Indian Culture Versus Gurmat(Khalsa) Culture And Making Leaders

[Kaurr]

1 hour ago, shastarSingh said:

She called me 420.

She shouted at me.

Gave me no spousal support.

Mocked my security job as low status.

Used to take some part of little money I earned in Canada.

But she gave me good food.

Her father is a tharrkee missionary bhainchod.

bro you can do better than her, have some self respect if she was not willing to change

[shastarSingh]

2 hours ago, Kaurr said:

oh tendulkar was extremely selfish

I think Sunil gavaskar might hv made tendulkar selfish. He must hv told him to score 80-100 international centuries.

Tendulkar as a 20 year old was a very attacking batsman with all the shots.

[shastarSingh]

2 hours ago, Kaurr said:

oh tendulkar was extremely selfish

watch a few videos on youtube, can't find them now, but those of Bradman playing. The way he played, especially with no helmet and protection, absolutely amazing. He used to get a gold ball and hit it against a tank with a stump for a really long time, mad reflexes.

Did sir Garfield sobers also practice with golf ball?

He was the most talented all round cricketer than even Bradman?

I think Ian chappell said bradman was a selfish human being???? Am I right??

[MisterrSingh]

3 hours ago, shastarSingh said:

She called me 420.

She shouted at me.

Gave me no spousal support.

Mocked my security job as low status.

Used to take some part of little money I earned in Canada.

But she gave me good food.

Her father is a tharrkee missionary bhainchod.

She was trying to get a reaction out of you to see if you cared. Women play these little games to test the limits. A good and regular seeing to could've papered over the cracks for a while. Forget what her dad was; if you'd won her over with a combination of charm and a bit of male forcefulness, her dad could've been Hitler for all you cared. If she isn't married again, reconcile with her. Don't wait for your parents to take the lead, because it's obvious they don't give a 5hit about your future. Forget this "woe is me" attitude. The past is gone. The only way I would never take a woman back in your situation is if she was messing with another guy. In your situation it was a combination of your mother's mischief making and your timidity. These are solvable issues that don't dent your masculine pride if you bring her home again.

[shastarSingh]

2 hours ago, shastarSingh said:

I gave her the option to come and live with me in punjab. I didn't divorce her when I left Canada.

She told her her family and friends that

1. I m a mad man due to the medicine I take.

2. I just sleep whole day and do no work.

I worked as security guard and earned around 1500 Canada dollars per month. It was my first year in a totally new country.

Her fuddu father repeatedly told me to apply for a college lecturer job. He is a bad human being. He speaks against Dasam Bani and beautiful rehits like Sarbloh. He thinks he knows everything but he knows NOTHING.

@MisterrSingh what do you say about this ?

[MisterrSingh]

1 minute ago, shastarSingh said:

@MisterrSingh what do you say about this ?

They pull that nonsense when they know they'll get away with it. You probably told her once that you were sleeping after a shift, and to her feeble Punjabi mind she translated it to you sleeping all day. As for the dad, who cares? Muzzies catch, convert, and marry girls whose fathers believe in other religions! That doesn't stop the girls they get from singing from the same sheet as their husbands. Why? The uncompromising forthrightness of the Muz male tells the woman she needs to fall in line and forget whatever beliefs her parents hold.

[shastarSingh]

1 minute ago, MisterrSingh said:

They pull that nonsense when they know they'll get away with it. You probably told her once that you were sleeping after a shift, and to her feeble Punjabi mind she translated it to you sleeping all day. As for the dad, who cares? Muzzies catch, convert, and marry girls whose fathers believe in other religions! That doesn't stop the girls they get from singing from the same sheet as their husbands. Why? The uncompromising forthrightness of the Muz male tells the woman she needs to fall in line and forget whatever beliefs her parents hold.

How do I know now if she is not with some other man??

She has told family, friends, lawyers, judges that I m a mad man and even told judge that I hv schizophrenia. I just take an anti psychotic medicine and that too I hv started taking once in 2 days.

If I reconcile, how will I visit her family and friends after reconcillation as I m a mad man who sleeps all day???

[SinghPunjabSingh]

18 minutes ago, shastarSingh said:

She has told family, friends, lawyers, judges that I m a mad man and even told judge that I hv schizophrenia.

I just take an anti psychotic medicine and that too I hv started taking once in 2 days.

If I reconcile, how will I visit her family and friends after reconcillation as I m a mad man who sleeps all day???

Anti-psychotic medicines are used to treat schizophrenia (unless perhaps you were diagnosed with bipolar which I think they also treat?)

Schizophrenia or bipolar does not mean that you are mad but it does mean that prescribed anti-psychotic medication can help you live a more constructive and productive life.

[Kaurr]

1 hour ago, shastarSingh said:

Did sir Garfield sobers also practice with golf ball?

He was the most talented all round cricketer than even Bradman?

I think Ian chappell said bradman was a selfish human being???? Am I right??

Bradman was a good batter, but not a good person, especially after he retired. Didn't care about the players.

[shastarSingh]

54 minutes ago, SinghPunjabSingh said:

Anti-psychotic medicines are used to treat schizophrenia (unless perhaps you were diagnosed with bipolar which I think they also treat?)

Schizophrenia or bipolar does not mean that you are mad but it does mean that prescribed anti-psychotic medication can help you live a more constructive and productive life.

My psychiatrist is a good doctor and human being and he made it clear to me that I don't hv schizophrenia.

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I m just lazy. 

I drive cars. Take care of phones, do the online buying and paying bill stuff. I read books, I talk nicely with my friends. I don't shout at anyone. I never even shouted on my wife.