Lesbian Marriage

[SaRpAnCh]

Ok,Before I go on Im all for equality,democracy and freedom of having whatever partner(whatever sex) one chooses,But we can't have people calling themselves Sikh,while having lesbian marriages.Ok be lesbian have a marriage but don't claim to be married to a lesbian and say your Sikh at the same time.

http://www.punjabnewsline.com/content/view/4606/38/

AMRITSAR: Two Sikh girls of a border town of Punjab have repeated the history of two lesbian girls Raju and Mala of Amritsar, infamous for soleminising Punjab's first lesbian marriage.

Baljit Kaur and Rajwinder Kaur of Batala town of Gurdaspur distirct have however became first Sikh girls of Punjab to eprform the lesbian marraige.

They on Tuesday came to Golden Temple here to seek blessings. They had no regrets and no worry of the social stigma on they will carry for rest of their life. " we do not care. We love each other and will die for each other'', they told media.

The Raju-Mala marriage had broken after few months when Mala fell in love with a boy few months after their marriage.

Baljit and Rajwinder are running for shelter since families of both of them are aafter their blood.They belonged to Jat Sikh families where honour killings are common. Interestingly, the female sex ratio in Punjab is falling over the years due to foeticide and lesbian marriage has stirred anew controversy. Akal Takht Jathedar Giani Joginder Singh Vedanti has condemned lesbian marriages in Sikh religion.

Baljit appeard before meida dressed as boy with black goggles and Rajwinder, wearing salwar-kameez and `churrah' (wedding bangles) rubbed shoulders with her sould mate.

They were frank to tell that both of them do not like boys. ``Boys are cheaters and we girls trust each other''. They said that they had see anought of male dominated world and now want to live their own life.

Baljit, 21, and Rajwinder, 20, are educated till 10+2 had eloped from home two week ago. ``We stayed at a friend's house at Morinda and then went to Katra in Jammu and Kashmir and Vaishno Devi where, after paying obeisance, we married with help of an Army officer Kuldeep Raj'', Baljit explained.

``We have demanded security as our family members have threatened to kill us'', said Baljit. She said that it was second time that she had fallen in love with a girl. The first love remained unsuccessful, she added. She said that they would soon approach court for security.

Baljit said Rajwinder met at job placement office where later had come to search for the job. ``We are distant relatives also. When I saw her first I felt like touching her'', said Baljit.

When reminded of Akal Takht `Hukamnama' (edict) denouncing the single sex marriages, they said they do not care and just want the religious leaders and society to let them live together and live their life. ``We have visited Golden Temple and prayed to God for our well-being and successful marriage. They would like to adopt a child, if law permitted, they added.

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i can understand the hate they must have towards males, especially in india

as they stated there sik of men dominating and etc.

honor killing

cheaters

infanticide

male & female ratio

dam!

but they don seem like they want to become amritdaris jus askin 4 blessings

this is a tough cookie tho

[mann_kaum_layee_qurbaan]

how do two "sikhs" get married at Vaishno devi? Why aren't they just described as punjabi rather than jatt sikh?

hmmmm..... it's like saying two Muslim women were married at a Church. kind of makes no sense.

[SaRpAnCh]

''Baljit said Rajwinder met at job placement office where later had come to search for the job. ``We are distant relatives also. When I saw her first I felt like touching her'', said Baljit.''

Eugh Sickening :

In essence thhey're Hindus as they married at the Devi place ,but they still say they are Sikhs!!,and they said they don't care about the Hukamnama.These are Hindus and nothing more,read Hindu scriptures,and you will see a lot about same sex activities,and relationships,ranging from one man charming another to women having relationships with other women.

[Bhajan_preet]

I think it's bad when you ignore a hukumnama; I think that even if you disagree with it, we still have to follow it. You can argue it officially with Akal Takht, but you can't just start doing what you want until they amend their hukum.

Now I'm not trying to get off topic, but...

Why aren't they just described as punjabi rather than jatt sikh?

What do you mean by "jatt sikh"?

Sorry, just kinda confused...

[kaur91]

I think it's bad when you ignore a hukumnama; I think that even if you disagree with it, we still have to follow it. You can argue it officially with Akal Takht, but you can't just start doing what you want until they amend their hukum.

Now I'm not trying to get off topic, but...

Why aren't they just described as punjabi rather than jatt sikh?

What do you mean by "jatt sikh"?

Sorry, just kinda confused...

jatt is the caste isn't it, like you have ramgharia n tha... dno if im right

fatehjee

[wjkk wjkf]

^lol therefore u cant b a 'jatt' sikh cos we dont believe in the caste system

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y is Vedanti wat he is?

[Bhajan_preet]

^lol therefore u cant b a 'jatt' sikh cos we dont believe in the caste system

My point exactly, thanks :umm:

And since [Vedanti] passed that hukamnama, i wont respect it either.

This is what I mean; we can't just ignore the hukum's, even if we disagree; that takes away power from the Akal Takht (if everyone ignores it), so even if we got a good Jathedar, by then he wouldn't be able to do anything good.

Don't you guys agree?

And guys the whole mom/dad thing should be for the pm's; I'm not trying to act like a mod or something, cuz I'm not, but just think about it...

[KKV]

ewww man thats jus wronnnnggg