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few questions to ask ?
by Guest jusme- 2 replies
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How do we take hukamnama ,please clarify thoroughly ,?(this is most important question? 2. Today I felt uneasy at night and felt like someone is seeing me from dark , how to be safe ,? 3. Sometimes I feel someone has done black magic on my family ,is it possible? 4. Why do people take side of wrong people and why they don't respect good people ? 5. Can a gursikh wear patiala shahi pagh , and can I still become gursikh if I follow all 5k but do paath only when I get time like once or twice in a week , I believe a true gursikh should have a good nature and I m so far away from greed ,lust , ,can I be a Sikh if I do only few nitnems daily , 6. What's the idea…
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Helping the unfortuante families in Punjab
by Guest khalsa ji- 5 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru je ki fateh dass wants to help shaheed singh families or unfortuante families in punjab. please please provide dass with details of families so he can do so preferably in amritsar area. you may wonder why im not going via khalsa aid etc, i want to help these families from now until the long run and help with kids education , weddings etc and want to build a rapport with them. i will begin with 1 family and if maharaj does kirpa do another 1 soon. ive emailed khalsa aid for details of families but none have got back to me. so please could you tke this post seriously and help singh do seva. gareeb da mouh guru di golak. vjkk vjkf Vahe…
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westernised british asian / indian girls are a BIG TURN OFF 1 2
by Guest wonderer- 11 replies
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I'm find settling down with a westernised indian female is very hard to do as they all pretty much cheap tarts who drink more than men, sleep around with every dog out there and try to be like men in everything these days and not wifey material the kind of girl you can take home and your mum and family be proud of. Anyone else having the same experience? What are the solutions apart from marrying a fresh from Punjab.
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Visiting London ... What are some Sikh-related things to see/do? 1 2
by Guest SinghSahib99- 18 replies
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HI, I live in America and have never been to England. I will be visiting London soon and am wondering what there is to see or do that would be of interest to a Sikh. Are there some interesting museums or collections to see? Are any of the Gurdwaras especially worth checking out? Any interesting neighborhoods I should visit? Any musical/theatrical performances that might be of interest? I'd appreciate all suggestions. Thanks If nothing else, perhaps I could meet up with West London Singh for some cha. That might be more entertaining than anything else I could end up doing!!
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Depressive as a boy? 1 2
by Guest Senseless- 16 replies
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Hello ... I recently had been by a docotr who diagnosed that I have depression... My life became so senselesss and grey in the past years.. I can´t handle things anymore.. Everything seems to be <banned word filter activated>! I feel no longer any sense in life... And the wrost thing is I feel ashamed, because I am keshdhari 'Sikh', I mean I love Waheguru and everything.. and I love Sikhi... But I can´t practice it proper... I am so lost... Now I feel , that I am disrespecting.. Sikhs by wearing turban and kesh... because I have depression.. becauseSikhs have never depression.... I mean I am looking like a Sikh, but inside I am not and dead.. and I don´t want to …
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kesh
by Guest singh 1987- 7 replies
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gurfateh i have been growing my kesh for about 16 months but my kesh are still not very long and my brother cuts his hair but some times he grows it fir few months and its almost as long as mine, i dont think i took good care of my kesh as i never used to apply oil, brush hair everday, i was told you should wash your hair everday if u can but sum people say this damages the natural oil in our hair, so can anybody tell me how i can make my kesh grow faster and longer and how shouldi tie it up, what is the method to wash your hair befoe ishnan and after and how do you dry with hairdryer etc, sorry for lots of questions but i jus want to know what the best methods are for …
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Problem, please help 1 2
by Guest singh- 11 replies
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vaheguru ji ka khalsa, vaheguru ji ki fateh I'm amritdhari and I have got this problem I'm really ashamed of. I've tried everything I can think of and it won't stop happening so I've finally decided to ask the sangat for help. Well here it is, I used to be a kaami person before but since I have had amrit I had abstained from all kaami activities. I took amrit its been around 4-5 years since I took amrit. I have kept strict amritvella and do all my paath. Last year as soon as I increased my baani this problem started happening. The problem is that I have started doing kaami activity whilst asleep subconsciously. I can't stop it. I've tried everything I can think of. I t…
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Hi All, I have joined this site few days back.... I have seen many post where to describe the importance of Kacheraaaa..... much vulger talks was happening..... I have seen post on rape......... n ladies problems... and many i dont even remember properly..... And the replies on such types of posts are maximum.... I think.... instead to sharing gyan with the sangat on this site ............... many cheap things are happening here..... The Admin should control those threads..................
