are mildly wet? Also I m not able to keep rehit properly, like amritvela, nitnem, naam simran, bibek, etc. and also I m always under attack by kaam and krodh… I also tie my beard at certain times…I intend to re-take amrit in future and follow it in a much better way when I m financially independent…I know I should be regular and strict in amritvela, and also I am not able to keep proper bibek as o…
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Breaking An Engagement
by Guest I dunNo- 8 replies
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Gurfateh... I got engaged and it seems like I was outta my mind and still cant believe I did. I HAD NOOO Say and was basically blackmailed into it. The guy and his family are nice but My Sikhi is deeply hurt. I saw this Bindi stuff coming on my forehead and bangles that I have never worn!! wHen they brought it, I felt like swearing but I just sat there crying inside. This family is Amritdhari but ALSO punjabi! the 2 dont go together and I dunno what i got myself into. They didnt take any Hukum and the ardaas was done in my absence. All was a social gathering at a house and they gave me this BIG huge dipped out golden ring that covers the whole of my finger... haha I lau…
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Kirpan
by Guest hmmm- 9 replies
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vjkk vjkf so i was in school, and my kirpan was hanging out underneath my shirt and of course someone asked "Are you wearing a knife?!" lol anyway i answered a coupla questions (regarding the law etc), but someone asked if it had to be made out of metal. (i dint get a chance to answer - there were too many questions!) but it got me thinking. my initial reaction would be no - kirpans are weapons, even if we hardly ever use them as that. but the thing is, thesedays people like me wear small ones to school etc (like 3 inches) and sometimes they're blunt - they can hardly be used as 'weapons' if theres a need. so if we wear small, blunt kirpans then they might as well be m…
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Ardaas Request
by Guest beggarofsangat- 9 replies
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Sangat jio I am going through a very tough time spiritually... i cant explain. Please find it in your heart to do an ardaas for Guru Mahraj to do kirpa on me, I need his kirpa and daya. I beg from you the sangat without any shame, please help me.
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The World's A Confusing Place...
by Guest Guest- 9 replies
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How do we know what is really right or wrong? There are sooo many different versions of soo many different things How are we ever going to know if its right? How do we know what we are doing is right? I just find everything so confusing, there are so many people who believe different things. Who should you believe? ... Does any one understand where im coming from?
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Singhnis In Punjab
by Guest Nri- 7 replies
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Are ther any singhnis in punjab i can get in touch with, im travlin to india soon. Pref about 19-24 age range
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Bedabi Gurudarwara Glasgow
by Guest Gupt Singh- 6 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fathe! Saad Sangat ji A brand new gurudarwara that has opened in Glasgow has had many beadbis happening. Firstly the akhand path maryada has been ignored there is no dhoop, joth, jal or nariyal present. Secondly, <edited> Singh a committee member is doing parchaar in the gurudarwara is saying "if you cant get up at amrit vela its okay- dont feel guilty nitname does not need to happen at amritvela." They have a gay member in the gurudarwara committee (<edited> Singh) Who has been seen smoking and drinking in pubs before by many singhs. The parchaar they are doing is all missionary thinking based. So its a gupt bent…
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Gurfateh Ji, Has anyone heard or know how Veer Jagraj Singh Ji is doing? Akaal
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Castrate Dogs Right Or Wrong?
by Guest right or wrong?- 9 replies
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do any of you guys keep dogs? and if so is it ok to have them castrated? please help I'm really confused!
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Widows Colony
by Guest guest1- 3 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji kee Fateh Dear Sangat, I was hoping someone could provide me with contact details, pref. an address for the widows colony in Dehli. I would like to visit there but cannot afford at this moment. I was having a spring clear out and found that I had way too many clothes for one person, I thought I could sell and donate money but I was not able to sell all my Punjabi clothes. I have some very good quality suits which I think our sisters and mothers can make good use from, some of my items have not been worn even the once. I would like to send some parcels out and perhaps our mothers and sisters there can use these things for personal use o…
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I know someone that has lied to the punj pyare in the presence of Guru Sahib Jee. What should she do about it? What would be the possible consequences?
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Gurfateh What is the best way of losing a friend without hurting her feeling. A friend who is in the way of things and often not very mutual. Ignoring or stop talking okay? Gurfateh
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Mastubation
by Guest maserati singh- 1 reply
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OMG, I have just read this thread in Gupt and read this reply..................all i can say 'god help us all' we come on here and criticise Muslims for being backwards etc........this makes the Victorians look modern and understanding of our biological self. not even going to go into why this comment is sooooooo wrong. Havent been on this site for months and i come on and find this.......holy mother of jesus, what planet are we on? These are not the dark ages. THIS THREAD WONT BE PUBLISHED AS THE ADMINISTRATORS DONT LIKE TO PUBLISH ANYTHING UPSETS THE APPLE CART. Masturbation if done excessively is very bad for your physical body but more so your mind. Dont be fool…
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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