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It's good to respect Sant ji, however Sants and bhai sahibs aren't Guru ji, so we don't have to follow them 100%. Remember that he is not part of the sampradaiye associated with kripaan pahul either, and more with Nirmala like deras associated with santhiya and learning bani etc. Even the Guru's children made mistakes. So anything that is not said from Guru ji, then we have to understand that any sikh can make mistakes. Also remember that he is I have been reading stuff that maybe kripaan Pahul was available during Guru Gobind Singhs' times, I will have to look back and find my sources. these people aren't even life partners, yet they take even these illegitimate temporary k-u-t-t-a dating "partnerships" so seriously when it comes to cheating?
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still not enough for me to bother to watch eastenders
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I think Hajoor Sahib Singhs practised kripaan Pahul so that the local hindu women they married could partake food from them. another thing I heard of is called choola, so that wife and children can share food.
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if boy has never had a partner, than it's much better to get a girl without any exes too. Trust me, a girl with ex partners can screw your life up, regardless of if she is virgin or not.
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but all your previous comments I have seen point to a superiority complex towards jatts. I have seen inferiority complexes in kenya sikh getting upset about castes. I am unsure if this happens as much in indian tarkhan sikhs. I have seen other inferiority complexes, but to lesser levels. The worst thing is seeing inferiority complexes in some people for being mona, and others for keeping turban, yet I have also seen superiority complexes as well in other monay and turban wearers. Regardless we should have maan for wearing turban of Guru sahibs.
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eww, I don't see the status in marrying a gori. I see so many punjab girls trying to behave like goris, such as drinking, making boyfriends, putting nangi pics on insta/fb .... I don't understand the status in marrying people who behave like bhukh/nang mentality! ?
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Without even needing to bring in the "modern" jathebandiyaa, normally when panth used to take khanda dee pahul from Budha Dal then jhatka maryada and sukh\ maryada applied. Then after taking pahul you could also join a dera such as Nirmala sikhs, and then you would have to follow their maryada such as if they believed in vegetarianism or no bhang etc. However, regardless, it seems up until at least Akali Phoola Singh, Pahul was taken from Budha Dal, unless there was a situation which didn't allow this, and then deras such as Nirmalas could probably initiate their own Pahul. I would say Bhindra taksal kind of fits in the Nirmala bracket, that they have their own dera maryada which should only apply internally within the dera, and not apply in a panthic sense. And then modern colonial jathe, I am not even going to go into that.....
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probably still more respectable keertan than many of the keertanis that perform at rehnsbais ?
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I see/hear plenty of people from jatt backgrounds marrying non jatts, gujaratis, goray people and others these days. I just don't see these people being casteist maybe for some of them. But I think some jatt sikh families (yes I used that term together) are fargone from sikhi and keeping turban, just gone full coconut, what superiority can they still claim?
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I am a bit out of touch with the teens and punjabis in their 20s so please tell me something - do western punjabis of those ages still go on about being jatt? Although from a jatt background myself, I am out of touch, I don't even listen to bhangra anymore, preserving Raag keertan is thousands of time more important to preserve than that anyway. I am back at university as part of my continued professional development to specialise in something new, and have seen some of the new kids mention Moosewala and some other guy in sikh society Whatsapp groups. I am kinda happy that Panjab Radio banned Moosewala music during the pandemic. Good voice, but bad influence. Back in the 2000s, hearing Kenyan sikhs being upset about jatts, in real life in places such as university sikh societies, and online on forums such as this and facebook, really didn't inspire and confidence or respect in those people....
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lol what has happened to you? you're on your jatt-bashing vendetta again, haven't see you on that for years. You should act a bit mature now, act like a Singh not someone who gets annoyed at the jatt word, that used to be people back in the 2000s when I remember Kenya sikhs getting all upset about the word! We have all moved on now, nobody cares anymore, otherwise it comes out as an inferiority complex, but instead you should be in Singh mode!.......
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Gurbani now referred to as 'Asian music' on YouTube
ipledgeblue replied to Redoptics's topic in WHAT'S HAPPENING?
which style are white sikhs doing keertan? I know plenty of punjabi sikhs who do keertan to bhangra, bollywood or some kind of dance tunes, -
Puraatan Singhs had multiple wives, no mistresses though. and never 100s!! Mistresses is not maryada, and I am not joking!
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how did the british manage to subdue traditional sikh instruments and raag, and forced sikhs to use harmonium for keertan?
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generally Nihang Singhs don't bow down to any authority except Guru, and since the Akal Takht is "occupied" and currently not recognised as the Akali Bunga, I don't see why they would bow down to any SGPC associated president-jathedaar, just doesn't fit into their ideology,
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why is dog in punjabi a banned word?????
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referendum People in UK will you be voting?
ipledgeblue replied to Singh1989's topic in WHAT'S HAPPENING?
I am confused about your opinion. Do you think India will take notice and oppress Indian sikhs, or they won't take much notice? -
Why Do All Marriages Between Sikh Women And Non-Sikh Men End In Divorce?
ipledgeblue replied to a topic in GUPT FORUM
a lot of people are awful at making decisions, so they need a helping hand, sometimes an elder's wise words! Our manmatt leads to poor life choices, that is why we need Guru so we can learn gurmatt! looking for the good, do you mean dil saaf hona chaheeda? -
Maybe it was widely know fo connected sikhs. The rest of us not involved in any organisations, didn't really have a clue. The only allegation I knew about was the one where they beat up the kid.
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many It jobs are remote these days, especially because of the pandemic. Jobs such as coding/programming, can be performed with communication through email and chat apps. Also another good place to get contracts is on upwork and fiverr, I recommend to start there to gain experience and money. And some people have made it into a business
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when we talk about mahapurakhs, we need to be really careful of certain groups who throw around the word gursikh. There's real gursikhs and then there's token gursikhs. be careful who you follow, and don't follow blindly. Remember, if they aren't Guru sahib then they can still make mistakes, don't follow the words of any sikh before the bani and bachan of Guru jis.
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Singhs need to read charitropakhyan. This girlfriend-dating <banned word filter activated> mentality is really corrupting the new generation of sikh/punjabi youth. they need to wise up to what on earth is going on before jumping into making casual partners with their teenage hormonal brains!
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I was confused who ghagri was, it took me a while you were chatting about dhadri. I don't understand, what does he not follow from SGPC maryada, SGPC maryada doesn't mention dasam granth? SGPC maryada even allows you to distort dasam bani, ie Benti Chaupai you can skip the parts before and including Arril! The puraatan Akal Takht/ Akali Bunga rehit maryada was the Budha Dal maryada, which was pro-Dasam Granth as opposed to the SGPC maryada which is kind of neutral.
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how do you break amrit? I think you can be excommunicated for commiting kurahit or other things. However, breaking amrit thing seems more of a saying from certain newer sects and doesn't seem puraatan or traditional.
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I had to come back to this thread because it has so many interesting bani quotes about being the individuality of khalsa and not being a sheep.