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my friend just got married to a woman who isn't a sikh...do you guys think it's wrong????personally I don't cos they love eachother and that's all that counts, right? grin.gif two people can love eachother regardless of what their religions are.....so what do y'all think???....and please don't judge me as a not comitted sikh cos I am comitted:P

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your stuck with your wife for this life and stuck with God for eternity. I would't want to tick off the eternal partner :wub:

do what you gotta do man. It's all a game, some play by the rules, some don't. some know the rules and ignore them some don't know the rules and live in ignorance. some are told the rules and don't believe them, some make their own rules.

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do what you gotta do man. It's all a game, some play by the rules, some don't. some know the rules and ignore them some don't know the rules and live in ignorance. some are told the rules and don't believe them, some make their own rules.
To add onto that, I want to say that your friend should have decided beforehand what are his priorities in life. If its Sikhi, he would preferred to have married a Sikh woman. If he is just like all other Punjabis out there, then I guess no one can do much as we do see enough Sikhs marrying non-Sikhs today and come up with excuses like "oh I am not very religious", "oh I am not into religion/Sikhi much".

And above all Sukhdeep veerjee, he has already married her. What do you think can be done now? Just bless them and move on with your life (no I am not saying to break your friendship).

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my friend just got married to a woman who isn't a sikh...do you guys think it's wrong????personally I don't cos they love eachother and that's all that counts, right? grin.gif two people can love eachother regardless of what their religions are.....so what do y'all think???....and please don't judge me as a not comitted sikh cos I am comitted:P

Manaas Ki Jaat Ekh Paachano

Recognise the Human Race as One

Sri Guru Gobind Singh ji

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your stuck with your wife for this life and stuck with God for eternity. I would't want to tick off the eternal partner :wub:

do what you gotta do man. It's all a game, some play by the rules, some don't. some know the rules and ignore them some don't know the rules and live in ignorance. some are told the rules and don't believe them, some make their own rules.

But you cant do the same things with God that you can do with your wife........

................i better keep my mouth................

....... hope God has a sense of humour :D :wub:

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your stuck with your wife for this life and stuck with God for eternity. I would't want to tick off the eternal partner :wub:

do what you gotta do man. It's all a game, some play by the rules, some don't. some know the rules and ignore them some don't know the rules and live in ignorance. some are told the rules and don't believe them, some make their own rules.

But you cant do the same things with God that you can do with your wife........

................i better keep my mouth................

....... hope God has a sense of humour :D :wub:

LMAO

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