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i recently went pesh for a mistake. everything was going well in terms nitnem and my jeevan. however today in the morning while studying twirling the hairs on my arm. I then noticed hair on my hands. i repeated the action again no hair came on hands. then i done the action again and hair came into my hands. i did not have the intention to break my hair but repeated ction to prove to myself that it was not cause of that. i dont know what to do i feel so low and that i have taken the micky out of the amrit sanchaar. if i go pesh that means taking amrit for a 3rd in over a year i dont beilveve that is right.

[Guest gupt]

Do a lot of simran and ardaas for clarity, thats all i can think about gettin the answer to whether u shud or shudnt go pesh for it.

its unbelievable but i have pretty much exactly the same problem ive been amrit twice in a year and am gonna go again for somethings, just to let u kno ur not alone! but one thing i can say, which happens to me is, try not to let it consume ur mind, i went thru a really hard stage letting this stuff get to my head, i still do but im tryna control it with guru ji's kirpa.

One thing that used to bother me alot was omg how can i go pesh again and again, and although its not good to do galtia, and u shudnt do galtia with the thought u can just go pesh, but if uve already done the (percieved) galti, and u do decide u need to go pesh for it, dont allow it to block ur mind from simran, i see it all as being a test to help u get to vaheguru, even facing the aftermath of doing kurehita to be honest.

i think u mite be sum1 i kno and we have talked about this b4 (hint: hands through dhari), we cna talk in real life about this as i suffer the same problems if i am right about who this is.

[Amarjodh Singh]

[Bundha]

Bhaji / Benji ,

Amrit is no tutti-gund - ie it is no feeble knot that can be undone easily.

We all make mistakes, all of the time, we are bhoolan-haar.

It is not as if you have taken a pair of scissors to your hair, not have you

noshed on meat or alcohol or had an illicit affair, you have made a mistake,

do ardaas and ask for forgiveness and then remove the guilt.

You do not need to carry the guilt around with you all the time, we are not catholics

Guru Ji is all forgiving, ask for forgiveness , be happy and then move on.

[SarabhaPanjab]

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[VanHelsingh]

Do you have to use words like that in the same sentence as Amrit?

Brother, to be fair it appears a bit dodgy when spelt in English, but as Bundha Ji said the term mentioned above means "broken knot" (I think). I had a heart-in-mouth moment when I first read it, but I allowed the word to register in my mind and all was clear...