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my parents won't let me date. i really like this girl too and she's nice, smart and pretty. i get A's and always listen to my parents. i even do shabaths. how do i convince my parents to let me date? they won'y even let me hang out with girls or talk to them at all!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mature replies only please. To the OP - I would encourage you to search the forum for topics on dating, I am sure you will find the answer to your question in previous topics.
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Hi There I read a post on here about caste and that our parents want us to marry our own caste due to being in the same profession. I wanted to know if there is any difference between a Sikh Kamboj from the punjarb (who are know as farmers) and Sikh Jatt from the punjarb (also know as the farmers)??? I know before sikhism was made we were all wither hindu's or muslims (sorry if this is wrong and please correct me) What cant a Sikh Kamboh and a Sikh Jatt marry one another? and what will the parents says that the difference is to why this can not be/ or can be? Any sikh kambohs out there please reply with your own veiws. Thanks C
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What Is Panj Ishnaan And How Is It Done? 1 2
by Guest Curious- 14 replies
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The topic title ___ can someone answer it plese? :lol:
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Help Exam! 1 2
by Guest anoopsingh86- 19 replies
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Vaheguru Ji Ka khalsa Vaheguru Ji ki fatheh. Daas has a very important exam coming up and just wanted to ask the sangat if doing ardaas from the heart means maharaaj will pass this test for me. I know this may sound stupid but I haven't revised at all, also I'm not too confident but believes Guru sahib will help me. Shall I make krah prashaad and then do ardaas? I need to pass this exam.
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I wanted to post this because some people on another thread called something like "don't judge monas" were very honest about their family background ie them keeping kesh and their fathers drinking, smoking and stuff. Well, I am from the reverse situation where my father is now amritdhari and I don't keep kesh. My point is this. My father is still one of the most heartless, stupid and cruel men I have met (and I have been about). So those guys who are pushing for guys to take amrit to solve all these problems we are having in the community are just plain simple. It is not a quick cure for all our problems. I'm not saying all amritdharis are like this and I know some that…
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Khalsa Desi Tea 1 2 3
by Guest .- 21 replies
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anyone know where to buy this product in the UK? thanks.
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Ok, I Did It - I Got Free From Masturbation And Porn Addiction But... Need Help ( Seriously) . 1 2
by Guest Pappi trying to beco- 18 replies
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first of all , this is NO joke thread or any topix like thread. This is a serious. Well I have to admit that I am a bad Sikh - I watched porn and was somehow addicted for more than 4 years now.. I know there is nothing to be proud of and I feel ashamed . But due to Maharaj I managed now to stay away from all these "lustful" things in this society. I hate this society - every where is sex - from little you are forced to see such things.. really . I guess if there werent such things - I would never fall into this "addiction" . Anyway.... Now I am clean for about 1Month - and trust me it was REALLY hard. I did everything to avoid lustful thoughts and things and seeing woma…
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Hello, I need help. I am a bad sikh. I don't work at the moment. I am on employment and support allowance which is for people who are unfit for work. I am claiming this at the moment for my mental health problem. I am only volunteering a couple of days a week. If I am honest, I don't want to work. I don't know what's wrong with me. I am apparently sad and weird which I believe is true. I sit at home and read stuff on the internet about religion and don't do anything productive. I find life hard. I am lazy. I can't face my problems like a man. I avoid being responsible. I wish I was one of the winners in life who everybody loved but it feels like people want to stay away …
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I am a sikh women and I cannot find anyone to marry me. I don't remove my hair and sikh men don't like that even though they keep their own hair. Sikh males have a female hair phobia. I absolutely adore my bodily hair because I feel free. By this I mean that I feel like I am the only person who knows the truth that all women grow hair and I can fully accept myself in my natural form. Not many women (actually none) like themselves with hair. I would like to add that I do not do my eyebrows, upper lip or facial hair. To me it means something hugely special to have hair because it means I have not developed a false belief that females should look hairless when that is not ou…
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Singhnee Need Wedding Design Ideas For Her And Her Other Half 1 2 3
by Guest Amandeep Kaur- 25 replies
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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh, We are looking for ideas for what to wear at our wedding taking place in india next augast. Some photos from recent weddings would be of great help as ive attended very little singh sighnee weddings...thanx any website u guys know of will also help a great deal thanks in advance to read this. Amandeep kaur khalsa
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well, ive learnt a lot about sikhi..... i used to do my eyebrows, remove facial hair (on upperlip) well ive stopped with all this, and i want to seriously start to follow guru ji's path at first i started with full confidence.. but now the facial hair is getting more....i get very insecure.. it feels like my classmates just stare at the hair,, my family would torture me, even my dad... i just cant accept the fact... that this hair is coming back, and coming back worse.. i feel so sad, but i cant turn my guru ji down some [close 2 me] recommend to do laser how can i do this, this is fooling the world, but not fooling guru ji but guru ji can do incredible things, …
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Moving Into A Haunted House Help! Need Gurbani 1 2 3 4
by Guest japjeev- 30 replies
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So where i live they have auction on haunted house and they go away cheap after a person goes inside and checks it. I have won it and i went to take a look at the house and well i saw much paranormal activity and the house seems to get barely any sunlight. so i was thinking since gurbani has so much power it can be a profit for me. i can get the house and do some gurbani with family. SO i was wandering what are some type of gurbani and paaths i can do? Yes i will be doing akhand path but just to be safe. i want to do more. SO any suggestions?
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Feeling so confused! Buddhism Vs. Sikhism 1 2 3 4
by Guest YoungSingh- 39 replies
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I am 16 and due to my good karams i was born into a good religion and enlightened family. My family is all Amaritdhari and I follow there path but I have been looking online and i find buddhism as my type of way of life. I like the fact the don't worship god because if there is a god why so much hate and pain in the world, why so many kids suffering in Africa Believing in a god creates so many questions for me so it leaves me confused. I don't know which is the way to go. Although i like Buddhism very much i dont want to disappoint my parents who have full faith in sikhi.
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Negativity/Blackmagic 1 2 3
by Guest guptbhenji- 26 replies
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WJKK WKKF Which is the best path to ward off negativity or blackmagic if all else fails? I know any path we do is good, but heard somewhere that Dukh~Bhajan path is good, and also Sukhmani Sahib ji, even a lot of faith, but wat else will help. thanku for listening.
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when you go for pesh do you have to retake amrit or do you just get a tankah? do masturbation/cybersex qualify for the need to go pesh. like they are kurehats, but are they as big as bujjer kurehats?
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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