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Hair / nails / mutation sikhism
by Guest Confused- 7 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa ,Waheguru Ji ki Fateh Everyone, I have a doubt. I read somewhere in the forums that we dnt cut hair because they are living(living cells) where as we cut extended nails because they are non living(dead cells). What if a sikh is born with a rare mutation ,example : a extra hand or something which is living but of no use.(the cases you see on discovery or national geography). Is he/she allowed to cut(obviously through operation) it? Now one more thing,Due to hair at my private parts I have got a fungal infection.Doctor simply said the reason was water clogging after bath. And no matter whatever you do it wont dry(i cant simply use a dryer)..and …
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Waheguru Ji! I hope with this post I can find some kind of solace with fellow Singhs and Singhneea! Since April of this year I decided to keep my Kesh, my dad is a keshdhari Singh however cuts his dhari. I come from a moderately religious family, however everyone's drinks and eats meat within my family. So anyway I decided too keep my Kesh however continued I cut my dhari a I did before. In July I went to Punjab for a holiday by myself and visited numerous Guru Ghar and decided to also keep my dhari, a point to note is that I listen to loads of Kirtan and diwans I also do a lot of jaapand path. When I returned home my family told me to cut my beard saying that I look t…
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Inspiring video on guru tegh bahadhur's sacrifice
by Guest Kookar- 0 replies
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Sorry not a member - simply a reader but wanted to share this video wit all of you. It's a must watch, a bit long but worth it. trust me.
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issues regarding sexuality
by Guest seekingAnswer- 0 replies
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Hey I am 25 old young man from a sikh family . My family is not that religious I have always felt attracted towards men physically emotionally and sexually . I dont feel desire for women . Infact I feel I am being cheated because my parents want me to marry off to a girl They dont know that I am not into women at all What should or can I do ?
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Be careful
by Guest Gupt- 1 reply
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I just wanted to let the sangat know on this forum that you should always be vigilant about other forum members on this forum. Please do not disclose your own personal information( ie tell your real name, gender, place of birth etc) to someone on this forum just because you think they have gian or have 100+ posts on this forum and you think they are in "chardikala." For example, i once posted a question on this gupt section of this forum and one of the forum members told me to send him a PM. So, i thought this person wanted to help me out, so i created a account on this forum and sent him a PM, and then he replied back and said that it would be easier for him to discuss …
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why use derogatory words in sikh.frustrated 1 2 3
by Guest sikh- 23 replies
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its been quite sometime since i have been reading posts on sikhsangat.com referring to different castes by by derogatory slangs.I am sure the guys who mark such posts would refrain from calling blacks "nigger" for fear of "rascist" vibes. Sikhs say that the others being rascist to them when they call a sikh a taliban .But why do they fail to analyse their own actions when they refer to a khatri as "bhaaappe" or "bania' and a ramgarhia as "tarkhan",mazhabi sikhs as "churaas".When the other castes have not invented derogatory slangs for jats.Does it all imply that khatris,ramgarhias and mazhabis had absolutely no rule to play in the progress of the sikh religion. Have th…
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I Have To Find A Dastar Wearing Bibi 1 2 3
by Guest -S1KH-- 22 replies
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I know there are many threads regarding dating, love and marriage and some people feel gupt section should be scraped. Scrape it after this post . anyways back to my problem I am 25 turning 26 in aug. My problem is people around me want me to get married and i have told them i want a bibi who wears a keski. I am not amritdhari yet but will be soon with guru kirpa. They posted my profile on shaadi.com and there were responses to my profile. I didnt like any of the girls who responded. My parents and relatives say you should meet a girl and then over a period of time she can change but i dont like that idea. helpppppppppppp me sangattttttttttttttttt
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Question on death 1 2
by Guest Gsk1993- 11 replies
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I am very confused and concerned about what happens to the soul, if there is one, in the afterlife. A relative of mine took her own life recently in uncertain circumstances. I know that in the Christian and Muslim faiths this is seen as a major sin. What is the opinion on what happens to the soul in Sikhi if someone takes their own life, is murdered or dies in an accident. Is the time or cause of death predetermined? Is there even anything beyond death. I am very confused and I apologise if I cause offense. I just don't know who to ask.
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TEDxGlasgow talk on Porn effects on body.
by Guest Singh- 1 reply
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I hope this is allowed and the sangat can be mature about this. We shouldn't suppress such discussions as they cause more problems if we can't understand them. Becoming addicted to such things will deprive you of success in everything* in life.
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Shabad translation
by Guest question- 3 replies
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Please could somebody help translate this shabad? I dont fully understand it. thankuji
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Dealing with people 1 2
by Guest Singhni- 14 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka khalsa, Vaheguru ji ki fateh. I need serious Gurmat advice. There is one Singhni in particular who I have to see very often, and who I will be living with next year (I'm close to her family). It is very hard to put up with her. She has been brought up in a Gursikh family, but is not practicing Sikhi in the sense of having taken Amrit or doing Nitnem. She has had a very good upbringing, and has been spoilt with all the love and attention she could want. Now, as a young adult, she's self absorbed, temperamental and overly confident (ego). She is more concerned with popularity and taking pouty pictures than anything else. For example, she will constantly ta…
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having darshans in dreams at will? 1 2
by Guest neo- 14 replies
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what do yo think about having darshan of god in lucid dreams. Lucid dreams are special dreams in which one become aware of the fact that we are in a dream so that we can have full control the dream. What do you think about have darshan in that state? Because in that state you just have to think about the god and it appears.i had tried it myself and that works.if you don't believe me just google lucid dreaming
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Ear Pains From Patka 1 2
by Guest anon- 12 replies
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Yo fellow community. Basically I wear a patka, i am fussy and normally wear it kind of tight... But my ears and slightly head(not sure if patka is "main" issue for head ache/pain) seem to hurt and seem like "Dry" well not really dry but feel "bumpier|. Any tips on stopping the "pain" beside wearing a pagh etc... not really wanting to in this current time soon though,also don't want to tie patka ontop of ears etc.. idk why lol. Tried some vasalene did alright job but anything else other then 'drastic' changes not looking to loosen my patka up as i play many sports but 'like' keeping my patka tight lol, first time here so..(here being the forum ofc) Also my ears havnt gott…
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Use of tobacco is injurious to health. Guru Sahib prohibited it in 1699. History of tobacco and its use in india/world, want to know more.
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Luton Rape Case
by Guest Sikh- 0 replies
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It has been almost a year since a sikh girl was raped in Luton, London. Living in NY I have not heard of any updates on the case. Can anyone provide any information? Was the rapist released? Also has the Muslim and Sikh community been living in peace? Thanks
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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