Lying To Someone U Don't Know?

[Guest Lost Soul]

This may sound too stupid and silly but I need some guidance and hoping you guys on here will put me on the right path....

Basically I got hold of this persons number, now this person I don't know them but know who they are and this person does not know who am I, they've never met me. I text this person pretending that I was texting somone else and got the wrong number and made out I got the wrong person etc.

Anyway after doing this, I feel really bad as I have lied to this person even though they don't even know me and I don't know them but I feel like I should come clean tell them the truth? But the only thing is I cannot tell them how I got their number!

What I want to ask is, should I come clean with this person and tell them that I have lied to them and that I didnt get the wrong number, or should I just leave, learn from it and move on as I dont know this person and they dont know me and I may be causing more trouble for myself?

I feel really really bad as I have lied.

[kaaur16]

thats WEIRD! :|

[AvnitK]

i agree with above about the situation being wierd.... and then again im thinking aout why did u get the number of this person anyways.. but ill keep that quiet cause i dont want to be analyzing stuff and then create a problem

[Amrit79]

can you rewrite it or edit your post.... We can surely help you

From my mind I think your trying to say is.....

I know a person but they don't know me, I like that person (crush on this person)

so you got there number and called them....Now you feel bad cause you lied ??

[Bundha]

do ardaas before Guru Ji and ask for forgivness , then move on. No need to make trouble for yourself by telling this person, no harm has been done, just don't do it again.

Simplsh !

[soorma18]

you shouldnt lie to anyone,whether you know them or not

[Papi]

I'm going to quote a friend of mine here:

its pretty obvious that the poster has a thing for the person's number. from a sikhi point of view, forget about it [the person] altogether. from a stalker point of view, why the hell would you tell them what you've done? it worked dammit, go ahead with the next phase of the plan

Now before someone makes a big deal out of this, it was said as a joke, just thought I'd put some humour in the thread.

On a serious note, it's easy for someone like me who is not in such a situation to go ahead and ask OP to forget about this person. However, in reality it is not this simple and easy. Try your best to keep busy (with sports, studies etc), do good positive sangat and and most importantly stay close to Gurbani. Don't beat yourself too much for it, it's a phase that 99% of people go through at some point in their life. Your time is now, you will come out of this phase a stronger person. So relax, take it 1 day at a time. Guru Rakha

[AvnitK]

lol i was thinking exactly what amrit79 was thinking ...so yeah

[Gurmat Sangeet]

YOU MUST GO PESH!!!!!!!

You sinner! You Papi....

Im sure "JustFive" would agree

[buddasingh]

as others have said, your post is not exactly clear. Papi has wise words, even in the quote. Don't perpetuate the lie by taking the next step in some daydreaming not meant to be...if that's what it is. And read the supportive encouragement in Papi's post.