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Parents and Amrit
by Guest Baljeet Kaur- 3 replies
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I am a young girl and I would just love to take chulla but my mum does not want me to as she thinks I will leave my sikhi(which will never happen).
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Akhand Paath & Sehaj Paath.... Rituals?
by Guest guru ka sevak- 3 replies
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WJKK WJKF Khalsa Ji, Just a quick questions regarding Akhand and Sehaj Paath's. When gurdwara's have several akhand paath's open and no one is listening to them, and people are actually in the langar hall gossiping and chatting, doesn't this defeat the purpose of Akhand Paaths? Doesn't someone have to be listening to the paath the whole time, including the night? What is the point of reading the paath non-stop? Gurbani is to be read and vichar not read as a ritual. If no one is listening to the gurbani then why read it without stopping, is this somewhat ritualistic? As for Sehaj Paaths, expect for when families have a death I understand they might not be able to go to …
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Bandi Chhor Diwas
by Guest confusingh- 3 replies
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I have a question about Bandi Chhor Diwas. Yesterday was Diwali and i was really confused on whether i should go gurudwara or not for that reason. As Bandi Chhor was already earlier a few days ago, although it was Baba Deep Singh Ji shaheedi. I know no reason is good enough reason to go to the gurudwara anytime or place. But seeing how much we celebrate 'Diwali' in Sri Harmandir Sahib etc i thought i was wrong not to be partaking in the festivites of the day. Someone told me Bhai Mani Singh Ji became shaheed so we can go to harmandir sahib on 'Diwali' this doesnt sound right to me or at least a half story. Is there some sort of direct Sikhi link to the day of 'Diwali' its…
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Hi All, I am Amritdhari Girl..... My parent n family members being a sikh opposed me to become baptized... just because its hard to find Amritdhari boy... but still as i luv my religion and my Gurus i became Amritdhari.... I want to know is this true? I have seen the attitude of Sikh boys also... after i became baptized, i came to know.. even normal Sikh boys don't prefer being amritdhari and Amritdhari girls... Want to know y?
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kirpan necklace 1 2
by Guest ravinder kaur- 12 replies
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hi i jus took amrit last month and no in my family knew as i wore my kakkars gupt but then my dad saw it and was not pleased, anyway they told me that I can't wear a kipran in the gatra as it is dangerous for me when sleeping etc, anyway they told me to wear the kirpan around my neck, is this accpetable I have asked other singhnia and they told me that you should not wear your kirpan as a necklace and should always be worn as a gatra, is there something wrong with wearing it as necklace or is it accpetable please tell me.
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Puratan 3ft shaster wanted in Birmingham area
by Guest ASinghKhalsa- 0 replies
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Vjkk vjkf! If anyone is selling any 3ft kirpans, khandas or other shasters, kindly email on amandeep-singh@live.co.uk
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Khalistan or jattistan 1 2
by Guest Loudnproud- 11 replies
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Sat sri akal fellow brothers and sisters, Will we ever get khalistan and do we need it? Firstly i would like to say i really do believe We need our own homeland as we are not accepted in india and treated not as first class citizens no matter how patriotic we are or was, secondly will we ever get khalistan and truthfully not yet, even if we did have khalistan there are too many divisions.The reason why alot of panjabis say no to khalistan is because the oppression they have recieved and r still recieving from these so called elites these jatts who put jatt before actually stating they are sikh or how they put it jatt sikh hur hur the rest of the panjabi kaum beleive havi…
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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