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Changing face of Sikh Society

Who is a real Sikh (Singh and kaur) ?

To Whom should we call Sikh NOW?

Why Sikh girls want clean shaven to marry?

Wha'ts wrong with the Singh of GURU ?

Why we are making 12th guru ?

Are Sikh lost trust in them>

Why Newly Singh don't wanna live in Punjab ?

Why they always go out of india to settle ?

What makes singh to cut their hairs ?

Are Sikh girl ashame of Singh's Appearance ?

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" Ithe Ik Kudhi rehndi a newham ch mere gwaandi a,,,Amritdhari nai a aje..but oh kendi a....."jide wich manu mera waheguru naa dise ,,jide Sir te dastaar

na hove,, jo banda na dise..Ude naal pyaar ho te ho hooooooooooo kida jauga...she says its impossible for a sikh girl to fall in love with a guy who is not

even looking a like our Gurus without dastaar and beard.. And main b ahi sochda...Je Saadiyan dhiyaan paina ...ch ida di soch a jave ta manu nai lagda ki

sikh banda kadi kesh katal krauga.. fe ah b bura lagda hai ki ik sardar banda ik befkuv kudhi piche apna maan sammmaan gwaaa reha ha anyways

"Sardars Had always beautiful wives and princesses and Have and will always have .... "

"Sardara nu na kudhiyaa whelene di thodh, Har kudhi nu naa mile Sardar nai"

"Har full (flower) te na benda ehe, jo jasan sach kenda

bhaagaa waali hi sehje ohda pyaar nai"..


Main ki gwaaaya c monaa bankee??? Puttt Sardara da*****

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Changing face of Sikh Society

Who is a real Sikh (Singh and kaur) ?

To Whom should we call Sikh NOW?

Why Sikh girls want clean shaven to marry?

Wha'ts wrong with the Singh of GURU ?

Why we are making 12th guru ?

Are Sikh lost trust in them>

Why Newly Singh don't wanna live in Punjab ?

Why they always go out of india to settle ?

What makes singh to cut their hairs ?

Are Sikh girl ashame of Singh's Appearance ?

The main problem is disbelief in Sri Guru Granth Sahib jeeo.

People don't read, contemplate & act according to Gurbani.

That's why there is no Shanti (peace) & Anand (bliss).

As for marriage "key to happy married life - low maintenance obedient wife"

Get a God fearing Indian girl from a financially lower background.

Acd, Bcd, Ccd's don't meet the minimum requirement of Mrs ie

W - washing

I - ironing

F - food

E - entertainment

P.S - Acd ( American confused desi )

Bcd ( British " " )

Ccd ( Canadian " " )

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Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

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Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.


Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.


Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.


Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.


sorry about multiple posts.

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Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

sorry about multiple posts.

lol..paji tu ban ho jana.....

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Are the last two posts for real? Sorry I know that isn't addressing the content, but:

1. Something needs to be said, and
2. Still too dumbfounded to respond meaningfully.

If the above is any indication, apparently the serious problem clearly lies with men.

And stop suggesting there is a general disinterest in dastars. Maybe there is if you live in a bollywood screen and with certain girls. Respectful non sikh women constantly pursue fully bearded turbanned sikhs all over the world, usually respectfully declined. Yet some of us let bollywood tell us who we are.

Societal issues, yes perhaps, do discuss respectfully. Keep in mind the topic can be challenging for any young person regardless of background. But on an individual level an iota true Sikh personality and the end result is an abundance of interest from higher quality more confident women. The dastar makes a Sikh aim higher and keeps us from settling for mediocre in every aspect of life. The only challenge a Sikh man should have is being respectful in his response to abundant interest.

Don't chase. Live the simple life of a graceful, true to yourself, open minded, poet warrior and the problem will be the opposite.

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