Losing My Mind

[singh_sandhu]

Dukh+Gurbani= Sukh

Nanak Dukhia Sabh Sansaar

:TH:

The question you need to ask is not Why, but Who died? Did you consider your Brother to be this flesh and bones alone? Was he not something more than this cage body that held him?

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Raamkalee, Fifth Mehla:

The wind merges into the wind.

The light blends into the light.

The dust becomes one with the dust.

What support is there for the one who is lamenting? ||1||

Who has died? O, who has died?

O God-realized beings, meet together and consider this. What a wondrous thing has happened! ||1||Pause||

No one knows what happens after death.

The one who is lamenting will also arise and depart.

Mortal beings are bound by the bonds of doubt and attachment.

When life becomes a dream, the blind man babbles and grieves in vain. ||2||

The Creator Lord created this creation.

It comes and goes, subject to the Will of the Infinite Lord.

No one dies; no one is capable of dying.

The soul does not perish; it is imperishable. ||3||

That which is known, does not exist.

I am a sacrifice to the one who knows this.

Says Nanak, the Guru has dispelled my doubt.

No one dies; no one comes or goes. ||4||10||

This JivAtam known to you as your brother did not die. He cannot Die. The shell he arrived in surely did as will yours one day, as will mine and all those who you see and don't see yet. We do not always know why, nor can there always be answers for this question of Why.

Your attachment to this Jiva not only holds you back but perhaps he as well for it is unfair for you to not let him move on in his journey. It is our attachments that keep the jiva bound to us even after the death of the body and make it difficult for it to progress forward to his next birth. So it is not only for your benefit that you let him go, but for him as well.

You loved him you say, yet you keep him so bound to yourself? Love sprouts Freedom not attachment or confinement? Love him enough to let him progress in his journey, wish him well withyour love. Send your grief in an envelope of Love and gratitude to the one who allowed you two to share this bond of Love together.

You say you need him, have you looked within? Has he not left you with his confidence instilled within you? Through all of those times when he shared his support for you, did he not give you the courage to stand?

stop...breath.....close your eyes.... and look at the courage he has given you already.

Waheguru...Waheguru...Waheguru....

well said :TH:

[wannabekaur5]

WJKK WJKF

Dukh+Gurbani= Sukh

Nanak Dukhia Sabh Sansaar

So very true

Everyone has life problems, the main reason I got into Sikhi was because of them, I started off with doing a bit of Jap Ji Sahib paath regularly, it didnt make my problems ok but I started looking at myself as a Sikh. I found I was nothing compared to some of you guys on here. I wanted to make myself a better person so I started doing more paath... Then suddenly there was some sikhi classes and I started going... and my gosh it was the best trip to the gurdwara... my problems havent vanished yet but I can now tolerate them, Waheguru has made me a stronger person. I have full faith in my Guru that is only Her that will clear up my problems, no one else can do it. Now I can see my problems as more as unwanted blessings because I now I know the truth.

Remember if you take 1 step towards Waheguru She will take 1000 towards you!

Bhul Chuck Maaf!

WJKK WJKF

[chandanjit kaur]

Gurfateh

like i said to you before panji.....i can really understand what your going through.....and it's so hard i mean it really is....i sometimes start crying too but then again i tell myself that this all happened because guru sahib wanted it to happen....and i know that no matter what happens....guru sahib did this all for the best....just do ardas that guru sahib bless' your brother's soul.....vaheguru vaheguru vaheguru....and yes sukhmani sahib da paath will really help :wub: its ok to miss him but remember this all happened in guru sahib's hukam and we have to except this no matter what....its hard but just stay strong :wub: take care and stay in chardi kala

Gurfateh

[Would_be _Farmer]

thir ghar baishu har jan pi-aaray.

Remain steady in the home of your own self, O beloved servant of the Lord.

satgur tumray kaaj savaaray. ||1|| rahaa-o.

The True Guru shall resolve all your affairs.

I pray for you that god himself gives you strenght to face situation in your life.

[G13RPS]

I feel for you too, i lost two very close mates last year and year before that. it still hurts. All i can say memorys will not go away but you need to deal with them by doing path, kirtan, etc and also keep yourself buzy too.

[SEWA SINGH]

hello all

You may remember in april i spoke to you all about my brother who passed away in February. I have tried so hard to take on board the advice that was given, but seriously i can't do this, i feel as though i'm all alone!! I can't talk to my husband as he feels "i should let go and try and get over it" and he can't cope with me crying - can't talk to my parents because i don't want to keep bringing it up for them - the only person i could have spoken to is not even here. My older brother was everything to me, we were there for each other in good times and bad, and i just can't believe that for the worst time of my life he's not here to support me - not a day goes by when i don't wish that it was me rather than him. Everyday when i come to work, my heart sinks when i have to walk past the section of the hospital where he was - my heart beats so fast, sometimes i feel as though me feet just can't move and i can't walk. Everytime i drive and am stuck behind a lorry, i fail to understand how his car could've possibly gone under the lorry, especially with tthe crash bars on every lorry now - and again the question Why is alway on my mind.

I've not had a single day since February 14th where i've not cried for him - I WANT HIM BACK!!!!!!

Gurbani is the key!

You have to learn and go forward in life and not still be stuck in the past.... you have to let go !!

[Guest sikhsangat]

The question you need to ask is not Why, but Who died? Did you consider your Brother to be this flesh and bones alone? Was he not something more than this cage body that held him?

http://www.sikhitothemax.com/Page.asp?Sour...98&Format=2

Raamkalee, Fifth Mehla:

The wind merges into the wind.

The light blends into the light.

The dust becomes one with the dust.

What support is there for the one who is lamenting? ||1||

Who has died? O, who has died?

O God-realized beings, meet together and consider this. What a wondrous thing has happened! ||1||Pause||

No one knows what happens after death.

The one who is lamenting will also arise and depart.

Mortal beings are bound by the bonds of doubt and attachment.

When life becomes a dream, the blind man babbles and grieves in vain. ||2||

The Creator Lord created this creation.

It comes and goes, subject to the Will of the Infinite Lord.

No one dies; no one is capable of dying.

The soul does not perish; it is imperishable. ||3||

That which is known, does not exist.

I am a sacrifice to the one who knows this.

Says Nanak, the Guru has dispelled my doubt.

No one dies; no one comes or goes. ||4||10||

This JivAtam known to you as your brother did not die. He cannot Die. The shell he arrived in surely did as will yours one day, as will mine and all those who you see and don't see yet. We do not always know why, nor can there always be answers for this question of Why.

Your attachment to this Jiva not only holds you back but perhaps he as well for it is unfair for you to not let him move on in his journey. It is our attachments that keep the jiva bound to us even after the death of the body and make it difficult for it to progress forward to his next birth. So it is not only for your benefit that you let him go, but for him as well.

You loved him you say, yet you keep him so bound to yourself? Love sprouts Freedom not attachment or confinement? Love him enough to let him progress in his journey, wish him well withyour love. Send your grief in an envelope of Love and gratitude to the one who allowed you two to share this bond of Love together.

You say you need him, have you looked within? Has he not left you with his confidence instilled within you? Through all of those times when he shared his support for you, did he not give you the courage to stand?

stop...breath.....close your eyes.... and look at the courage he has given you already.

Waheguru...Waheguru...Waheguru....