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  1. Yeah, I got access towards it, but that was only because I had to disconnect the previous log-in system, I rarely use this account for that reason especially with and I had lost access for this account, (and I will continue with @Jacfsing2.) Me and @Sukhvirk76 are not the same person and this is a general conversation of lost accounts and making new ones, as you can see this account isn't on quality control or banned. But I lost access so I made @Jacfsing2.
  2. Can anyone tell me how we can delete our account? (I already have a different account on this site, and couldn't log-in on this account for a long time due to forgot password wasn't working).
  3. Before we go any further, I just wanted to say that if you do marry someone who's not a Sikh, most likely that has come through your hukam, in the same way they most likely weren't born into a Sikh family. What you can do is try to assist the lost soul to find the Guru. End of story.
  4. The 2 reasons I stated are very true, in India, the Sikhs have started speaking Hindu, they grow up learning Punjabi, but all their friends speak Hindi, all their teachers speak in Hindi, when they find their future spouse, they speak Hindi, and finally they speak Hindi after their married and with their new families. This is a real threat.
  5. Yes, but if you live in an area where there are no Punjabi people, it seems like a lost cause, why bother learning Punjabi if it has no use in our daily lives?
  6. Sikhs are so small of a minority, that they really won't use it in their lives. My family members have forgotten the Punjabi outside of gurbani, and don't write it on a daily basis. Punjabi people are also a small minority outside of some really special places. (I personally don't meet Sikh people on a daily basis and am usually the only one in a crowd).
  7. Taksal doesn't believe in separate Amrit for females, I personally agree with Taksal.
  8. Hazur Sahib has a different Amrit Ceremony, called "Kirpan da Amrit"
  9. All of this can only be done with Guru Sahib's grace, you can not win by yourself.
  10. The reason that people,(Khalsa, don't think you'd understand what that is), would protest a Gurdwara interfaith marriage is because it's not the way. You just have to get a court marriage to be able to marry a non-Sikh.(We should go back to the old days when only 2 Amritdharis were allowed to marry from Anand Karaj, there's too much poison ideologies going on-site you being an example).
  11. When Vaheguru wants to give you a full beard he'll give it to you. I haven't gotten new facial hair for 3 years, (I'm 17) I think it's just a process that comes at times. Some people in my family are 30 and don't have a beard(they never cut their Kesh), some people are in their young 20s and have full beards. Harbans Singh had a small beard when he left this world.
  12. When you get rejected by a girl: "It must be black magic!" There are some things that you probably did that made her go away?
  13. SSD

    Kali Bein

    http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=56mDJAu8fXQ You really have to watch both videos to understand the concept. Guru Nanak is a form of Vaheguru, but Guru Nanak never asked for his body to be worshipped.
  14. Simple answer: Excommunication! This all only started when Darshan Singh Ragi betrayed the Panth.
  15. I just realized how that sounds, Guru Granth Sahib isn't something you copy or paste.
  16. [quote name="superkaur" post="618457" 1) would the relationship have a future long term? parents accept it? community accept it? 2) Would almighty Waheguru accept your union? do you have love for your flawless creator stronger than his flawed human creation? 3 Kids your offspring what faith or ideology or lifestyle will they follow? Your partner will most probably want to raise them in non-sikh environment which will lead to clashes or you submitting to their will. I'm just going to give answers based on assumptions. 1. It would most likely survive long-term, and the parents would most likely have to accept it: the community doesn't matter because the area they most likely live in has few Sikhs or Punjabis, rather it would be appeasing the white people. 2. Vaheguru would likely accept the union. (What this sounds like to any non-Sikh, "God won't bless your wedding, so go leave, we don't want you.") 3. I made a post on another topic on the fact that Atheism is on the rise. Also kids aren't stupid, they can think for themselves. Are these people stupid for leaving their parents faith? http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_converts_to_Sikhism_from_Christianity
  17. I think he would like to read the Rehatnama because it's more detailed on how a Sikh should live their life. It gives lots of information for someone new to Sikhi.
  18. There are 2-3 main problems here with the guy she's describing. 1. This guy wears a Pagg, but shaves his beard-A big no no. 2. He most likely got the conclusion that no Punjabi would date him if he had a turban on, through lots of experiences. 3. This 'Desi' girl continues wanting to get a guy that for who doesn't like her. I'm not a scientist, but there's clearly nothing special going on, find someone else.
  19. Guru Granth Sahib doesn't say that a Sikh should marry a Sikh, that's part of the Rehit Maryada. http://realsikhism.com/index.php?subaction=showfull&id=1253135932&ucat=7Despite I'm against interfaith marriage, I won't bother teaching him because odds are he's not interested. Also there are white Sikhs, a better term to use would be Christian girl.
  20. This is Jugraj Singh's brother? Vaheguru really shows just how different 2 siblings can be. It makes me honestly want to respect Jugraj Singh more for his desire to create Basics of Sikhi, and more reason to relate with someone like him.
  21. I must say, it's really strange that they're calling Gursikhs extremists, and mention Langar. To those who are arguing against it: Langar shows equality of HUMANS, NOT RELIGIONS! Not every religion is equal, but every human is equal.
  22. Also Atheism doesn't have any borders, it doesn't matter how devout your family was, it can still affect you. I think that would be more important to highlight than interfaith marriages. There are lots of ex-muslims and ex-Christians because of Atheism. More so than some "love and romance". Sikhi has more equality than any other religion, what head of religion gave his life for non-believers? Guru Tegh Bahadur!
  23. I would recommend they get a court marriage, until either partner converts. I personally don't know why anyone would choose non-sikhi over Sikhi, but to each to his own. Instead of Anand Karaj to expand Sikhi, I would prefer they learned from the Whyguru Course made by Basics Of Sikhi. I would recommend they get a court marriage, until either partner converts. I personally don't know why anyone would choose non-sikhi over Sikhi, but to each to his own. Instead of Anand Karaj to expand Sikhi, I would prefer they learned from the Whyguru Course made by Basics Of Sikhi.
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