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2 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

That's sad, bro. On the bright side you were intelligent enough to pinpoint the cause of the relationship breakdown. Most guys persist under the belief that it "just happened" or blame the wife at the insistence of the mother. 

If tomorrow my mom dies, I don't even know in which bank I hv to go as a nominee.

My father is a bhainchod. He watches the breast of ladies on internet. We hv more than decent agriculture land and I m the only son. He gave our agricultural share revenue to his motherfucker brothers and never gave me any info about the details of the land.

I am a very very less ambitious guy and live a simple spiritual life. I agreed to do a small lecturer job and earn around 16000 rupees a month but my father didn't let me do that job. I got this offer from bhuttaa college Ludhiana. He never earned money in his life and used my mother's salary.

He has been living with my mother for about 45 years. My mother fainted and instead of taking her care, he said that she must hv died so let's prepare for her cremation.

I must hv done some bad karma to get such a fuddu father.

He tells world he is a great sikh but used to go to brahmakumaries and might hv even masturbated imagining them.

I hv got divorced but I still hv lots of affection for her as I lived with her for about 10 months.

She gave me good food.

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21 minutes ago, shastarSingh said:

If tomorrow my mom dies, I don't even know in which bank I hv to go as a nominee.

My father is a bhainchod. He watches the breast of ladies on internet. We hv more than decent agriculture land and I m the only son. He gave our agricultural share revenue to his motherfucker brothers and never gave me any info about the details of the land.

I am a very very less ambitious guy and live a simple spiritual life. I agreed to do a small lecturer job and earn around 16000 rupees a month but my father didn't let me do that job. He never earned money in his life and used my mother's salary.

He has been living with my mother for about 45 years. My mother fainted and instead of taking her care, he said that she must hv died so let's prepare for her cremation.

I must hv done some bad karma to get such a fuddu father.

He tells world he is a great sikh but used to go to brahmakumaries and might hv even masturbated imagining them.

I hv got divorced but I still hv lots of affection for her as I lived with her for about 10 months.

She gave me good food.

I've never been an advocate for abandoning parents, but in your case anyone would struggle to criticize you for doing it. It's a miracle you aren't a serial killer or a paedo or something. You should be proud of yourself for not succumbing to the flaws of the people who provided you with your GENES. It's good you've found refuge in Sikhi. I guess it's the difference between trying to retain some semblance of sanity and completely going off the rails. You should find a woman to marry. You're still young. There's 50 year old guys who consider themselves munde ripe for marriage, lol. Find a small place of your own, find a woman, and get on with it, because I guarantee if you let your current situation simmer as it is, you'll wake up at 50, realise your life has been wasted, and you'll want to put a shotgun in your mouth. Be strong, be forceful, put your foot down.

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1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

I've never been an advocate for abandoning parents, but in your case anyone would struggle to criticize you for doing it. It's a miracle you aren't a serial killer or a paedo or something. You should be proud of yourself for not succumbing to the flaws of the people who provided you with your GENES. It's good you've found refuge in Sikhi. I guess it's the difference between trying to retain some semblance of sanity and completely going off the rails. You should find a woman to marry. You're still young. There's 50 year old guys who consider themselves munde ripe for marriage, lol. Find a small place of your own, find a woman, and get on with it, because I guarantee if you let your current situation simmer as it is, you'll wake up at 50, realise your life has been wasted, and you'll want to put a shotgun in your mouth. Be strong, be forceful, put your foot down.

My father beat my mother many times.

When I was in school, he beat my mom by banging her head against the wall. He wanted to crush her head and kill her.

My <banned word filter activated> father lived his life just for his brothers and their children.

I m almost sure my father used to masturbate imagining his brother's wives.

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9 minutes ago, shastarSingh said:

My father beat my mother many times.

When I was in school, he beat my mom by banging her head against the wall. He wanted to crush her head and kill her.

My <banned word filter activated> father lived his life just for his brothers and their children.

I m almost sure my father used to masturbate imagining his brother's wives.

My mother told me that just after a short time of the marriage, my father slapped my mom and took her entire salary. My mom had decent salary from pau Ludhiana

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22 minutes ago, shastarSingh said:

I m almost sure my father used to masturbate imagining his brother's wives.

Alright, take it easy, bro. Don't pollute your thoughts. 

The one gullible brother who prioritises his cunning siblings even in old age is a common problem in Sikh families in India in terms of what you're describing. 

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1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

Alright, take it easy, bro. Don't pollute your thoughts. 

The one gullible brother who prioritises his cunning siblings even in old age is a common problem in Sikh families in India in terms of what you're describing. 

I m no saint. There is lots of pollution in my mind.

I love Natasha henstridge and I masturbate too.

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6 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

I've never been an advocate for abandoning parents, but in your case anyone would struggle to criticize you for doing it. It's a miracle you aren't a serial killer or a paedo or something. You should be proud of yourself for not succumbing to the flaws of the people who provided you with your GENES. It's good you've found refuge in Sikhi. I guess it's the difference between trying to retain some semblance of sanity and completely going off the rails. You should find a woman to marry. You're still young. There's 50 year old guys who consider themselves munde ripe for marriage, lol. Find a small place of your own, find a woman, and get on with it, because I guarantee if you let your current situation simmer as it is, you'll wake up at 50, realise your life has been wasted, and you'll want to put a shotgun in your mouth. Be strong, be forceful, put your foot down.

Yup true. 39 is not too old to get married as a man. I know of many women who cause their son to divorce their wives. Why is it so common in our culture? I know so many punjabi mother in laws destroying their son's marriage out of jealousy from the wife. It is insane. 

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