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that would be a dhil in rehit if you used that excuse , didn't Singhs in Guru ji's time work early in the mornings (in fields and business)? Of course they did and they did full baniaan , the old nitnem always includes Anand Sahib because there is NO time in which a sikh does prayer during that Anand Sahib doesn't get read either in whole or part . Guru ji states in hukhamnama that if one eats without reciting Japji Sahib and Jaap Saib they will be reborn as worm of excrement. By those two things we know any nonamritdhari should do Japji sahib Jaap Sahib and Anand Sahib then Sodar rehras and kirtan Sohila as their basic nitnem aprt from naam abhiaas.

it could be that only the narcissists would have survived the waves of invasions and sikhs are an abbrerent groups as they are not of the same cloth coping mechanism wise a bit like Viktor frankl pointed out that most of the survivors of the camps were capos or really nasty psycopaths/sociopaths

All children have narcissism as a trait from the get go it allows them to survive and fight for resources but as they mature healthily they will drop it majorly and develop their emapthic natures as their emotional intelligence increases the narcissist is stunted , developmentally deformed on the emotional and spiritual front they create a false personality to hide that and woe betide anyone who breaks that image by hinting at the truth. Narcissistic kryptonite is having self-love/ self-esteem, integrity, a strong identity of self and contentment , they look for chinks of insecurity to exploit then they move in. They will lovebomb you until you think they are in love with you and then they are happy as they have full access to your resources whether emotional (friends and shielding them from having to engage with the lower forms of human (all other humans than themselves) ) material (home, money, even locations (my SIL would collect people as 'friends' to have access to their homes to holiday at for free) or intellectual my MIL got accepted to Cambridge for her Phd but had to give that up because of my FIL being jealous he couldn't achieve the same . Then when they have what they want they will drop you like a piece of trash . I've seen so many empathetic people getting caught out by such scumbags .

My own observation is parents are only modelling the parental styles of their parents , so you have to feel for them in a way. My dad was heavily influenced by his Dad , who happened to grow up an orphan and had to support his older sister despite never being allowed to go school though he cribbed off his cousins school notes and sat the exams gaining scholarship into higher education. So he had never learnt to love as he had not received it from elders and the chain went down to my dad and his siblings , this meant my Dad had trouble connecting too although he was caring in his way , buying books for me (his eldest- and surprisingly he had no problem with being a girl) and encouraging my education. My mum was always the velvet glove over the steel , you did not mess with her , not that she would crush you but you didn't want to disappoint her and see that pained look in her eyes, my work ethic came from her as did my parenting style . I did not want to tread the well worn path of other punjabis of scoring points off the kids because that is 1. a loser move 2. a hateful thing to be subjected to as a kid ( I remember the conversations where aunties and uncles would try to point score as a kid and I found it distressing to hear my Mum say why can't you be more like falana, I was top student in my school at the time) 3. undermines a kid's belief in the parent's love 4. makes the kid feel a failure unnecessarily (you know how them folks exaggerated about their kids) My husband's parents are something else they are narcissistic in the clinical sense(FIl overt, MIL covert) and therefore really didn't give genuine love to anyone , still don't , everything is conditional and they have to be idolised and in control of their children's lives to the nth degree . I can see how it has damaged their kids and thankfully they live thousands of miles away so my kids can recognise there is something not genuine about them (all image no substance) I feel that apnay love to live vicariously through their kids almost in a narcissistic way at least and pathologically at worst where it destroys the kids confidence and sense of self , it is extreme and unhelpful . The sikh model of parenting is at least encouraging and at best creates superhuman levels of postivity in the children who become real assets to society.

Im sorry who did he offend trans peeps want to be acepted as the sex they aspire to i.e. either male or female and CIS folk know who they are ....hmmm those pesky nongendered folks who are a minority of the minority ...

honestly why did you have make a squeak on their behalf? comparing apples and oranges .

