guru ji's hukam

[sevak]

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehhh

if we don't eat meat and drink..and at daas house..there is meat ocasinoally..and when someone is cooking non veg..i eat from that person's hand..and he can' t touch the food that i have to eat..and also daas took out subji b4 that person comes to take it..and if i have been told to go to restuarant..with family..and eat there..where meat and sharab is been served..it would totally again gurmat to eat there..rite..and it was hukam given to daas by pyares..if i don't eat from person's hand who cooking meat..or eating sharab..then eating out side..and person is making food doesn't care veg or non veg..and he is serving..me then i m going against guru ji's hukam rite ???

bhul chuk maafi jeoo

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fatehh

[Guest KHALISTAN ZINDABAD]

no offense but why do u have to ask questions about every small thing all the time? :wub:

i mean its good that u ask a lot rather than do something wrong, but at times u gotta decide stuff urself and have that "inner feeling" that u r right , otherwise how are u gonna have confidence?

and stop looking on Guruji as someone who gets angry...coz He doesnt

anyways...no offense...and its good that u ask the chardi kala sangat of this forum...just my thoughts

someone plzz answer bhenji's questions now...

sorry if u found my post offensive...i just cant see a singhnee always confused all the time and having no confidence :yehyehyeh:

gurfateh

[sevak]

lolll..good point veerji/penji..i do that..i myself notice that...may be cuz no one in daas family is amrithari..and even close..and i feel scared to make them hurt..from my decisions..cuz we have to parents rite..so i do that..n i have lack of confidence for sure..waheguru..n e ways..that is my excuse..but that's how i feel..to be on safe side by asking sangat here..but u r rite..lollll very rite

[Guest KHALISTAN ZINDABAD]

bhenji i dont mean to discourage u...its good that u start a new topic all the time...actually we all get to learn...maybe we dont bring it up...but since u do, we all benefit...all i meant was that u gotta have some confidence in urself...this "getting mad" is all hindu gods stuff who get mad and punish u...Guruji is Nirvair ...so do what ur souls tells u...in fact, whenever in doubt, just to ardas and take hukam...Guruji will hold ur hand Himself...its always great to discuss stuff, but not to lose confidence...dont lose hope...have confidence...u r Guru Gobind Singh's daughter !!!

bhul chuk maaf

[sevak]

:wub: :D :wub:

[S1ngh]

I like the way phaenjee discovering and learning more about sikhi..

[sevak]

all sat guru and guru di pyare sangat :wub:

[GuruJiDiPyari]

Waheguru jee ka khalsa Waheguru jee ki fateh!

Bhenji, whenever you have doubt or aren't sure what is right, just ask yourself, would Guru Gobind Singh jee allow you to do that as his daughter? I mean eat at the restaurants and stuff? I use to eat at restaurants before, but some how my mind changed and now I just find it plain discusting. Why go out when you can have parshada at home? Part of my family is not amritdhari either, and sometimes they don't respect the fact that I don't eat their jooth, or don't eat with them at the restaurants, but I have to say no, (use gurbani tuks to back up your arguments, always good )

And after I say no, i feel good that I did the right thing and did what Guru Sahib would want me to do, and it actually builds my confidence, and the more you try to stay away from this restaurant chakar, the more your family

will start to show respect and know not to include you in it :TH:

(even though they may sometimes tease you about being the only one staying away from this stuff, they tease me :wub: )

but it okk bhenji,,,,just ask yourself and do the right thing :e:

bhul chuk muaaf..Waheguru jee ka khalsa Waheguru jee ki fateh!