Jump to content

Kind of weird (prepare to laugh?)


Guest hehety
 Share

Recommended Posts

Guest hehety

Alright here is my story, it is quite odd.

I am a fitness nut, and have transformed myself from a 120 lb twig to a muscular 200 lbs over about 6-7 years. I am very dedicated to weight lifting etc.

Anyways, at my gym there is an owner of a fairly large supplement company. He approached me while I was working out... and he told me he'd love to sponsor me due to my physique and my unique look (I was so happy/shocked). Sponsorship would entitle free supplements, and potential future opportunities in the fitness related field etc.

Heres the deal breaker... I have some hair on my chest... he said to just clean it up a bit and we would be good to go. I told him of my faith and he apologized...and then revoked his offer, he gave me his phone number. He called me later and once again apologized but told me that the chest hair hides definition and wouldn't work.

As of now I am not going to do it, because I feel like it breaks my Sikhi. On the other hand would removing JUST some of my chest hair be that big of a deal? I have never ever considered removing any hair from my body before this.

It is kind of embarrassing... I know it is wrong to do because all hairs are of equal value. It is just I feel I may be shutting off a once in a life time opportunity by doing this.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I think it would be a big deal as intentional removing of us is considered a kurheit in Sikhi unless it was a legitimate accident. That doesn't mean you say you're going to cut your dastaar and accidentally shave off your chest.

I mean you got Singhs in MMA now with full chest hair. I think it's manly and looks better than looking like a plastic ken doll and doesn't really effect you in any way.

I remember going swimming with some friends years ago at a friend's house. One of my gora friends decided to shave his arm pit, but stopped halfway because he changed his mind half way lol. Just to make it even he did the same exact thing to the other side. We made fun of him for it for the longest time. Probably still remembers it lol.

I understand you'd get free supplements and all, but it's up to you in the end to weigh out the decision and see what's more important to you.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

now that u've explained to the guy?...,,,can u imagine urself going back with hanged down head/embarrassed smile........um i've changed my mind...the faith is no longer an issue........what does that say about u? pushover?.........also what if next the guy says. better without beard, or trimmed looks better.....n u bring out the faith thing again.......what's the guy supposed to think?..........possibly give the guy more incentives, im pretty sure the faith issue will go away.........

The point is if u give in once, and u know its wrong and u feel the guilt.....it's hard man,no escape.

Someone told me, "if u have no feeling of guilt or doubt that what ur doing is wrong, then do it. no matter what it is, it won't even effect ur karma(as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else,cause then it gets complicated).

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
 Share

  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt


  • Topics

  • Posts

    • Net pay after taxes. If you don't agree, think about this: If you were a trader and started off in China with silk that cost 100 rupees and came to India, and you had to pay total 800 rupees taxes at every small kingdom along the way, and then sold your goods for 1000 rupees, you'd have 100 rupees left, right? If your daswandh is on the gross, that's 100 rupees, meaning you have nothing left. Obviously, you owe only 10% of 100, not 10% of 1000. No, it's 10% before bills and other expenses. These expenses are not your expenses to earn money. They are consumption. If you are a business owner, you take out all expenses, including rent, shop electricity, cost of goods sold, advertising, and government taxes. Whatever is left is your profit and you owe 10% of that.  If you are an employee, you are also entitled to deduct the cost of earning money. That would be government taxes. Everything else is consumption.    
    • No, bro, it's simply not true that no one talks about Simran. Where did you hear that? Swingdon? The entire Sikh world talks about doing Simran, whether it's Maskeen ji, Giani Pinderpal Singh, Giani Kulwant Singh Jawaddi, or Sants. So what are you talking about? Agreed. Agreed. Well, if every bani were exactly the same, then why would Guru ji even write anything after writing Japji Sahib? We should all enjoy all the banis. No, Gurbani tells you to do Simran, but it's not just "the manual". Gurbani itself also has cleansing powers. I'm not saying not to do Simran. Do it. But Gurbani is not merely "the manual". Reading and singing Gurbani is spiritually helpful: ਪ੍ਰਭ ਬਾਣੀ ਸਬਦੁ ਸੁਭਾਖਿਆ ॥  ਗਾਵਹੁ ਸੁਣਹੁ ਪੜਹੁ ਨਿਤ ਭਾਈ ਗੁਰ ਪੂਰੈ ਤੂ ਰਾਖਿਆ ॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ The Lord's Bani and the words are the best utterances. Ever sing hear and recite them, O brother and the Perfect Guru shall save thee. Pause. p611 Here Guru ji shows the importance of both Bani and Naam: ਆਇਓ ਸੁਨਨ ਪੜਨ ਕਉ ਬਾਣੀ ॥ ਨਾਮੁ ਵਿਸਾਰਿ ਲਗਹਿ ਅਨ ਲਾਲਚਿ ਬਿਰਥਾ ਜਨਮੁ ਪਰਾਣੀ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ The mortal has come to hear and utter Bani. Forgetting the Name thou attached thyself to other desires. Vain is thy life, O mortal. Pause. p1219 Are there any house manuals that say to read and sing the house manual?
    • All of these are suppositions, bro. Linguists know that, generally, all the social classes of a physical area speak the same language, though some classes may use more advanced vocabulary. I'm talking about the syntax. That is, unless the King is an invader, which Porus was not. When you say Punjabi wasn't very evolved, what do you mean? The syntax must have been roughly the same. As for vocabulary, do you really think Punjabis at the time did nothing more than grunt to express their thoughts? That they had no shades of meaning? Such as hot/cold, red/yellow/blue, angry/sweet/loving/sad, etc? Why must we always have an inferiority complex?
    • I still think about that incident now and then, just haven't heard any developments regarding what happened, just like so many other things that have happened in Panjab!
    • There was a young Singh from abroad who went to Anandpur Sahib Hola and got into a fight with some Punjabis who were playing loud non-religious music. He had bana and a weapon or two. There were more of them than him.  He ended up losing his life. Don't be like that. Not worth it to fight manmukhs. @californiasardar1 ਮੂਰਖੈ ਨਾਲਿ ਨ ਲੁਝੀਐ ॥੧੯॥ Argue not with a fool. p473
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Terms of Use