If you think about it Gurbani only talks about natural dyes so it would make sense they would wear undyed cloths, indigo cloth, yellow plant dyes then later other dyes were developed .

one can counter with if they find sikhi so abhorrent they racists and bigots against sikhs . SGPC is dead every sikh should end this nonsense by countering it at every turn , if these people want their alternative lifestyle great, but they have zero rights to change sikhi which they have no intention of following either way .

3HO have openly commited the beadbhi of conducting gay anand Karaj stating that any sikh opposing it doesn't understand the Guru . These attacks on the core of sikh pilosophy illustrate how letting agencies such as SGPC speak /represent us has meant such bakwas has gone unchallenged for decades and these pretenders are muddying the image of sikhi . Guru ji has stated clearly that ghrist jeevan where male and female are joined are sole participants, the voice of Guru ji is couched in feminine language because that is in line with the concept we are ALL females and Akal Purakh is the only Male . If gay/ LGBT/Trans groups have no real respect of following Guru ji they should leave sikhi well alone .

I'm from sidhu clan but it shames me so much they way that they behave as a group ..

like last lockdown one banana and photo op being taken of five people giving daan of it to poor man in hospital that was embarassingly bad ?

I severely doubt it because numbers were dropping before the jabs and since the fatalities have kept dropping despite not everyone getting jabbed , today was lowest cases and deaths since sept 2020

as far as I know it is straight up UK variant in the north but Chinese variant in the south which has mutated because of repeated rallies and hindu festivals in the hundreds of thousands , guess mantras and gau muthra are any kind of protection . It makes sense that south has different variant because so many were employed in china and returned at first lockdown and it is madness but there are still planes going to and from India to USA KUMBH mela happened in the past seven days and that has annual attendence in the amount of 1 million easy on top of locals.

what about greedy brahmins holding onto wealth of temples in the 100 of crodes instead of paying for food water oxygen of corona sufferers ?

let be noted that pandits never leave a single disaster to cash in on ....besharam banda obviously he doesn't believe in Waheguru ji else he'd straighten up sharpish.

there have been reports of men becoming sterile after the jabs or women having ovarian failure , interesting how Israel is giving advise to their young population if female take pfizer and if male take Janssen and USA is saying the exact opposite . There has been over 60 cases of Myocarditis (inflammation of the heart muscles) in fit healthy men younger than 30 after pfizer jabs (there were cases in young soldiers). Now vaccine passports mean if you haven't had the jabs that were administered/approved in a certain region you will be barred fSo anyone on AZ will not be able to travel in europe or USA/Canada which is such BS - this is to maximise the damage done to our bodies by multiple vaccines .Nobody has studied crossreactions , surely if you had a jab that should be good enough

since he follows Nath sampardya Guru Nanak Dev ji already had charcha with Gorakh Nath so it is all irrelevant to us since they had to be corrected by Guru ji . http://www.discoversikhism.com/sikh_gurus/guru_nanak_gorakhmata.html

this is not a new thing , kirtan on amazon was restricted as it was listed as explicit . I reported the problem and was told to report every single incident on catalogue . I search every single incidence of kirtan on their catalogue where this mislabelling occurred and got every record corrected . Need to do the same with these GOI compliant Aholes

most treat their bibles like ordinary books , but true believers would have a clean place seperate from other books

Ram Rai was sent away by Guru ji in his youth never seen again , I doubt that he packed Guru ji's jewllery be careful of such claims as we have been told to stay away from dhirmaliays, Ram raiyas along with nakli nirankaris and naamdharis

I'd rather listen to Dhur ki bani as given to us by Guru ji as it gives correct dues to Akal Purakh rather than only praising Chandi

thinking about going India bro , look at title

it is the same as the brexiters and BNF getting money from the govt in UK they are just milking the Covid gravy train just like the Saudis with businesses here in UK and USA

I heard he was told to do pesh at Akal Takht because of his galat parchaar - Compare against gurbani what it says about sharab , and history says what was our downfall adopting the ayash habits of other communities .

problem was he fell for the Philistine mata Hari Delilah despite warnings of his folks