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That's their choice. I personally hope they have a very happy life together, away from narrow-minded prejudiced people.

well i though sikhi doesnt suppot homosexuality? anyways, wat i mean at the very least IS, that they better not have had a anand karaj/marraige ceremony at the gurdwara, coz thats the final straw and indication, that the world has gone mad! Men and women can only marry each other infront of our gurus and sikh can only marry sikh, i didnt think this was a very instruction from our gurus. seems like it is.

Edit: "wat i wanted 2 write was;

i didnt think this was a very HARD/DIFFICULT instruction from our gurus."

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This is the second time , its happening !

Don't know if their marriage is because of actual lesbianism , or is it some womens way of forming unions among themselves to protect in a harsh alpha male world .

Imagine if it were two gay guys doing this marriage ? society wouldn't have ever allowed it ..

reason being female sexuality is taken light "Oh , they're just playing games who cares!"

When its about gays , then "These sickos , they being apney ( i.e men ) are indulging in such perversions , lets beat them to get them str8"

People need to be symphatetic with gays . Imagine if you hate them so much , how much they must be holding themselves in contempt , probably for something they never chose !?

Apart from external homophobia , there is lot of internalized homophobia ( self-loathing ) which makes any homosexual person's life miserable ... :no:

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well i though sikhi doesnt suppot homosexuality? anyways, wat i mean at the very least IS, that they better not have had a anand karaj/marraige ceremony at the gurdwara, coz thats the final straw and indication, that the world has gone mad! Men and women can only marry each other infront of our gurus and sikh can only marry sikh, i didnt think this was a very instruction from our gurus. seems like it is.

Sorry people, i meant 2 say "i didnt think this was a very HARD/DIFFICULT instruction from our gurus".

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This is the second time , its happening !

Don't know if their marriage is because of actual lesbianism , or is it some womens way of forming unions among themselves to protect in a harsh alpha male world .

Imagine if it were two gay guys doing this marriage ? society wouldn't have ever allowed it ..

reason being female sexuality is taken light "Oh , they're just playing games who cares!"

When its about gays , then "These sickos , they being apney ( i.e men ) are indulging in such perversions , lets beat them to get them str8"

People need to be symphatetic with gays . Imagine if you hate them so much , how much they must be holding themselves in contempt , probably for something they never chose !?

Apart from external homophobia , there is lot of internalized homophobia ( self-loathing ) which makes any homosexual person's life miserable ... :no:

bro jus for the record, i dont hate HOMO's,but its jus that i dont agree with their actions and beliefs regarding their sexuality

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I believe homosexuals should have equal rights, be viewed as human beings just like everyone else, but they can't get married under Sikh values. As Sikhs you drop your personal desires and go through Anand Karaj (same sex can not go through Anand Karaj).

As long as they are clear they are not Sikhs then it's fine.

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I believe homosexuals should have equal rights, be viewed as human beings just like everyone else, but they can't get married under Sikh values. As Sikhs you drop your personal desires and go through Anand Karaj (same sex can not go through Anand Karaj).

As long as they are clear they are not Sikhs then it's fine.

thats wat i reckon too, but i get the feelin these girls hav had an anand karaj, which is y i feel disgusted at this, i doubt they had sum crappy registry marriage, dont u agree?

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They can do what they want as long as the Sikh faith is not disparaged.

As much as some of us don't like it, homosexuals are humans beings and from time to time they also wish to experience the 'mazaa' of life as well. Doesn't mean we have to embrace them with open arms but as sensible, tolerant individuals we should just live and let live.

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I believe homosexuals should have equal rights, be viewed as human beings just like everyone else, but they can't get married under Sikh values. As Sikhs you drop your personal desires and go through Anand Karaj (same sex can not go through Anand Karaj).

As long as they are clear they are not Sikhs then it's fine.

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thats wat i reckon too, but i get the feelin these girls hav had an anand karaj,

Sri Akal Takht Sahib issued a notice recently that same sex mariage cannot be performed by Anand Karaj, so i doubt very much they have got married in a gurdwara.

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bro jus for the record, i dont hate HOMO's,but its jus that i dont agree with their actions and beliefs regarding their sexuality

Why does it matter what you think of them ? Your beliefs are limited to you only .. not everyone will agree with your beliefs about their beliefs .

I know as a matter of fact that what I feel so deeply connected to ! I have many friends who are girls . I laugh with them and joke with them . But thats where it ends . People wonder if I have a girlfriend in my life . For the purpose of fooling this jagg , I do joking with the girls ..

There is one : a physical attraction and another , a sexual attraction . Both are not the same always .

For instance , as a man when you see another man who is well groomed on a marriage reception ( I was just at one a few hours back :biggrin2: ) , you compliment him and praise his looks . When a heterosexual women sees the same man , she just not only praise his looks but yearns him .

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Sri Akal Takht Sahib issued a notice recently that same sex mariage cannot be performed by Anand Karaj, so i doubt very much they have got married in a gurdwara.

my friend thats all gud n well, BUT as sikhs we ARE NOT allowed 2 marry non-believers, YET, here in the uk/us/canada/panjab u c so many apnay marrying non-belivers, in the presence of our gurus, wen they have forbidden it. Wat im tryna say bro is, gyanis these days will do anything for a big payday, so i wudnt b suprised if they gave a financial backhander 2 a giani, 2 quietly look the other way.

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They can do what they want as long as the Sikh faith is not disparaged.

As much as some of us don't like it, homosexuals are humans beings and from time to time they also wish to experience the 'mazaa' of life as well. Doesn't mean we have to embrace them with open arms but as sensible, tolerant individuals we should just live and let live.

Everyone experiences it bro !

I have noticed whenever topic of gayism is popped up by some member , everyone goes like "we need to move beyond kaam " , whether be it between opposite sex or same sex.

All these are play of words used by same people who themselves are

They can do what they want as long as the Sikh faith is not disparaged.

As much as some of us don't like it, homosexuals are humans beings and from time to time they also wish to experience the 'mazaa' of life as well. Doesn't mean we have to embrace them with open arms but as sensible, tolerant individuals we should just live and let live.

They can do what they want as long as the Sikh faith is not disparaged.

As much as some of us don't like it, homosexuals are humans beings and from time to time they also wish to experience the 'mazaa' of life as well. Doesn't mean we have to embrace them with open arms but as sensible, tolerant individuals we should just live and let live.

Its true that many homosexual relationships don't tend to be life long , atleast from what I seen though I 've also seen many committed ones also , the ones being 'Chris Hughes' co-founder of facebook .

This makes one wonder homosexuals are sex-freaks and not interested in long-term commitment in relationship . What is the reasson ?

1) homosexuals , by virtue of their sexuality , are unable to form life-long commited relationship

OR

2) The four institutions of

FAMILY

RELIGION

SOCIETY

GOVT.

don't recognise the validity or enjoin sanctity on homosexual relations , thereby making even homosexuals feel that they are lesser beings and their relations are lesser of worth .

Only if we actually expected gay people to have life long relations , I am sure many would have been in monogamous or commited relations .

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