limit of "NINDA"

[wahgrrru]

Sangat jio ,

just want to ask that what actualy ninda is about . . ??? Sometimes we are totally unaware that we are doing ninda !!! :o

[VanHelsingh]

From what I understand of nindya, it is to do with gossiping about or slandering somebody. The key issue is that even if you justify nindya with "It's true" it is still nindya.

Although what confuses me is if you were talking about somebody, and for example, you were telling a friend or relative to be careful of someone with dubious intentions or motivations would that still be classed as nindya? Can saying something as innocuous as "Be careful" be classed as nindya?!?

[SunSingh]

if there is a real need for what you are saying, then it is not nindya but a warning. look in your heart to know if your intentions are pure.

[sabnakeerenka]

From what I understand of nindya, it is to do with gossiping about or slandering somebody. The key issue is that even if you justify nindya with "It's true" it is still nindya.

Although what confuses me is if you were talking about somebody, and for example, you were telling a friend or relative to be careful of someone with dubious intentions or motivations would that still be classed as nindya? Can saying something as innocuous as "Be careful" be classed as nindya?!?

I would just say don't say anything that doesn't need to be said. If Guru Ji was standing next to you, and he heard what you were saying...would he approve? I kind of take it to mean don't gossip or slander anyone purely for kicks/enjoyment/to taint their image/reputation. But, if you're genuinely concerned or worried about a family member's or friend's interactions with someone...I would say that's ok?

[Wingz23]

u chat about someone and they will chat about you... KARMA.... Judge youself before judging the rest of the people aorund you