it turns out she was forced out of the refuge by the courts in Pakistan after the muslim family appealed the fact that she was in the refuge for 12 months . You can imagine her in-laws will take what kind of revenge for imprisonment of older son as terrorist. Why didn't anyone arrange a passport for her and shipped her to India or Canada? seems the refuge prevented her from having free access to her family members otherwise she could have withstood the pressure. This refuge has a reputation for forcing hindu and sikh girls to go to their kidnappers
While what OP said is not in agreement with Gurmat but at least we Sikhs have the moral backbone to say so. Even the OP said what he said out of frustration after seeing how Sikhs are treated in Islamic counties. While we Sikhs are helping Muslims, building mosques for them in India, sheltering and feeding Kashmiri youth outside of Kashmir who were being targeted by Hindu radicals, protecting Muslim girls by personally escorting them to their parent's homes, feeding langar to Indian Muslims against the wishes of Hindus, what have your people done to reciprocate these friendly gestures of the Sikhs? We are still a target for conversions, Mullas in Pakistan want to tear down the statue of M Ranjit Singh in Lahore, they lament the decision of creating Kartarpur Gurdwara because they say it is against Islamic teachings?
Pak army and ISI is more far sighted. They know to wisdom of trying to forge a strategic alliance with the Sikhs but your Mullahs and their fan base cannot overlook their primitive mindset.