Soo Confused!

[Guest _ONE_]

Think my post was misinterpreted.

I completely agree that marriage is the union of souls, not just bodies, and that once married, two souls are linked together. I also completely believe in the equality of women.

However, I also believe it is a husband's duty to look after his wife as much as it is a wife's duty to look after her husband. Because they are linked, they are duty-bound to be responsible for each other. Hence my post was written with a man's POV.

For me, the main reason to get married is to have children. For others, they may have different motives to for getting married. That isn't to say marriage means just having kids - it's more than just that.

If the point of marriage was to have a soul-mate, why don't all sants get married? IMO we don't need soul-mates to travel across the world ocean. The Guru is the perfect companion so why seek others? However, like I said, once you are married, you are duty-bound to help each other cross the world ocean with the aid of the Guru.

Thats so honest. You replied with much humility by not reacting, unlike myself. I ended up learning a thing or two from you. I must thank you. You are absolutely right. You don't have to get married. But sometimes, you may have to.

It's just the way you chose your wording in the other message that didn't sound correct.

[Khalsa_Girl_1]

You marry a soul-mate..

There is no such thing as a "soul mate"

Hmmmmmm..

My definition is pretty close to what society defines it as. "soul mate" only exists until you get married and have to live with the person and you find out who they really are.

So I was correct lol.. There is a such thing as soul-mate. You contradicted yourself..

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Think my post was misinterpreted.

However, I also believe it is a husband's duty to look after his wife as much as it is a wife's duty to look after her husband. Because they are linked, they are duty-bound to be responsible for each other.

Now that sounds more like 'SIKHI' :lol:

Hence my post was written with a man's POV.

To prevent such confusion in the future, word it correctly next time :umm: ...meaning....post your opinions, with in mind, the fact that girls and guys are reading..lol

[Papi]

You marry a soul-mate..

There is no such thing as a "soul mate"

Hmmmmmm..

My definition is pretty close to what society defines it as. "soul mate" only exists until you get married and have to live with the person and you find out who they really are.

So I was correct lol.. There is a such thing as soul-mate. You contradicted yourself..

Actually kiddo, no I did not contradict myself

To prevent such confusion in the future, word it correctly next time

He worded it just fine; but got bashed for just having an opinion. Political Correctness is going to be the end of us all...