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Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

I just wanted to add, that in order to live life on your own terms, one needs to be mature and financially independent.

That's why it is advisable to spend some time on your own and get good qualification.

Other thing is that in order to be a Man, you must follow a Man not a woman.

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

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Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

I just wanted to add, that in order to live life on your own terms, one needs to be mature and financially independent.

That's why it is advisable to spend some time on your own and get good qualification.

Other thing is that in order to be a Man, you must follow a Man not a woman.

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

"in order to be a Man, you must follow a Man not a woman." sounds a bit sexist to me..??

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Erm...no, a man doesn't need to follow a man in order to be a man.

Some men can be quite naive, arrogant and ignorant.

This is where our youth are going wrong. When o look around the majority of amrithdarees are not good role models. Don't get me wrong there a good few amridharees, but the majority of apney young youth are even looking up to people that are not even amrithdaree.

I'm not discriminating against non amrithdaree but I know of a few that have changed in a negative way.

To be a man you need to do what's right. Carry on

keeping your rehit an focus on your study's. Slowly but surly YouTube bring your parents into Sikhi. Go to gurdwara with your patents and take them to katha programmes.

To be a man just follow your Guru. Take one step towards Guru Jee and he will take thousands towards you.

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That is not realistic tell me are all men worthy of being followed hell no there are inspiring and leaders within female sex that can be followed. Just because his mom is against it doesn't mean he should follow a man what of his dad was a drunkie like mine would you say follow man then. Waheguru is neither man or women and our gurus teach equality. That is a sexist comment sikhi does not approve of

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What Guest meant about following 'Man' was not about following any random man that happened to be passing by. He/She meant (I think) about following strong men who know their own mind and are not intimidated or controlled by women who are drunk with their own self-importance.

Nobody was talking about following alcoholics or men who are not proficient in Sikhi. The fact of the matter is that in this day and age, you cannot hope to be a strong-willed, independent and forthright man if you are constantly being dictated to by a woman. Guidance and love is one thing. Being prevented from doing the right thing or constantly being hounded by an overbearing female presence is not conducive to a guy becoming a "man".

Nobody, and I mean NOBODY, is talking about ignoring the examples set by strong Sikh bibiya such as Mata Gujri, Bibi Bhani, Mai Bhago, etc. Its nothing to do with sexism or looking down on the female sex. But in this particular example highlighted by the original poster, his mother - a female - is not a good influence on him and thus he should attempt to extricate himself from her clutches ASAP.

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Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

To clear the doubts, let us do a Fundamental Analysis.

In order to be a Doctor one needs to learn from a Doctor not a Carpenter.

In order to be a Giani one needs to learn from a Giani not a Keertani.

In order to be a Grehasti (Family person) one needs to learn from Grehasti not a Renunciate.

Similarly in order to be a Man one needs to learn from a Man not Woman.

Simple as that !

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

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Erm no because even some gyanis are peados, etc.

No man has to follow a man in order to be a man. That's just plain stupid.

Most people are corrupt these days anyway. I don't know how can you possibly give that advice to somebody.

What happened to to following our Gurus?

We have already got a leader, GURU GRANTH SAHIB JI!!

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