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i admit that luv is a factor in many relationships...but loving someone means tht u were in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship before...but extra-marital relationships are against sikhi...so why wud u leave ur guru's hukam for somebody who doesn't believe in ur guru at all? the way i see it the only reason one wud leave the love of guru for the love of world wud be because of one of the five vices

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There is one more thing or reason in this world for which a sikh tend to marry a non-sikh. That is LOVE.

Then answer to my Guru Ji when He says:

eyh iknyhI AwskI dUjY lgY jwie ]

So-called "love" you speak of is described by Guru Ji in such a wonderful way. Read it yourself.

klr kyrI CpVI kaUAw mil mil nwie ]

The crow rubs and washes itself in the mud puddle.

mnu qnu mYlw AvguxI icMju BrI gMDI Awie ]

Its mind and body are polluted with its own mistakes and demerits, and its beak is filled with dirt.

srvru hMis n jwixAw kwg kupMKI sMig ]

The swan in the pool associated with the crow, not knowing that it was evil.

swkq isau AYsI pRIiq hY bUJhu igAwnI rMig ]

Such is the love of the faithless cynic; understand this, O spiritually wise ones, through love and devotion.

sMq sBw jYkwru kir gurmuiK krm kmwau ]

So proclaim the victory of the Society of the Saints, and act as Gurmukh.

So, what is love in Gurmat?

gurmuiK scI AwskI ijqu pRIqmu scw pweIAY ]

Sikhs are supposed to stay within Rehat and always company gursikhs and go to satsang. Having relationships with AnmqI people is not Sikhi. Simply because:

nwnk eyk joiq duie mUrqI sbid imlwvw hoie ]4]11]44]

Now tell me if such "Union" that Guru Ji speaks of is possible with following type of people

piqq, k`cw ip`lw, dbrU GusrU, AnmqI

I don't think it is possible but if you disagree then please explain and prove me wrong. Union that Guru Ji speaks of is only possible between two gursikhs who follow true Guru Siri Guru Granth Sahib Ji. I haven't even given you quotes from Rehatnamas yet. Bhai Gurdas Ji speaks about not even staying in company of monas and you are talking about marrying monay AnmqI ? Kamaal Hai Aj De Sikhan Vich. Guru Rakha. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

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SATSRIAKAAL! ! !

:) @ what do you lot think about marrying sumone of a differant religion, do u fink its bad or do u think its ok??? personally i dnt think its right, do u ???? wacko.gif

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state of sikhs is so bad these days..forget about marrying someone of a different religion that is way out of the question(even though in history past, nihang have gotten married with hindu women in certain circumstances)...the soo called amrit-dhari now days wouldn't even want to consider their fellow amrit dhari who is not from their same jatha !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and then they bit** about how punjabi culture promotes caste system?? wacko.gif

yes yes hypocrisy to the max !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :doh:

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