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Why Cant We Stand The Chardi Kalaa Of Others?


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I've noticed that the majority of us as Sikhs want others to be in Chardi Kalaa but then dont like to see it when its happening and get blinded by negative things

people can call me stupid for sayin this but its just something that i cant help notice..... i know everyones gonna say its not tru etc etc

but think about it.....weneva something good is happening to another Sikh, Jatha, Sant, etc etc....we're all the first to jump down their throats and bring out all the bad things we've heard.....then comes the masalla (exageration)....then comes the swearing, name calling!

Why cant we see the goodness in others and not bad - im no theres a bani quote for that!!

Im sure its says somewhere that a Sikh should be happy to see another Sikh......but lets be honest with ourselves - are we happy at others' Chardi kalaa or is it that we cant stand it........

everyone on this site can hand on heart say that i want others to be in Chardi Kalaa and i am happy to see it..............but lets all ask ourselves - do our actions show the same????

This thread will probly go down the list very quickly.......but b4 we say "I've heard it all b4" lets ask ourselves are we TRULY happy to see other Sikhs in Chardi Kalaa - whether the answer is yes or no lets all do our daily Ardaas and mean it, especially when we say......

"Nanak naam chardi kala, Tere bhaanay sarbatt ka bhalaa"

"Through the gift of the Naam given to us by Nanak, may we always remain in Chardi Kala. Within Your will, we pray for the welfare of all humanity"

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well bhajji its problem with every relegion .... and why it is there is just because of hankar .... MERE toon agge kiddan challa geya .... instead of trying takeing ourselves up ... we start pulling him down ... lol ...

thats why i m proud nihang we dont force our views on others ....

and bhajji if u give it a thought guru sahib made whole khalsa panth SARDAR .... we all are sardars leaders and want to lead others .... and when every one is a leader what will be the out come ....

maffi

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and bhajji if u give it a thought guru sahib made whole khalsa panth SARDAR .... we all are sardars leaders and want to lead others .... and when every one is a leader what will be the out come ....

maffi

I fully agree with this attitude of ours.

See slogans like Singh is a King etc .

In todays democracy you can only rule if you have more follower than leaders.

We must be first follower before we get an opportunity to lead.

love

hps

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Who can't stand Chardikala singhs ?? I really didn't get the meaning behind this post :lol: Why would some not like a chardikala singh ??

Its not that they cant STAND them its the fact that not everyone is 'Chardi Kalaa' nor is everyone a Gursikh. So when you see someone with such a great aura or someone who is completely in love with Guru Saahib.. went tend to question oursevles on why WE dont have that.. why THEY got it instead of us.. etc. etc.

Bull chaak maauf karneee.

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Only Guru Sahib jee knows who is chardi kala and who is not.. ppl who think of others as chardi kala isn't necessary that he/she is chardi kala.. Its normal human nature that whenever we see a sikh in bana.. we call them chardi kala even if we don't know him/her at all.. Does that really means he/she is chardi kala? Chardi kala are those who don't come online and argue like i do lol.. nor they worry about others or other political problems.. Rarely we find ppl who are always in high spirit or say Chardi kala.. My point is that "Chardi Kala" sikhs are like one in millions and to have their sangat is very rare because one has to be at their avastha level.. I request that this term shouldn't be allowed to use just because of the mere outer physical pehrava.

Sorry for going off topic.. and i fully agree with points raised by singh_1983 :lol:

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